Hooking Up With A Gay Man

[partyt0y]

As a gay man I have always had a huge fetish for married straight men.

All have been very upfront about their situation. I used to find them on Craigslist, now just on the apps.

Even now when I go on business trips, I hook up with at least one local or traveling married man.

But I always wonder why they do it? With a man.
What started it all for them. Is it the thrill, curiosity? How often.

The resounding comments I get from these men are: “wow, my wife doesn’t do that”. I’ve had repeat visitors and some who have “dated” me on the side. Surely they could find a woman who is just as uninhibited and good at oral?

Would love insight. Also, if you haven’t hooked up with a gay man, have you considered it?

 

[socalfreak]

Never have. Never would.
Creepy and disrespectful.... Kinda like you, knowing they're married and pursuing it anyway.

 

[partyt0y]

Never have. Never would.
Creepy and disrespectful.... Kinda like you, knowing they're married and pursuing it anyway.

You’re entitled to your opinion. These men would be soliciting regardless of whether I agreed to meet them or not.

No need to call me creepy or disrespectful.

 

[socalfreak]

You’re entitled to your opinion. These men would be soliciting regardless of whether I agreed to meet them or not.

No need to call me creepy or disrespectful.

No way on Earth you can make that guarantee.
And, need.. Want... Either one works
You are taking an active role in hurting somebody you don't even know.
That's pretty low.

 

[cofrader]

As a gay man I have always had a huge fetish for married straight men.

All have been very upfront about their situation. I used to find them on Craigslist, now just on the apps.

Even now when I go on business trips, I hook up with at least one local or traveling married man.

But I always wonder why they do it? With a man.
What started it all for them. Is it the thrill, curiosity? How often.

The resounding comments I get from these men are: “wow, my wife doesn’t do that”. I’ve had repeat visitors and some who have “dated” me on the side. Surely they could find a woman who is just as uninhibited and good at oral?

Would love insight. Also, if you haven’t hooked up with a gay man, have you considered it?

Please arrange your percentage since it states you are 100 straight.
Never consider it, I never needed another man for my sexual needs.
For me those man you met could be gay in closet or just bi.
I met some gay men that has an ex wife and kids, I guess on those times he wanted to fit on the standard now a days I think it wouldn’t be necessary but each one is a world.

 

[Gj816]

I think that these men are having affairs with men for the simple reason that they want to. Sometimes if a person is inclined to cheat. It is far easier to have that sexual release with another man. As opposed to all the emotional baggage that comes with having an affair with another woman.

Some men imho, are only looking to have sexual gratification. They choose to let a gay or bi man suck them off. They don't have to worry about whining and dining you like they would a woman. There's no connection other than you are gratifying the sexual desires. Baddabing baddaboom they're in they're out. No strings no nothing.

 

[partyt0y]

I think that these men are having affairs with men for the simple reason that they want to. Sometimes if a person is inclined to cheat. It is far easier to have that sexual release with another man. As opposed to all the emotional baggage that comes with having an affair with another woman.

Some men imho, are only looking to have sexual gratification. They choose to let a gay or bi man suck them off. They don't have to worry about whining and dining you like they would a woman. There's no connection other than you are gratifying the sexual desires. Baddabing baddaboom they're in they're out. No strings no nothing.

I should also clarify this isn’t just directed towards married men. Straight/curious men in general. Thanks for your insight.

 

[Gj816]

I should also clarify this isn’t just directed towards married men. Straight/curious men in general. Thanks for your insight.

I understand that. What I don't understand is why so many gay men are attracted to straight men?

What is it about straight men that gay men find so appealing? Is it the challenge or what exactly is the desire to suck a straight man's cock?

I would think there'd be too much work to be bothered by the hit or miss aspect of the whole thing.

I have the same questions about single women who are attracted to married men.

I know a woman who has never married but was always having affairs with married men. I never understood why she sought out married men as opposed to other eligible single men.

There seemed to be something about married men with families that tripped her trigger. I sorta felt for the men she's was fucking because she'd stalk them. Sometimes even going so far as to drive by their homes. She could be pretty brazen about having affairs with other women's husbands. Of course that does not excuse the husband's for cheating on their wives.

 

[partyt0y]

I understand that. What I don't understand is why so many gay men are attracted to straight men?

What is it about straight men that gay men find so appealing? Is it the challenge or what exactly is the desire to suck a straight man's cock?

I would think there'd be too much work to be bothered by the hit or miss aspect of the whole thing.

I have the same questions about single women who are attracted to married men.

I know a woman who has never married but was always having affairs with married men. I never understood why she sought out married men as opposed to other eligible single men.

There seemed to be something about married men with families that tripped her trigger. I sorta felt for the men she's was fucking because she'd stalk them. Sometimes even going so far as to drive by their homes. She could be pretty brazen about having affairs with other women's husbands. Of course that does not excuse the husband's for cheating on their wives.

Generally speaking I think some gay men are attracted to straight men because it’s the holy grail. It’s something you can’t have. Some because it’s a notch off their bucket list and others it’s simply the thrill of the chase.

I personally don’t make propositions to straight men, married or otherwise, in regular everyday settings - I’d prefer not to get punched in the face. Also, the straight men I have been with, we have a mutual understanding that this is a compartmentalized part of their private life. Should we see each other in public, we wouldn’t blink twice.

I have a lesbian friend who is very forward with her advances towards straight women and enjoys chasing them and “converting” them.

Me. I like men because their men. I watch straight porn half the time to watch straight men go primal.

Just enjoy talking about sexuality and understanding the other side.

 

[neonnn]

Why ask a forum and not the person?

 

[ronin001]

Guy wants to cheat, he will cheat. That is why there are so many divorce lawyers in the world.
People who target and help break up families, by providing easy access sex, are probably lower than lawyers.

There is enough single N S A penis in the world to go around. This goes for women as well as men

 

[thickcockjames]

Your stories are about, obvious, bisexual men, not straight men. Straight men, are not sexually attracted to, nor do they have sex with other men. Its kind of part of being straight.

 

[Hatt_101]

Never done it and never considered it