Fun and safe? No, it's really not. Guys here can be complete creeps. In a less than thirty minute convo here a guy expected me to meet up with him, fuck around with him in public and wanted info on what exactly I'd do if there was a meet. This was after I'd said "no" after I'd expressed I and my husband aren't into those things, after I'd refused to give my husbands name just so he could move on and badger my husband in hopes that he was different than me.
None of that is fun.
Safe? You mean like the ones who harass you for your name? Your phone number? The ones who steal photos to jerk off on and post on their on profiles as "tribute" because they find it hot when we find it vile. What's to stop them from taking the videos too?
Hell, I've received private videos from people who recorded their jerk off sessions with other women. I know the woman's voice and name without their consent.
The constant barrage of men asking for photos of other men's wives and girlfriends? I'd be PISSED if my partner did that without my knowing.
Nothing about us women getting on cam here is worth it. Getting on zoom even less worth it.