Help me, I need it

[smackjuicy]

Hey guys, I need some advice on foreplay before anal with my boyfriend. Despite my age and my insane luck (I’ve always ended up with guys packing some serious weapons down there), I’ve never really managed to experience extreme pleasure because, well... I’m just too tight.

Now, my boyfriend? An absolute beast. We’re talking 21 cm/8 inches, thick and intimidating. Sometimes I just look at it and think, "Oh god, there’s no way," which, of course, only makes me tense up more.

What really turns me on, though, is being put in my place — getting treated a bit rough, you know? I’m really into SPH because I don’t have anything close to what he’s working with, and that contrast just drives me wild. But obviously, that kind of mindset makes things even trickier physically. So I’m looking for something that can actually help mechanically — any solid tips to make things easier and actually enjoy the ride?

Thank you geezzz

 

[engineer805]

Practice with dildos of ever-increasing size. Like any other muscles, the sphincter will slowly stretch.

 

[Aphradight]

Scale up with toys. If they are a good top they will hopefully have some techniques to loosen you up

 

[MagicMike77]

Hey guys, I need some advice on foreplay before anal with my boyfriend. Despite my age and my insane luck (I’ve always ended up with guys packing some serious weapons down there), I’ve never really managed to experience extreme pleasure because, well... I’m just too tight.

Now, my boyfriend? An absolute beast. We’re talking 21 cm/8 inches, thick and intimidating. Sometimes I just look at it and think, "Oh god, there’s no way," which, of course, only makes me tense up more.

What really turns me on, though, is being put in my place — getting treated a bit rough, you know? I’m really into SPH because I don’t have anything close to what he’s working with, and that contrast just drives me wild. But obviously, that kind of mindset makes things even trickier physically. So I’m looking for something that can actually help mechanically — any solid tips to make things easier and actually enjoy the ride?

Thank you geezzz

PRACTICE with dildos and butt plugs. You might be “tight” now, but keep in mind that you’ll always be tight because the sphincter will always slam shut to keep you from literally losing your shit (unless you put things up your ass that cause serious damage). The bottoms you see taking it and loving it in gay porn videos aren’t any physically different than you, they just have learned how to take it. Use lots of lube, GENTLY insert a dildo a few inches, slowly pull it out, then insert it again this time going a little further, pull it almost all the way out, and continue this insert and almost remove action slowly over and over until it’s all the way in. Once it’s all the way in just hold it in place, it will hurt some, but while you’re holding it in place the pain will turn to pleasure. If you take it slow and gentle until the pleasure kicks in you’ll be all set to begin shoving it in and out faster and harder, he pleasure will be overwhelming. You might get a big boner, or you might stay limp, don’t worry about that, just focus on your hole for now. Your best bet is to buy a dildo with a suction cup base, that way you can stick it to something and ride it hands free, which leaves your hands free for jerking off. Don’t stop using the dildo until you cum, because shooting off with a dildo or a dick rubbing against your prostate will be a new level of pleasure that will blow your mind. Before you let your boyfriend bang you, have him fuck you with a dildo. It will make you more comfortable and extremely horny, and he will love watching you jerk off while he rams your hot hole with it. There’s nothing wrong with wanting him to dominate you when he fucks you, just make sure he is going to take it easy if you tell him to. If your hole is properly trained you’ll have no trouble letting him screw you stupid, in fact you’ll likely be begging for it harder and faster.

 

[Lil dog]

Hey guys, I need some advice on foreplay before anal with my boyfriend. Despite my age and my insane luck (I’ve always ended up with guys packing some serious weapons down there), I’ve never really managed to experience extreme pleasure because, well... I’m just too tight.

Now, my boyfriend? An absolute beast. We’re talking 21 cm/8 inches, thick and intimidating. Sometimes I just look at it and think, "Oh god, there’s no way," which, of course, only makes me tense up more.

What really turns me on, though, is being put in my place — getting treated a bit rough, you know? I’m really into SPH because I don’t have anything close to what he’s working with, and that contrast just drives me wild. But obviously, that kind of mindset makes things even trickier physically. So I’m looking for something that can actually help mechanically — any solid tips to make things easier and actually enjoy the ride?

Thank you geezzz

my advice is don't. older you will appreciate it

 

[bravesoldier]

I'll share my experience which I'm sure is common.

Has your hole ever experienced stretch from a penis so thick that you felt the powerful sphincter muscle temporarily gave up? That is what happened to me with my super hung, thick cocked buddy. I wouldn't let him fuck me for a year, then decided in extreme horniness I was going to take his cock no matter what. To my utter astonishment when he got in me it literally seemed like that powerful muscle immediately surrendered because his cock was so much thicker than the amount of rebellion of my sphincter muscle. Quite a few other guys I have talked to say the same thing. I honestly believe the muscle will temporarily give way and let a cock that large have its way.

So, if you haven't, let a super thick cocked dude fuck you and see what happens. It sounds backward, but big cock is easier to take that slim cock for that reason.

The other aspect of taking cock easier is truly breaking your hole in. Once you have truly broken yourself in, cock will go in easier. One thing that doesn't change (for me) is slow entry is always a must. I had a friend get carried away one night, shoved his cock in all at once the first time and like to have killed me.