How to find a solid bate buddy?

[bro24]

I've been interested for a while to find another gay guy to be regular bate buddies with. I've had a few encounters with limited success. It seems that guys that say they are interested either flake out or once we get together they're pushing for more than jerking our dicks.

Maybe what I'm looking for is too picky, but I gotta think there has to be gays out there that just want to jerk together. Specifically, I'm looking for a buddy that wants to get together and edge to gay porn - jerk each other some if we're in the mood, maybe some cock to cock front, but not escalate to anything else. Just getting our dicks off to dudes and gay porn. I'm partnered and can hookup when I want, so I'm not looking for more sex - just mutual masturbation.

Is that too much to ask? I've mostly looked on Bateworld but not finding what I'm looking for. Grindr and other apps are useless. Anyone have any suggestions or good experience connecting with a gay bate bud?

 

[Trekrider]

As someone only into masturbation and body contact, I understand the frustration of meeting up with a guy who wants to do other stuff. Fact is, true bators are in the vast minority, so are difficult to find. But, they do exist, so don't give up hope. Forget all the apps - they're geared for anal sex. In my instance, once I got into the nudist scene, I found it much easier to find like minded guys. There is a very natural connection between male nudism and masturbation. Also, a lot of 'straight' nudists are happy to mutually masturbate with other men and don't want anything else.

 

[bro24]

As someone only into masturbation and body contact, I understand the frustration of meeting up with a guy who wants to do other stuff. Fact is, true bators are in the vast minority, so are difficult to find. But, they do exist, so don't give up hope. Forget all the apps - they're geared for anal sex. In my instance, once I got into the nudist scene, I found it much easier to find like minded guys. There is a very natural connection between male nudism and masturbation. Also, a lot of 'straight' nudists are happy to mutually masturbate with other men and don't want anything else.

Good advice, thanks for the encouragement. I'm sure it would be fun bating with a straight guy too, but my real desire is to bate with anothe gay so we can jerk to guys and gay porn together. Guess I'll keep looking!

 

[Richierhoo]

I've been interested for a while to find another gay guy to be regular bate buddies with. I've had a few encounters with limited success. It seems that guys that say they are interested either flake out or once we get together they're pushing for more than jerking our dicks.

Maybe what I'm looking for is too picky, but I gotta think there has to be gays out there that just want to jerk together. Specifically, I'm looking for a buddy that wants to get together and edge to gay porn - jerk each other some if we're in the mood, maybe some cock to cock front, but not escalate to anything else. Just getting our dicks off to dudes and gay porn. I'm partnered and can hookup when I want, so I'm not looking for more sex - just mutual masturbation.

Is that too much to ask? I've mostly looked on Bateworld but not finding what I'm looking for. Grindr and other apps are useless. Anyone have any suggestions or good experience connecting with a gay bate bud?

Man I have no idea where you live but ffs move to Ireland near me lol

What u describe is my dream and as you say is epically impossible to find

All talk and no real commitment from guys.

I want a bro to stroke with, share experiences and fantasies, side by side cocks out and turning each other on as we watch porn

Go with the flow and chilled horny fun

If you find one let me know as I will move to your neighbourhood lol

 

[bro24]

Man I have no idea where you live but ffs move to Ireland near me lol

What u describe is my dream and as you say is epically impossible to find

All talk and no real commitment from guys.

I want a bro to stroke with, share experiences and fantasies, side by side cocks out and turning each other on as we watch porn

Go with the flow and chilled horny fun

If you find one let me know as I will move to your neighbourhood lol

It's good to know there's at least one guy out there that fits the bill. Too bad you're on another continent!

But this and all of this. I love to masturbate and I know there are other gays that love it just as much. Why is it so hard then to find a bud to do it together and get horny for dudes?

 

[Alberto.ftw]

You can try twitter. actually its the best place to meetup with chronic edgers.

