How Do You Find Hung Lads?

[Xlhung_NCL]

So I'm about 8.5-9" and I've met the odd guy that's bigger but I live between a small city and the countryside, there's not many guys passing and I haven't found any hung guys for ages.

Ive tried the usual apps and websites but it's full of fakers, timewasters, guys I've previously met/know of or guys into bareback (which just isn't my thing on casual hook ups).

How can u find new guys? Or is this a case of just accepting there's not much about anymore?

Ps. Can find dates and plenty of attractive guys willing to bottom just not hung guys lol

 

[keenobserver]

You're really missing the point - the goal is to 'find the lad' - they all come with a cock. Sometimes it is a big cock, sometimes it is small, most of the time it is pretty average. Regardless of that, whatever cock you find on whatever 'lad' you find, as long as the 'lad' is willing, be grateful and enjoy it. It's not the length of the wand, it's the magic in it.

 

[teddybaerli1]

You're really missing the point - the goal is to 'find the lad' - they all come with a cock. Sometimes it is a big cock, sometimes it is small, most of the time it is pretty average. Regardless of that, whatever cock you find on whatever 'lad' you find, as long as the 'lad' is willing, be grateful and enjoy it. It's not the length of the wand, it's the magic in it.

Great comment, man!

 

[malakos]

You're really missing the point - the goal is to 'find the lad' - they all come with a cock. Sometimes it is a big cock, sometimes it is small, most of the time it is pretty average. Regardless of that, whatever cock you find on whatever 'lad' you find, as long as the 'lad' is willing, be grateful and enjoy it. It's not the length of the wand, it's the magic in it.

Not if one is a size queen, right?

 

[keenobserver]

Not if one is a size queen, right?

People who condition themselves to fetishize one aspect of a person or sexual experience above all else are always going to be disappointed. From my experience, appreciating the person and the experience is more satisfying than being focused on one thing - large or small. But, that's me. "You can't always get what you want, but sometimes you can get what you need."

 

[Brodie888]

When you consider that size is in the top percentile for penis size and given gay men are a small fraction of the total number of men, not to mention you both need to be attracted to each other and available, statistically you are severely limiting your opportunities for sex.

 

[malakos]

Well, we're also severely limiting our opportunities for sex by restricting ourselves to men who are interested in sex with men. There are many more women who have that interest.

 

[902369]

You don't. Hung like you is rare across the board. Sometimes you get lucky or you can contact someone via Instagram. Most people write fake internet stories about 9 inch dicks that in reality are only 6 inches.

 

[HorseHung40's]

Well, we're also severely limiting our opportunities for sex by restricting ourselves to men who are interested in sex with men. There are many more women who have that interest.

Well said!

 

[Brodie888]

Well, we're also severely limiting our opportunities for sex by restricting ourselves to men who are interested in sex with men. There are many more women who have that interest.

Not sure how much more luck you'd have by unrestricting yourself in that way...

So are you saying 8+ inches or not all is an advisable strategy?

 

[Brodie888]

Not sure how much more luck you'd have by unrestricting yourself in that way...

So are you saying 8+ inches or not all is an advisable strategy?

*not at all

 

[hungbert]

You're really missing the point - the goal is to 'find the lad' - they all come with a cock. Sometimes it is a big cock, sometimes it is small, most of the time it is pretty average. Regardless of that, whatever cock you find on whatever 'lad' you find, as long as the 'lad' is willing, be grateful and enjoy it. It's not the length of the wand, it's the magic in it.

Spot on!