I prefer the guy who carries himself like he knows he's got what I want.
I'm tall. Especially where I live. Average height for men is around 5'8" here. I'm 5'9". I'm almost always taller than my partners. My boyfriend is about an inch shorter than me.
Someone I'm attracted to but can't have fun with (he's in a monogamous relationship) is about 3 inches shorter than me and isn't "fit" physically. But he's a fuckin sexy snack I'd devour whole if his lady was ok with it.
So, yeah. Confidence and a wicked sense of humor wet me right up. I can find a short, chunky/skinny guy with a less than muscular body to be hot as fuck. I've been with the tall fit guys too. Nothing wrong with being tall or fit. But those traits aren't automatic super-soakers for my bottom half.