How do women view bisexual men?

[Bondmiles21]

how do wonen feel about their male partner being or coming out as bi?
I am sure there is no 1 size fits all answer. I am concerned my wife is somewhat creeped out by the idea. Granted this is reading between the lines and full disclosure has yet to happen.

 

[TinyPrincess]

I'm actually more concerned by you not telling her, if you think you're bi. She deserves to know

 

[SubbySlutForBigDick]

What @TinyPrincess said

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Are you thinking you might be bi?

have you had experiences with men?

are you willing to act in accordance with the lines your relationship has?


i have been with bi men. As long as the expectation of monogamy holds, I have no issue.

 

[deleted19151801]

I tend to view them with my eyes, but only when I've got my glasses on. Otherwise, they're just blobs of color.

 

[Zee23]

100% dealbreaker for me

 

[EllieP]

I've answered this before a few times. Here's my short answer:

If my husband were to tell me what one that he's have bisexual urges, then I would allow him to explore his newfound sexual preferences by giving him all the freedom he requires. That is, I would end our relationship.

That fact is that being bisexual is expressing a preference that one gender cannot completely fulfill.

And quite frankly, I've never been one to share a relationship with a partner.

 

[deleted19151801]

That fact is that being bisexual is expressing a preference that one gender cannot completely fulfill.

This makes sense. Plus, the vast majority of, if not all, bisexual men say that men give better blowjobs than women. They also go on about how much easier men are compared to women (women are too "difficult" and "emotional") overall.

If I were straight, I wouldn't bother with a bisexual man, either, or at the very least not commit to him/take him seriously. Most of them seem to prefer men.

 

[EllieP]

They also go on about how much easier men are compared to women (women are too "difficult" and "emotional") overall.

I don't need that kind of pressure or competition!

 

[deleted19151801]

I don't need that kind of pressure or competition!

I say just let them do each other. They'll be aight.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I've also already answered this.

If my guy was to tell me this very second he wanted to fuck men I'd tell him "let's find you one then".

I love him. If it would make him happy then I'd be fine with it as long as he wasn't hiding it from me. Same goes for him wanting to fuck other women.

I can't truly fully satisfy anyone because humans are complex as fuck. I love him enough to want him to enjoy every second he possibly can before he turns into fertilizer, even if I'm not the source of his enjoyment. If fucking men would make him happy, cool. As long as he comes home to me and showers before he lays down with me... Of course and as long s he rubbers-up. Safety first, then teamwork.

 

[nono119911]

I've also already answered this.

If my guy was to tell me this very second he wanted to fuck men I'd tell him "let's find you one then".

I love him. If it would make him happy then I'd be fine with it as long as he wasn't hiding it from me. Same goes for him wanting to fuck other women.

I can't truly fully satisfy anyone because humans are complex as fuck. I love him enough to want him to enjoy every second he possibly can before he turns into fertilizer, even if I'm not the source of his enjoyment. If fucking men would make him happy, cool. As long as he comes home to me and showers before he lays down with me... Of course and as long s he rubbers-up. Safety first, then teamwork.

I've answered this before a few times. Here's my short answer:

If my husband were to tell me what one that he's have bisexual urges, then I would allow him to explore his newfound sexual preferences by giving him all the freedom he requires. That is, I would end our relationship.

That fact is that being bisexual is expressing a preference that one gender cannot completely fulfill.

And quite frankly, I've never been one to share a relationship with a partner.

What if instead it was "Im bi-sexual I want to fuck a man" and more..
"I think I might be bi-sexual - I find other men can sometimes be attractive - but because I'm in a committed relationship with you - I have no desire to fuck them"

So - you knew they were open to it - but had confidence he would never act on it?

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

What if instead it was "Im bi-sexual I want to fuck a man" and more..
"I think I might be bi-sexual - I find other men can sometimes be attractive - but because I'm in a committed relationship with you - I have no desire to fuck them"

So - you knew they were open to it - but had confidence he would never act on it?

I'm not sure if you meant to tag me in this post, but since you did I'll give you a reply.

I literally have zero issue with him wanting to have sex with people who aren't me. We've been on and off between monogamy and open relationships, currently we're living together and have been for 11 years now. Our relationship is open with a few guidelines. No one fucks in our bed/house but us. If we have extracurricular sex it happens away from the home we share. No sex with an ex. No sleepovers. Use condoms. No reproducing. I can't, but he's been procrastinating on getting snipped for awhile. Probably because we don't exactly get around. The option is there, but we rarely utilize it.

I'm pansexual. Humans are humans and I can be attracted to them no matter their gender or sexual orientation. So if I was to be upset that he was open to having sex with a man I'd be pretty petty and selfish.

His happiness is a priority. He makes me feel like mine is a priority for him as well. I respect other people and their different feelings on this topic, I used to be very much in the camp of FUCK NO HE CAN'T FUCK ANYONE BUT ME! But I realized that him fucking other people doesn't take away the way he feels about me. It doesn't take away our connection. What it does do: make him feel good. I want him to feel good always. I don't believe in an afterlife or a spirit realm of any kind. As far as I'm concerned we get one life. One consciousness to experience. We have very limited time. I want his to be as fulfilling as possible. With or without me. I came to a place where I personally feel like keeping him from having those experiences is keeping him from living a truly full life. Fuck that.

Our relationship isn't perfect but it's pretty fuckin good.

 

[ell85]

I'm actually more concerned by you not telling her, if you think you're bi. She deserves to know

Totally agree with this. Also, there’s nothing sexier than having your partner fully embrace who they are completely. You might find that she is into the idea of being with two men and it can be something that you explore together.

My husband finally embraced his bisexuality within himself about a year and half ago, and we had our first MMF experience with another bisexual man a few months ago. It was unbelievably fun, sexy, and we have never felt more connected. We’re totally hooked.