homoerotic behavior

[ZuhayrKhan27]

I have a friend, we are more like brothers (we do refer as such). When we first started becoming really close he would text me when we hadn't hungout in a few days and say "I miss you, do you miss me?" After I told him I loved him as my little bro once, the words "I love you" were comfortably used to end conversations and other warranted times. Hugging, butt-slaps, laying a head on the others shoulder are all in our arsenal of affection. Since we met on the wrestling team we often wrestle one another, especially when he tries me to see who is the "big brother"- I always win lol.

Since I find most of the above normal brotherly love and affection that should be a common staple in intimate male relationships....one (of a fee, but I'm not innocent either) homoerotic situation with him was not long after we first became friends. One day in wrestling practice we wrestled and he pinned me, but instead of getting up he laid on top of me crotch to upper-thigh. The coach called his name after several seconds he still didn't get up. Then the team started to snicker, the coach called him again- no movement. The coach chuckled and called him again he finally got up.

He has on several occasions told me I had "a lot" or a "phat" Ass- he has a nice ass himself. Were so comfortable with each other, we don't mind each other randomly going through each others phone, one time I found some Ass shots and one of his hole.....- I still question that finding even though he gets tons of girls.

Any more updates on this?

 

[ZuhayrKhan27]

Really great thread, I have many stories...mostly from high school. I went to an all-male boarding school so 'homoeroticism' was pretty rife!

It was not unusual to find boys sitting on each other boys laps in communal areas where seating was scarce. However on one particularly intimate occasion my best friend (who I was somewhat in love with at the time..though he did not know this and is straight) sat on my lap but with his face facing mine. We just looked at each other and smiled, what was particularly hot about it was that we were in a busy common room, yet for that moment it was just me and him.

On another occasion we were on a school day trip and had been out and about since the early hours of the morning so come the late afternoon everyone was pretty tired. We were in an art gallery and I was looking at a piece of art and the same boy came up behind me and just rested his chin on my sholder made some comments about the painting and just stayed there like that for a whiel. I could sense his fatigue and exhaustion and his need to rest his head somewhere. I felt so honoured he chose my sholder, and was also hoping that people around us were assuming we were a gay couple! ha.

I also remember aged 14, having my first crush on this guy who would sit next to me in History. He was/is one of the best looking men I've ever met and has unsurprisingly gone on to become quite a succesful model. Anyway I always suspected he knew that I was attracted to him and played upon it. Whenever we sat next to each other he would put his thigh over mine and hook his leg around and leave it like that for the whole lesson. The feeling was so great. He would also randomly grab my hand and hold it tightly. I remember one time he hadn't done the homework so I offered to walk all the way to his boarding house on a sunday night and give him mine to copy. When I gave it to him he said thank you so sincerely, hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I was so taken aback by this gesture that I literally shed a tear!


More recently I was chilling at a mate's house (Who is straight and has had the same girlfriend for about 4 years) it got late and it was decided I stay the night there. We shared the same bed and in the middle of the night my friend wraps his arms arond me, holds me tight and kisses me tenderly and repeatedly in his sleep! I told him about it a few days later, he apologises and says that he's so used to sleeping with his girlfriend that he on occasion does that with other people he happens to be sharing the bed with.

I liked that art gallery part

 

[ZuhayrKhan27]

3 situations immediately come to mind:
1. Playing basketball. You guard a guy in the post by pushing your forearm into the guys back, and he tries to back you down by pushing his ass into your crotch / stomach, and you push back with your crotch / stomach. On rebounds, you box out by again pushing your ass into the other guys crotch, and reaching back with your hand touching his hip or stomach. Lots of sweaty skin to skin contact, particularly when playing without shirts.
2. Wrestling. Without a doubt the most homoerotic sport, with true crotch grabs, grinding, even your head being scissor-locked into another guys crotch. Erections on 100% straight guys is not an uncommon thing
3. Chicken fights in the pool. Nothing better than having some guys junk pressed against your neck, your head bumping into his abs, while holding on to his bare thighs.

Anybody has any wrestling stories and chicken fight stories to share?

 

[ZuhayrKhan27]

I worked with a hot/handsome straight married man, who knew I was gay. His wife also worked there. One day he asked me if he could be my work husband. I said sure, so every morning we'd say "Good morning work husband." to each other.

