I’m basically straight, but I do enjoy occasionally topping guys and let them blow me when the opportunity presents itself, however lately I’ve been thinking about using a gay dating site for finding hookups. I really only interested in twinks 18 to 25, and I want to be honest that I’m only in it for the sex, no kissing, no cuddling, and minimal talking. Are there a lot of guys like that online or are they mostly looking for a relationship?
How is grindr?
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Fairly sure you’ll find guys like that.
More for just sex than a relationship I would think
More for just sex than a relationship I would think
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Grindr is like opening a fridge cause you’re hungry but too lazy to cook.
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I am glad I got rid of it. Mostly a cess pool. Lots of catfishing for the pic collectors. Most importantly, some if not most of the users have slept with each other. Some guys lie about their health so be smart and careful.
The great thing about fucking guys is that in most cases they want exactly what you want. You don't have to buy drinks, talk about your feelings, have a special connection, jump through hoops, convince them they aren't whores for doing what they want to do etc etc.
I would say less than 10% of guys on the dating apps are looking for anything more than sex.
All you have to do is be clear with what you want, state what your limits are and be smart enough to dodge the catfish (same as straight dating apps) and you will be fine.
I would say less than 10% of guys on the dating apps are looking for anything more than sex.
All you have to do is be clear with what you want, state what your limits are and be smart enough to dodge the catfish (same as straight dating apps) and you will be fine.
Grindr can be good for hookups - it's a big time sink generally though.
If OP wants to use it, just be super direct and explicit about what you want when you post your profile and you should get responses from guys who are looking to do what you want.
If OP wants to use it, just be super direct and explicit about what you want when you post your profile and you should get responses from guys who are looking to do what you want.
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95% of the guys in grindr are awful and rude. i wouldn't suggest using that app. the majority of them are looking for a hook up so i don't think you'll have the problem of finding someone who's looking for a relationship. most of the members on that app have slept together anyway and there are a lot of fake profiles or photo collecting profiles. 90% of them will send you a ''hi'' and their dick pics even if you write on your bio ''no dick pics please''
i'm pretty sure you will easily find a willing guy to suck you off no strings attached especially if you're hot.
now i tried to privet message you but your privacy settings won't allow me. i am very interested in the rare kind of str8 guys like you who are willing to experiment with a guy or just need a casual sex no strings attached. my problem is i can't find any.
i'm pretty sure you will easily find a willing guy to suck you off no strings attached especially if you're hot.
now i tried to privet message you but your privacy settings won't allow me. i am very interested in the rare kind of str8 guys like you who are willing to experiment with a guy or just need a casual sex no strings attached. my problem is i can't find any.
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Grindr is definitely a hook-up app, not a dating app.
You should be fine. Be honest about yourself and what you're wanting. But also be aware that a lot of guys chat you up after looking only at your pic so all the carefully phrased description is for naught. But it should still be largely useful. And, at least around where I am, chock full of very young guys in your desired age range. However, in this area, also likely to label themselves as "bi".
I should maybe add that I deleted it months back. It wasn't useful for me since I do have some specific tastes and the kiddies scare easy.
You should be fine. Be honest about yourself and what you're wanting. But also be aware that a lot of guys chat you up after looking only at your pic so all the carefully phrased description is for naught. But it should still be largely useful. And, at least around where I am, chock full of very young guys in your desired age range. However, in this area, also likely to label themselves as "bi".
I should maybe add that I deleted it months back. It wasn't useful for me since I do have some specific tastes and the kiddies scare easy.
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This is pretty much everything, every word of it.
I think your experience will also be impacted by where you are. I live in a gigantic city, so my experience with apps hasn't been as bad as some. But largely I tend to agree that Grindr is a lot more problematic, and the quality of the guys - and the sex - I've gotten off of that (and the frequency come to think of it) is meh, and its riddled with fakes but they're pretty easy to spot. I have a lot more success with Scruff tbh, across the board.
But yeah clarity and directness is your friend. To the point @Brodie888 made, my profiles make it abundantly clear that I'm only looking for sex when I have those apps open. And I am very direct about the fact that I am down to either suck or get fucked, but all I want is your cock, to get you off, and to make you cum. Open to reciprocation, but it's also unnecessary - my holes are what are on the apps, not my dick (and certainly not my heart). Most guys are pretty good about reaching out only to compatible matches in my experience.
And of course after shitting on Grindr, I also found one of my favorite fuck buds on it, and also one of my favorite suck buds, and they both live less than 10 mins from me. So... I guess it's not completely useless LOL.
Im in the bi boat, swing both ways and mostly date women but love bottoming and flip fucking for dudes on occasion too, even better if everyone can play together haha. With that said I have enoyed grindr and other apps for the ease of connecting for quick, straight to the point hookups. BUT! my experience wirh grindr has been mostly negative, a lot of fakes and a lot of assholes but some good people on there. As others have stated just be direct, be smart and assess the situation accordingly.
