How often do you cum? and do you think that's common?

[milkystick]

Keen to find out the baseline here. How often do you release your loads?

If it varies from period to period, what factors affect the frequency?

How do you compare to your peers?

 

[milkystick]

Background:

I'm 27 now, and I've been unloading almost daily since puberty. If I didn't have sex that day, I'd love to have a nice long wank session before bed.

Recently, I found out through random chats with friends and hookups, that a lot of people don't stop at unloading once a day. Now I'm just curious about facts.

 

[deleted817718]

I’m over 40, married but we don’t have a sexual relationship. I cum (jerking off only) maybe twice a week, some times less, rarely more.
For a man of my age I don’t think it’s uncommon to cum this little, but most men do have sex

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

Above 45 and a couple times a week. Almost always twice a week, with a third day (or just one day) every once in a great while. All through intercourse or oral, as I haven't cum by masturbation for many months now.

 

[lapdog2001]

Over 45 and I have sex with my wife twice a week, most weeks, sometimes only once, and v rarely over twice (like on vacations). I rarely masturbate when I'm getting regular sex.

Whenever I was in a new relationship, the frequency was probably more like 3-4 times a week, even if just on the weekends. After some time, 2-3 times a week was the norm, now 2 times as we've gotten older.

Whenever I wasn't in a relationship, I think I masturbated 2-3 times a week.

Any other guys notice that they have some sort of horniness cycle? Like some weeks, your sex drive is higher than your 'normal' and also have corresponding off times, where your cravings aren't nearly as strong?

 

[deleted16720161]

19 here, idk if it's excess puberty hormones or a naturally high sex drive but I normally jerk off/have sex 2 or 3 times a day. Plus if I go more than a day without getting off at least once my balls ache like hell, so that's a real incentive lmao

 

[deleted7193581]

19 here, idk if it's excess puberty hormones or a naturally high sex drive but I normally jerk off/have sex 2 or 3 times a day. Plus if I go more than a day without getting off at least once my balls ache like hell, so that's a real incentive lmao

You’re way past puberty at 19.

 

[deleted16720161]

You’re way past puberty at 19.

Yeah I thought that too, but then I hit another height growth spurt a few months ago. I guess it plays out differently for every guy

 

[lapdog2001]

You’re way past puberty at 19.

Not necessarily! While most males and females are essentially fully grown, there are late starters and 2nd growth people too.

Yeah I thought that too, but then I hit another height growth spurt a few months ago. I guess it plays out differently for every guy

While it may not be super common, a late growth spurt is considered normal and does happen to lots of men and women.

 

[deleted1209277]

Background:

I'm 27 now, and I've been unloading almost daily since puberty. If I didn't have sex that day, I'd love to have a nice long wank session before bed.

Recently, I found out through random chats with friends and hookups, that a lot of people don't stop at unloading once a day. Now I'm just curious about facts.

I was 2-3X a day easy in my 20s.

 

[_bushycutaussie]

I jerk off daily to a couple times a week, it depends sometimes I may go a week between.

 

[merc41]

I’m over 40, married but we don’t have a sexual relationship. I cum (jerking off only) maybe twice a week, some times less, rarely more.
For a man of my age I don’t think it’s uncommon to cum this little, but most men do have sex

67 here. Cum three to four times per week. Usually sex maybe once j/O. To be honest I think thats alot. I would like more.

 

[deleted1074483]

57 and partnered with a younger guy, we have sex at least daily and i cum at least once daily and at weekends/on holidays etc can be several times more often but i've always had a very high sex drive and get boners real easy still. The bf is 26 and cums equally often.

 

[merc41]

57 and partnered with a younger guy, we have sex at least daily and i cum at least once daily and at weekends/on holidays etc can be several times more often but i've always had a very high sex drive and get boners real easy still. The bf is 26 and cums equally often.

Great

 

[deleted16141421]

Early thirties, I cum at least five times every day. Loads get smaller and smaller obviously. Can do double figures very easily.

 

[allin4cum]

When I was a teen, I would cum 2 - 3 times a day with masturbation (mostly - like 98%) and some oral sex. After I got married, I would cum 5 - 6 times a week with sex and masturbation (now masturbation was about 25%, maybe 33%). that lasted into my 50's. Now in my late 60's, I cum about 2 - 3 times a week and almost all masturbation (say 95%) and a little sex.
A major part of why I cum less now is that I learned about and love to edge. So I masturbate probably every day but don't always cum, I edge and then after a couple hours put my cock back away and don't cum until later in the week. No particular reason, just whatever mood I'm in will determine if I end an edge session with an orgasm.

 

[milkystick]

Early thirties, I cum at least five times every day. Loads get smaller and smaller obviously. Can do double figures very easily.

How do you find time to get off more than five times every day? Taking quick wank breaks at work? Or you go at it for hours nonstop after work?

 

[merc41]

Early thirties, I cum at least five times every day. Loads get smaller and smaller obviously. Can do double figures very easily.

Somebody is not quite being honest here. Hmmm???

 

[deleted16141421]

How do you find time to get off more than five times every day? Taking quick wank breaks at work? Or you go at it for hours nonstop after work?

A couple or more before work, a couple after. Never at work! On a day off I can go for hours and hours of porn fuelled bate.

 

[bill4494]

Once I discovered masturbation I got off at least once every morning in the shower. Maybe five or six times when I could spend a whole day wanking. Sex a couple times a week when I had a partner and five or six times in a particularly hot night. Daily cumshots through my forties. Now three or four times a week. Maybe twice in a day one a month.