Have you had a close friend at one time in your life that you felt close enough to be nude with and bate with? But now years later you long for this

I had a very close buddy that I shared living space with for about 2 years. We were very much part of almost every part of each other's lives. We didn't ever have any intimate contact with each other because we were both terrified that it would have damaged our relationship. I still miss him after many years. We are still in touch but live in different parts of the world.

In the distant past I did have some buddies who enjoyed wanking together and wanking each other as well as some mutual blow jobs.

A FWB would be very nice, but as one gets older it's very unlikely to happen. It's not like one can just come out with it and say ''Fancy a wank?''
 
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Its an easy question and I feel those that have had a special friendship like this will never want to give up having it again.
Yeah I do, we grew up, girls got in the way of that side of the friendship, which it naturally would which was okay, but I do miss it. A lot.

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It would be amazing to be able to say, fancy a wank again.
 
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Yeah I do, we grew up, girls got in the way of that side of the friendship, which it naturally would which was okay, but I do miss it. A lot.

@ManchesterTom
It would be amazing to be able to say, fancy a wank again.
I have found that wank buddies from my youth completely avoid ever talking about past fun. It's as if they feel threatened in some way. ''Don't talk about it and it never happened.'' I think the experiences were great and I'm not freaked out at all.
 
I have found that wank buddies from my youth completely avoid ever talking about past fun. It's as if they feel threatened in some way. ''Don't talk about it and it never happened.'' I think the experiences were great and I'm not freaked out at all.
Yeah I agree although only really had the one.

It is all hush hush now, but then we have lives etc. Be cool to be completely open about everything but that will never happen.
 
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Yes - my college roommate of four years. We became close friends very quickly and, as you might imagine at that time in our lives, sex was a frequent topic of discussion. After a few weeks we each admitted that we masturbated regularly and lamented the lack of privacy. One night after having a couple of beers, we went to bed in our respective bunks and turned out the lights. Out of the blue, he said, “fuck, I’m horny…I need to beat off.“ I chuckled and he asked, “are you going to jack off?” I said I probably would. We both proceeded to jerk off, not attempting to be quiet. After it was clear we both had cum, he asked, “did you have a good orgasm?” I told him I did, we both laughed and went to sleep. After that, we both masturbated after lights out fairly regularly - probably two or three times a week.

We compared our cocks once with the lights on. We were sitting on the floor one hot summer day, listenting to music. He said, “I’m horny.” I said, “let me see,” and he pulled his hard cock out of the leg of his gym shorts, and I did the same. We both looked at each other’s erect penises, laughed, then tucked them back into our shorts.

We both were really relaxed about nudity, as well. After showering, either or both of us would come back to our room and take our time drying off, walking around naked, picking out our clothes, etc. We both were fit then (and still are). He was (and still is) a handsome guy, with a long cock and big floppy balls.

We’re still close friends. I live in the city, he lives in the suburbs with his wife and kids, and we both lead busy lives. Even so, we get together every few months for drinks and dinner. Each time, it feels like no time has passed at all since our college days. We haven’t talked about all those times we masturbated together, but he recently told me that he missed those days of being roommates. He commented that we got along very well, were good friends, never fought, and really had a lot of fun. Of course, I told him that I feel the same way.

Of all of the friends I’ve had in my life, I am closest to him. Of course, I would love to hang naked and masturbate with him again - and I do long to do those things. While that’s unlikely to happen, I still cherish our friendship. I think we’re as close as we are because we shared that intimacy - being nude around each other and masturbating together. Taking those risks early in our friendship allowed us to be vulnerable with each other. That vulnerability exists between us today - we continue to share really personal feelings that we don’t share with others.
 
It is much more common than people think.
I had a jerk friend way back also.
I really didn't think about it for a very long time till I was around 45 or so.
Now at 58, I would very much like to have a jerk buddy. I love my wife, and she really is a great wife.
But she is post menopause of course, so her drive is way lower than mine. Be fun to have some fun with someone whose drive is equal to mine.