I'd say our relationship was a true Bro-mance. We truly enjoyed hanging out with each other, both in the office and away from the office. He never saw my cock, we never had sex, but he made several nice comments about my bulge. I think if I had gotten him drunk, I could have gotten him in bed, but that's not how I operate and I respected his wife too much. We don't work together anymore, but we're still good friends.

Any update on this?

 

[ZuhayrKhan27]

at a bar my friend was there with his wife and followed me into the bathroom and put his chin on my shoulder when i was pissing to ask what we were going to do late..i was in shock he did that...later when he went to piss i did the same to him

Nice

 

[ZuhayrKhan27]

Spent a night in a hotel with this same buddy. Went to a party and both got completely hammered. I remember smoking pot later that night. I don't remember much else. When I woke up I saw him walking from his bed to the bathroom, naked from waist down and a semi bobbing as he made his way to the bathroom. He took a leak and came back in and saw me awake and threw his pants on. Nothing was noticed or said.

Nice

 

[Clrwtrdlbud71-fl]

Bromatic instead maybe, but cool, practically maude him loose his train of thought. Almost inaudible the reported jests "is that legal?" and he responds "I don't know, I dont care, it was worth it". Then no hesitation to "best kiss ever"
Time code 1:41

 

[diegomendosa]

I had a “friend” who, when he went through episodes of working out, spent a great deal of time flexing randomly whenever we hung out and insisted I assess his progress by feeling whatever muscles he was flexing at the time. Chest, biceps, abs, thighs (in fact he told me to be careful while I was feeling his thigh because I “might give” him a “stiff one”).

He always got more open with his affections toward me when he was drunk. Walk down the street with his arm around my shoulder, pulling me close. Hugging me close. And it never failed, when he was drunk he sit close next to me and his hand always found its way to my thigh where he rested it comfortably when he wasn't stroking the thigh or lightly caressing right up to the edge of my crotch.

I was driving his drunk ass home one time and his hand literally rested ON my crotch. I moved his hand, he put it right back.

What really pisses me off is he claimed to be straight. Yet I was the one making things “weird” when I addressed his intoxicated liberal approaches to feeling me up or trying to get me to feel him up (he often couldn't ambulate independently when he drank).

My insisting on observing my body’s physical boundaries is what “ruined” the friendship. Apparently, being non-hetero and not submitting to him feeling me up was “making it weird.”

 

[diegomendosa]

I took a plane from London back to NYC this weekend. On the long flight I had a window seat, a father and son sat next to me. The father took the aisle seat, and the son took the middle seat between us. The son was a big 6"2' gangly teenager, about 18, with a big mop of blond hair, and baggy clothes. The dad was a button up guy in his mid 40's. Both English and very polite. We exchanged hellos and went about our business before they dimmed the lights for the flight. The son put on big noise canceling headphones.

Towards the end of the flight they turned the lights back on. The father and I woke up while the son was still sleeping with the big headphones on. As the father and I woke we exchanged nods. At the same time we both looked down and noticed the son's very obvious boner throbbing up and down, sticking up in his light blue bagging mesh gym shorts. You could basically see everything in the outline of those mesh shorts, the kid had a fire hose of a cock. It stuck straight up, then curved forward from pushing against the mesh shorts, showing off the very visible line of the edge of his cock head. It bobbed up and down as the young man snored away.

The father and I, both still half asleep, looked down at it awestruck and surprise for a few seconds, taking it all in. (This kid was hung, 8" or so). Then we both looked back at each other to see if the other had seen it, in sort of shock and embarrassment, (for ourselves for looking, and embarrassed for his son). We both instinctively stole another quick glance down, then back up at each other, like we were somehow both complicit in a dirty secret, still very much in shock. We looked at each other, and we both just started laughing, as his son snored.

We chuckled and he whispered something about remembering 'those teenage days'... 'ah to be young' etc. I said 'We should probably wake him up before the stewardess comes by with breakfast', and we both laughed again. It was funny, once the shock wore off we were just talking about this boner, 12" form out faces, like it was nothing at all. I wondered at the time if this was the first time he'd seen his son's hard cock. Eventually, as it showed no signs of going down the father nudged his son and said 'Thomas, time to wake up' The son sort of stirred, noticed his plump bulge in shock and tried to cover it with his forearm as he wiped some drool from his mouth, while his dad and I looked away, neither of us wanting to make the kid feel self conscious. When we got off the flight the dad and I shook hands like old friends and said good meeting you, both suppressing laughs.