 

[Alberto.ftw]

Or make a post in Personal Ads forum so they know

 

[deleted28995841]

my longest bate bud was a 25 year old str8 guy I met off Craigslist. Short, beautiful 6.5” thick dick, ok body, very cute. Because he was 5’4” he could never find a date (much less a gf) so he posted on CL and we hooked up for coffee (when I first saw him hard - he swung a cracking super thick dick with killer veins - I could only laugh at what those girls had passed up).

Starbucks is a neutral place to meet/talk about what your into. Since I’m bi we connected immediately with pussy porn and jacking dick (and football). While we talked we both got hard and that was the clincher. I bated with him for nearly a year before he finally found a gf and got married. Never gave him head, never kissed, just bated dick (the closest i came to that was bating with him SB weekend, he was very drunk and threw his leg over me while we watched the game sitting there drinking in jeans; I was fucking hard as hell. When we hit the porn later we both busted within 5 min). But his bate game was excellent, he had a great stance, knew his dick well, loved coconut oil, could sit back and Jack for 1-2 hours. we busted some good loads together.

Finding a bi or str8 bate bud isn’t easy but if you find a guy who JUST wants the attention without crossing that line, who wants another guy there to bust a nut AND to bro-out on sports - you’ll def find it in some bi/str8 guys. Just be sure to keep it above board. If you think he’s gonna let you suck his dick 99% of str8 guys will say no thx bro.

Lots of these guys are sexually frustrated with women (I can readily understand that as I’m into them) and have decided after fitting that sexually frustrated brick wall “ok I’ll cross the rubicon and try a guy.” CONNECT on something outside porn (sports, cars, hunting) and you’ll find that he’ll be ready to bust a nut with someone he has /something\ in common with.

 

[Alberto.ftw]

damn youre so lucky to have craiglist

 

[bigcojay]

my longest bate bud was a 25 year old str8 guy I met off Craigslist. Short, beautiful 6.5” thick dick, ok body, very cute. Because he was 5’4” he could never find a date (much less a gf) so he posted on CL and we hooked up for coffee (when I first saw him hard - he swung a cracking super thick dick with killer veins - I could only laugh at what those girls had passed up).

Starbucks is a neutral place to meet/talk about what your into. Since I’m bi we connected immediately with pussy porn and jacking dick (and football). While we talked we both got hard and that was the clincher. I bated with him for nearly a year before he finally found a gf and got married. Never gave him head, never kissed, just bated dick (the closest i came to that was bating with him SB weekend, he was very drunk and threw his leg over me while we watched the game sitting there drinking in jeans; I was fucking hard as hell. When we hit the porn later we both busted within 5 min). But his bate game was excellent, he had a great stance, knew his dick well, loved coconut oil, could sit back and Jack for 1-2 hours. we busted some good loads together.

Finding a bi or str8 bate bud isn’t easy but if you find a guy who JUST wants the attention without crossing that line, who wants another guy there to bust a nut AND to bro-out on sports - you’ll def find it in some bi/str8 guys. Just be sure to keep it above board. If you think he’s gonna let you suck his dick 99% of str8 guys will say no thx bro.

Lots of these guys are sexually frustrated with women (I can readily understand that as I’m into them) and have decided after fitting that sexually frustrated brick wall “ok I’ll cross the rubicon and try a guy.” CONNECT on something outside porn (sports, cars, hunting) and you’ll find that he’ll be ready to bust a nut with someone he has /something\ in common with.

Sounds like exactly what I'm looking for

 

[goodjerker]

As someone only into masturbation and body contact, I understand the frustration of meeting up with a guy who wants to do other stuff. Fact is, true bators are in the vast minority, so are difficult to find. But, they do exist, so don't give up hope. Forget all the apps - they're geared for anal sex. In my instance, once I got into the nudist scene, I found it much easier to find like minded guys. There is a very natural connection between male nudism and masturbation. Also, a lot of 'straight' nudists are happy to mutually masturbate with other men and don't want anything else.

spot on bro, great advice and also this site is great for that. Join the bate zoom group, we will be meeting on zoom once a month to stroke.