How to bring up the threesome topic with my gf

Hello, I've been having a fantasy about having a threesome with my gf and another person.
I would ask for advice how can I bring up the threesome talks on the table.
Ask yourself a few questions. How adventurous is she? Does she like oral? Is she into anal? What about toys and marathon fuck sessions. Does she like trying out new positions? Does she like porn? If the answer is yes to all these things, you should be on your way. If she's pretty much vanilla, respect that and — if you really like her — enjoy the relationship you have.
But if she's hesitant but sexually curious, start watching some good 3-way porntogether to show her how good it can be. One other question you have to answer: are you talking about straight sex or bi sex?
 
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this is a question that need to take very serious when asking her--alot of women think if you ask for a threesome that you think they are a slut and that be the end of it---

a friend of mine wanted a threesome with his girlfriend and wanted the third person to be a woman as well--she got upset at first but then told him that they can do that if he would do a threesome with another guy-- he says ok just as long as she knew he wasnt sucking another guys cock or letting the guy screw him---she said nope

he was being double sided on it all --he wanted what he wanted and didnt care what she wanted---
few weeks later he has a girl he had a crush on for years there and told his gf that they had a deal-- so she did stuff to the woman she didnt enjoy--but she did it to please her boyfriend--and then both sucked his penis and he screwed both of them and his threesome was done


a week later she has a guy there they both knew--and he didnt know the guy was bisexual-- and he assured him that things will go slow and nothing forced--- to make a long story short--he did suck the guy and the guy sucked him and then the guy screwed him--then they screwed the gf both holes and that threesome was over--

now years later he is no longer with the gf--he enjoyed the gay sex so much he wasnt into women anymore---



so is the threesome you wanting with another woman?
 
Hello, I've been having a fantasy about having a threesome with my gf and another person.
I would ask for advice how can I bring up the threesome talks on the table.
We've all had this fantasy (ok I have...). That's what makes it a fantasy. Porn is not real life. The VAST MAJORITY of humans never have threesomes. Now, you will have the exceptions here (which makes it look like lots of folks are doing it) because this is a forum on sexuality which attracts a concentration of exceptions to the rules.
As was said, sit down with her and watch some porn together. This is the first test: Does she ever watch porn with you? If yes... Work your way to some threesome scenes and make a few suggestive comments. Now, if you've never watched porn together, skip this whole idea and just enjoy the relationship you have.
 
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another thing is this--you know your girlfriend for how long?if just now getting to know her---then i would say keep it a fantasy--if been with her a while then somehow in chatting she gave you the idea of what she likes and doesnt like

then youre just going to have to think about how much you love her--is a threesome worth losing her over--?
 
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I have had a number of threesomes. We had a group of friends that were very open about sexuality. This made it very easy. I had three long term relationships where we had threesomes and a couple of orgies. A few partner swaps for the ones that did not care for groups.

I really enjoyed it. I am average sized but had no hang-ups with the larger males.

One girl absolutely loved sex with other men but was very dedicated to me. She would not do anything without my involvement. We had many sessions with other partners.

She was incredibly good looking. She also had a large penis fetish. The 2 times we had sex with other larger males, she was in pain and complained a bit. She still liked large but would mainly give them head.

Another girl said she was not into that but changed her mind. All it took was a bit of porn and asking her some questions. We had an orgy one day with some friends but she did not swap that day. Things changed after that though. We had many threesomes and she had sex with some of my friends with my consent. She also set me up with some of her friends. She did not like it when I sent her friends into orgasmic states so we had to keep that part separate.

I enjoyed watching her though. There were times that the tag team of 2 men would keep her having orgasms for hours.

The friend of mine with the large penis slept with both of these women. The second handled the size without a problem.

The third one did everything through fantasy. She loved closing her eyes and imagining. She also loved for me to take her step by step through the process. We eventually had sex with another guy. She became romantically involved with him so I moved out. Although she begged me to come back, I couldn't do it.

So, there are dangers to this but lots of fun for those that can handle it.
 
Hello, I've been having a fantasy about having a threesome with my gf and another person.
I would ask for advice how can I bring up the threesome talks on the table.
After a drink or two, just ask. Put it in a playful way. I don’t want to say this is a normal topic, but it is a normal topic. It isn’t like you are asking to bring in an animal.
Don’t act like you have thought about this from every angle and aspect. Just off the cuff with a smile and giggle.
The positioning is that she is so hot, you want to see her as a sexual goddess type thing. I think a common response is they feel like they aren’t enough for you, so you want to bring someone else to be enough for you.
Be young. Have fun
 
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Hello, I've been having a fantasy about having a threesome with my gf and another person.
I would ask for advice how can I bring up the threesome talks on the table.
Openly and honestly…. Ask her about her fantasies… you never know it might be on her to do list….

start small… build