Have you hooked up with a straight guy?

Have you hooked up with a straight guy?


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When I was 20 I had sex with 2 friends at different times. I had already come out to them years before and both made the first move. Neither experience was great but, since both were not getting any female action, a beer or two made me a viable option. I don’t remember much but we all agreed it was a disaster so we never repeated it. This was the mid 80s and popular culture was full of gays and androgyny, misfits like use found community among the new wavers and punk rockers that hung out in Denver at the time. At the time I never felt any pushback about being gay as it appeared to be commonplace, however - the vast majority of people who looked gay by modern standards were just emo before it was a label.
 
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When I was 20 I had sex with 2 friends at different times. I had already come out to them years before and both made the first move. Neither experience was great but, since both were not getting any female action, a beer or two made me a viable option. I don’t remember much but we all agreed it was a disaster so we never repeated it. This was the mid 80s and popular culture was full of gays and androgyny, misfits like use found community among the new wavers and punk rockers that hung out in Denver at the time. At the time I never felt any pushback about being gay as it appeared to be commonplace, however - the vast majority of people who looked gay by modern standards were just emo before it was a label.
That’s interesting! From my experience, it’s surprising how many straight guys are willing to be sucked by a guy when they are horny. And I’ve messed with guys who claim to have wives and girlfriends. Or they seek me out because they know I’m gay.
 
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A lot of guys think getting a blowjob from a man isn’t gay, it’s just getting off. I kind of agree, it takes more than opportunity to be gay. Times have changed, now just thinking about it makes you gay.
 
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