Notice how his ass plopped out a little lube at the 6 second mark of the video? It could, of course, be cum from a previous guy. Either way, that bottom was well prepped beforehand.
Much of the ability to relax, internally and mentally, comes from the knowledge and confidence that you *can* relax and take more. I've learned to take some real monsters with minimal hesitation, but there has got to be preparation and confidence.
If you haven't already done so, I strongly recommend you get into a place where you won't have to worry about others' opinions, like your own bedroom/bathroom, and learn to take progressively larger dildos. Go very, very slowly at first, and always back off at the first signs of pain. A certain amount of pressure discomfort is OK, but once you feel any kind of sharp pain, stop immediately. Contrary to what many idiots may post online, training yourself to take enormous toys does not make you "looser". It give you greater control over the muscles in your rectum & those inside your gut.
There have been plenty of threads on going deep, but here's the gist of most:
- Be clean. That helps you relax and be confident it won't get too messy
- Use lots of lube
- Put your mind in the right place, it's almost meditative when thinking about your bottom relaxing and opening up
- Experiment with different body angles. I've found that straight, super hard cocks go in much more easily if I arch my back and it is aimed more towards my belly button when going deep
- Have fun! If the top walks out before you're fully relaxed enough to take him, he's obviously missing out an an incredible tight, appreciative bottom. You probably want no part of guys like that, anyway.
Just writing this has got me horny. Think I'll go play with my own bottom now.
