Hot wife/cuckold couples: what are most important qualities for a bull to have?

[1019487]

I’ve been curious about trying to be a bull for a couple with a cuckold arrangement for a while, but I’ve been thinking about what exactly that would entail, since it’s my first time doing it. My dick is larger than average, but not as big as some of the largest on this site, though I’ve heard around the internet that having a less-than-8” tool isn’t necessarily a deal breaker.

I guess what I’m wondering then is: what qualities in a bull are the most important for you, and if you’ve had successful encounters with one, what made them so good?

 

[asuitedguy]

It’s mostly about personal connection and respect. Each couple is different but making a good connection with personalities and being respectful of the people involved and their rules seem to be the most important in a long term situation. Your dick will certainly qualifies you for many couples out there. Keep us posted in your progress!

 

[latinluva]

My wife and I fantasize about another man in our bed. Dick size isn't high on our list, your cock would be ideal. We would want a guy who is laid back, good talker and listener and a guy that would make her feel comfortable. We haven't got to that point yet, to where we would do this....but those are our talking points on the matter.

 

[Mithridate]

Once I had an experience to be a "bull" for cuckold and his wife. He was 35, she was 32. We met at the gym.
I can't say that it was "fantastic" sex but I was satisfied) Man sucked cock much better than his wife) But wife had a very attractive shape so it was good to fuck her)
We met 2 or 3 times and than they moved on other city)

 

[lookatthat]

Just be pleasant and assertive. You're a facet of their imagination, so follow their lead. You'll be surprised at how many cues you'll be provided. They want to direct you into the role they'd like you to play, so be alert and receptive. And on the way, just be yourself. If they want you to be an aggressive asshole, it'll be apparent. If they want you to be seductive, it'll be apparent. If they want you to humiliate him and worship her, it'll be apparent.
"Bull" is a stupid term.
Also, drinks cut a whole lot of corners. Suggest martinis.
The secret bummer to this all is it ain't about you. At all. It's about their pleasure and their expectations, and if they are met through you, you'll get calls back.
It's weird at first, but if you're attracted to her and want to show her fireworks, then it all tumbles into place like second nature. It's fucking awesome until you're sent off because she loves him and this was for them and you were just a stunt dick for a while. Still though, it's fucking awesome. They expect you to be a sexual magician, so you play the role of sexual magician, and for many hours, you ARE a sexual magician. As you make her cum for the first time, the balance of things shifts a bit and the whole scenario is now yours to take control of.

fuck, I'm horny.

 

[marriedasian]

i've been here a few times as a bull for my wife's girlfriends... yes, i shamelessly did it for the sake of extra pussy but hey, i'm human and it has always been her idea, lols.

i think the most important thing that you need to keep in mind is that you are a "toy" to the couple or whomever you are fucking. no emotional attachments regardless of whatever physical act you perform. for me, deep tongue-kissing is very emotional for me and even though the girls that i fucked totally was into that and i did it, i never got attached cause i knew that i was nothing more than a "toy" that they were playing with and when it was done, they were gonna throw me away. ALWAYS keep this in mind and don't forget it!

2ndly, i would say that having total respect for the couple goes a very long, long way. remember that you are there to serve them so being able to have a good connection with them and showing respect will make the experience more enjoyable. don't be afraid to voice your opinions but always be respectful. every person is different so make sure you ask questions or concerns BEFORE you get into bed.

lastly, freakin have a fun-ass time. it's sex after all. if you can't enjoy yourself during the act then why bother? you should enjoy it as much as she/he does too. when i was bulling with my wife's girlfriends, i fucked the shit outta them and we both had a great time. some of them came back for seconds.

one caveat... before you get in bed, get your mindset in the right place cause if you don't, you may not be able to get it up. trust me, you can psych yourself out if you are not right in the head and then you will go limp and ruin the entire night.

that's all i got.

 

[1179690]

For my bulls I mostly look for someone who is pleasant, smells nice, is reliable and well endowed.. I do not need to live with the person, so unless he becomes a regular the whole relationship stays pretty superficial.

 

[travelingwilly]

We swing a little bit when we're in a horny mood.
Usually with single guys they're easier to get lol. Anyway I'm not into the whole cuck and bull thing, I like to share her but I'm not up for the being dominated part. A little tie up now and then is good but I always join in the action.
The only problem is when guys turn up and they're a lot smaller than they say they are.

 

[hzs3fg]

Confidence.

Whether a bull or just a normal lover, a confidant demeanor wins the day

 

[vamp2311]

My wife and I fantasize about another man in our bed. Dick size isn't high on our list, your cock would be ideal. We would want a guy who is laid back, good talker and listener and a guy that would make her feel comfortable. We haven't got to that point yet, to where we would do this....but those are our talking points on the matter.

Lucky, I wish my wife would let me know if she fantasies about other men.... I would let it happen!

 

[vamp2311]

I’ve been curious about trying to be a bull for a couple with a cuckold arrangement for a while, but I’ve been thinking about what exactly that would entail, since it’s my first time doing it. My dick is larger than average, but not as big as some of the largest on this site, though I’ve heard around the internet that having a less-than-8” tool isn’t necessarily a deal breaker.

I guess what I’m wondering then is: what qualities in a bull are the most important for you, and if you’ve had successful encounters with one, what made them so good?

if it was me as the husband I would want you to treat her right and giver her everything she wants that I cant. if you can rock it between the sheets and please her.... good for you!

 

[1359042]

For my bulls I mostly look for someone who is pleasant, smells nice, is reliable and well endowed.. I do not need to live with the person, so unless he becomes a regular the whole relationship stays pretty superficial.

You basically just described me! Lol. PT in the OC

 

[modensal]

I think it depends on the people involved and circumstances. If it is a random one off thing, it may be based on physicality. Otherwise, personality, self care and respect pretty much lead the way.
The latter is applicable on all instances yet may differ in priority.
And I find "bull" really repugnant.

 

[notsoshabby]

Respect

 

[Spartan727]

I definetly would communicate and make sure everyone understands. Hmmmm having a human sex toy just sounds like something I want! Lol ( thinking out loud ooopsie)
Respect, assertiveness, being gentle, are important of course. Yes & smell good & taste good. Once, all of the boundaries have been set go with it have fun and enjoy. I can see where the experience could be fantastic. And also not.
Please by all means give us the pro’s lows con’s and high’s.

 

[deleted873528]

I think it largely depends on the overall goal. For us we have only ever had 1 bull, its all my wife wants so it almost becomes a 3person relationship. He is extremely alpha toward me but we have open communication, do things like guys night etc. Everyone has to stay on the same page.

 

[deleted817802]

We have played with a few bulls but we have also weeded out a lot more over cam who wanted to bull for us but weren’t a good fit. For example, many of them were into humiliating the guy and that’s not what we are looking for. A lot of guys decide they want to be a bull just as a way to get laid, and are way too anxious and pushy to get their dick wet, when it should be all about the woman. Others are too shy, and just want to be told what to do.

And since it is for us literally living out a fantasy, my side of that is the guy must have a noticeably larger cock than mine; for my wife, cock size is important too, but not as important as the guy’s overall looks, body, sense of humor, how into her he is, etc. A good bull will have the emotional intelligence and personality to adapt to what the couple is looking for...and I would recommend never meeting up for sex until one or both of you have spoken with him ahead of time to see if that chemistry exists.

 

[911129]

1.Cock size,longer and thicker the better.
2.Respect boundaries.
3.Did i mention big thick cocks.