Wow, not sure who's the bigger creep- you or the dad. Kudos on ensuring you included the point that the son was “about 18” thus freeing you from any implications that you are a creep since, hey, he looked 18 right?

I don't know one well-adjusted father who would bond with a random person over his sleeping son’s erection that the random person obviously had been shamelessly ogling.

“Dirty little secrets” like this aren't hot or cool. They are predatory and disgusting.

 

[ZuhayrKhan27]

This past weekend I finally took my car in for servicing to my usual garage. Billy, the owner, agreed to take it in on Friday before closing, so he could work on it and return it by Monday morning. My plan was to drop it off and jog back the four miles to home, so I was wearing a tank top and white running briefs with my joggers. As I started out, a predicted downpour started out sooner than I anticipated, and within 10 minutes, I was completely saturated. As I cursed my timing, a black lifted pickup truck pulled along side, and the guy opened his window. It was Lance, the apprentice mechanic from the garage, whom I only briefly dealt with for car servicing. He told me to hop in before I drown, so that was an inviting option, as I pulled myself up into his cab. The Neoprene seat cover grabbed at my briefs as I slid in, popping my balls out. Pulling my briefs back didn't do much, since they were just about transparent from the soaking a second before, and everything was exposed.

Lance kind of snickered, when I happened to notice that he was driving with his work coveralls unzipped and pulled down below his waist. I knew that he worked out at the same gym, and at 22, retained his solid built from his HS wrestling days . What I didn't notice till now was the tribal tattoo that encircles his chest and back, extending down to his right thigh. He had a can of beer resting in his crotch, which only highlighted his exposed pubes.

"Wanna beer?" he asked as he lifted his body and twisted to reach the back seat, at which point I was now staring at the top of his cock. He turned around and dropped a cold can between my legs, along with a beach towel. "Sorry if it's a bit sandy. Used it this morning after surfing."

It was just chatter the rest of the way, until I mentioned about his tatt. Lance was quite proud of his recent acquisition and seems anxious to expose it whenever he has the opportunity, like he driving around after work. As we pulled in to my place, he obviously wanted to show all of it to me, and proceeded to lower his coveralls to his knees. The tatt went further around his right cheek and continued to circle his thigh, just below the groin area, ending on his shin. He was trying to tell me how it was a friend's original design with a Hawaiian motif, but I really just noticed his semi laying across his lap.

Needless to say, I quickly hopped out and thanked him for the ride and beer, hoping he didn't notice my full on erection poking out of the top of my briefs. I actually think that he's as straight as they come, but vanity can cloud the judgement. Not that I was complaining...

Nice

 

[ZuhayrKhan27]

just remembered this moment from a couple of years ago. anyone older who goes to a gym nowadays knows that for the most part younger guys are much more modest about nudity than in earlier times. "Towel Dancing" and changing clothes in the shower stall, anything to avoid exposing themselves.

I was at the YMCA in the sauna by myself when in walks these two guys in just their towels, probably about 21 years old. they were sitting perpendicular to one another in the corner of the sauna. one guy had both of his legs up on the bench and his friend was just sitting next to him. guy kind of had his legs spread so his buddy next to him would have had a full view of his stuff.

At a certain point one guy decided he wanted to stretch out a abit also so he sat with his back against the wall and his legs straight out on the bench. The thing was his feet were so close to his friend, probably inches away from the guys junk as his legs were still spread. He even commented "wow we are spaced the perfect distance apart so my feet don't touch your dick"

I wasn't even pretending like i wasn't watching the whole thing.

When it got too hot both headed for the showers. This Y is the type that has a row of open shower heads, and then a row of stalls with curtains. Now anyone younger than 50 almost always goes in the stalls and closes the curtain. When I went after them to the shower, they had chosen two of the shower heads right next to each other, completely exposed. I didn't want to come off too pervy so i tried not to stare at them too hard, but at one point they were horsing around, throwing soap on each other and pushing and laughing. no modesty, not even with a stranger present

Just a super hot moment between two naked straight guys. Loved it

Is the YMCA open during pandemic?

 

[ZuhayrKhan27]

I'm enjoying this thread so I thought I'd share my experience with a mate of mine (hope it's the right place for it!)

Now I've known this guy for a good 10 years, been through a lot together and proud to call him a good mate.
He is Straight, 2 years married to a stunning woman and have 1 kid and another on the way, all content in living the straight life. Except he has a gargantuan fascination for huge cocks. He is ex-military (UK Paras, which probably explains a few things... )

To give you an idea what he looks like, a shorter version of Channing Tatum, a bit rougher round the edges, a strong defined muscular body. He is packing a thick 6" dick with an unreal amount of stamina, seriously this guy can fuck & cum like a train!

We got to know each other at a few bi fuck groups, where he always played straight but was more than happy to watch and encourage everyone to enjoy each other regardless of which way they swung. We hit it off right from the start and became good mates. We'd hang out, grab a few beers etc, or goto each others homes, have some beers, and jack off to some porn.

I noticed he always seemed to get into the 'zone' when there were hung guys on the screen and he was very verbal in that cheesy porn-talk way. It was during one of those porn & jack sessions that he confessed that he gets crazy turned on by the sight of huge dicks. He loves the way they look, get's crazy horny knowing that guys are walking about with that amount of junk, and when he sees a guy with a huge cock fucking a girl he said he simultaneously want's to be that guy AND that girl in that exact moment. Yet he has absolutely zero desire to be emotionally or physically intimate with a guy in real life. So much so, that whenever he went on assignment he'd ask me to WhatsApp him some big dick porn, vids/gifs huge dick solos, etc etc to keep him 'entertained' on tour. It wasn't long before he had added a couple of his Para buds to the chat and had a group going, and them Military lads ain't shy! Cock compares, jack-off vids, the lot came flooding into the chat, and a lot more that can best be described as Squaddie Humour....

I found the whole thing situation horny as fuck tbh. I guess everyone has their 'thing' and huge cocks was his.

I think the guy is hetero-flexible

 

[PokeAsAJoke]

Is the YMCA open during pandemic?

this was before the pandemic but mine is open currently. As far as I know the steam room and sauna are closed though

 

[mdt123p]

Mnay years back I used to get my haircut at a salon. Maybe 80% of clients were women but they also had men's haircut. My regular stylist was out on maternity so I picked a guy on their recommendation. He was very friendly and very detailed about what I wanted. My hands were hanging out on the chair rest when he moved closer and I felt his crotch brush back of my hand. I did not react and then I could feel a bulge rubbing against me. There were lots of clients around me but this was covered by the sheet. We exchanged knowing glances and I turned my hand around to grab him. He was very thin pants so I could feel everything. We spent a lot of time together..he became my regular.

 

[tominrichmond]

Bromatic instead maybe, but cool, practically maude him loose his train of thought. Almost inaudible the reported jests "is that legal?" and he responds "I don't know, I dont care, it was worth it". Then no hesitation to "best kiss ever"
Time code 1:41

What's guy's name and what show is that?

 

[utichelidon]

What's guy's name and what show is that?

the show is “Teen Wolf”; the blonde guy is Dylan Sprayberry and the kisser is Tyler Posey

 

[Alexpinn]

 

[Jasonlee16]

Sometimes I miss roommates

Sometimes I miss roommate!! He was something

 

[BeefRockmore]

Buddy staying with me is a Marine with a hairy back. We were drinking pretty good one night and he asked if I would use my good clippers on his back. Naturally it was fine. Being so physically close in a small bathroom, I could feel his body heat and the regulation haircut is just sexy.
I worked my way down his back with the clippers. As I got to the waistband of his shorts I decided to just keep going... I finally just pulled down his shorts and continued on each cheek without complaint. Then I ventured into the abyss, getting it all.
The heat from his pucker was intense. I brushed away the clippings around and over it with my fingers. I was hard as a rock. I think he wanted me to make "the move", but I chickened out. I finished the job and rushed out.
As you age, you will regret far less the things you did, versus the things you failed to do.

 

[deleted1334580]

Buddy staying with me is a Marine with a hairy back. We were drinking pretty good one night and he asked if I would use my good clippers on his back. Naturally it was fine. Being so physically close in a small bathroom, I could feel his body heat and the regulation haircut is just sexy.
I worked my way down his back with the clippers. As I got to the waistband of his shorts I decided to just keep going... I finally just pulled down his shorts and continued on each cheek without complaint. Then I ventured into the abyss, getting it all.
The heat from his pucker was intense. I brushed away the clippings around and over it with my fingers. I was hard as a rock. I think he wanted me to make "the move", but I chickened out. I finished the job and rushed out.
As you age, you will regret far less the things you did, versus the things you failed to do.

Woulda-shoulda-coulda boils down to should-have