I recently had mine, it was okay. Didnt love it but I mean it was fun. I got blown but didnt return the favor I had no desire to. Is this rude
How was your first experience?
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If it wasn't specifically decided beforehand that you would return the favour then I don't see the issue. Hell, a lot of guys who suck dick don't even want to be sucked back. My first time with a guy (and everytime, actually), I've done the sucking and not expected anything in return.
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It's more common than not. Especially with hookups. Some guys label themselves as "oral tops" on their hookup app profile that only like to receive.
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Used to happen to me all the time I'd cum and then loose interest, its not rude if you explain to the other guy this may happen.
I have got over the issue now by making a concerted effort to reciprocate .......... it is tough though
First experience was an erotic male massage and I loved it.
First encounter was talking to this guy at a nice hotel bar. Just innocent conversation and I mentioned that the rooms were really nice. He said, do you want to go show me? I must have turned red and said no. But I was so excited and a few minutes later said I would like to show him.
We went up and took a shower and…
First encounter was talking to this guy at a nice hotel bar. Just innocent conversation and I mentioned that the rooms were really nice. He said, do you want to go show me? I must have turned red and said no. But I was so excited and a few minutes later said I would like to show him.
We went up and took a shower and…
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My first time with a guy was just after a party, he was a total jerk but I was so horny at that moment that I just let it go. I regret a little bit, like... he has a big cock and all those things but at the end he made it just about him, like I was not even there. The experience was so bed that after that I engaged on a serious relationship with a girl and let my "bi" side suspended for a while
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I have posted this before, my first time with a man was definitely a secret taboo and out of the ordinary.
He was a much older neighbour that saw me coming home from training, limping and suggested a massage may help. I was so very naive and thought he was genuine and sounded convincing and went over.
To his credit, he initally draped me and gave me a proper "legit" massage, that was I until I rolled over and he started massaging my thighs and abs, though still partially draped, however he always kept my dick exposed. Innocently I just thought he couldnt see my dick. However, I was getting very aroused and my dick started bouncing around and leaking cum everywhere. lol.
He concluded the massage by stimulating by nipples by caressing them with one hand and giving me hand relief with the other. It didnt take long at all the moment he grabbed my dick for me to shoot out ropes of cum, maybe less than a minute.
I kept coming around for "massages" and he kept giving them to me, each time he slowly and very strategically progressed with what he did to me, what I did to him and what we did together.
While he took his time to prepare me to be fucked over a few weeks, the way he progressed from "massaging" my hole first, than rimming and penetrating me with his tongue to warm oil and lubricant poured into to it, to finally inserting a finger to a few, I was cherry ripe for him to breed me when the time came around. Probably what also helped was that he wasnt big either, about medium size, so going from his fingers to his dick inside me, felt like a nice tight, warm fit. When he first rubbed his dick against my hole, my natural first reaction was to spread my legs as wide as possible to accomodate his cock, it was only then that I realized that I wanted and needed him inside me. This was my choice, regardless of how he had seduced me.
That first time that he bred me, I literally glowed and did feel an incredible sense of closeness/attraction to him as a result of him giving me a part of him, deep deep inside me. That very first time, when I got up to go for a shower, I will always remember his cum slowly dripped down my leg and I couldnt help but feel so 'horny", "slutty" and sensual, thatI could make a man cum from fucking me. Its a feeling I remember fondly.
I just cannot describe the wonderful feeling and sensation that first time to be covered in head to toe, with his cum, saliva and sweat. It was incredibly erotic, to have had him "mark" me in that maner. I felt like he owned me and I proudly belonged to him.
Fast forward a few months, I could come over for a quickie when he needed to fuck and I had the urge to be fucked. It got to the stage we were fucking almost once every couple of days or so. It was pretty easy back then to hook up, he lived on his own and I would sneak over to the back of his house, which is ironic as he was going through me from behind lol. Most times we had sex for less than half an hour. Occassionally I would take an afternoon nap where he would spoon me before heading home.
I knew he had a lot to lose if our hookups were ever found out, I think this made the sex more hot, dangerous, exciting and enjoyable each time.
With all that said looking back maybe I was subconciously exploring and curious by the invitation for a "massage."
He was a much older neighbour that saw me coming home from training, limping and suggested a massage may help. I was so very naive and thought he was genuine and sounded convincing and went over.
To his credit, he initally draped me and gave me a proper "legit" massage, that was I until I rolled over and he started massaging my thighs and abs, though still partially draped, however he always kept my dick exposed. Innocently I just thought he couldnt see my dick. However, I was getting very aroused and my dick started bouncing around and leaking cum everywhere. lol.
He concluded the massage by stimulating by nipples by caressing them with one hand and giving me hand relief with the other. It didnt take long at all the moment he grabbed my dick for me to shoot out ropes of cum, maybe less than a minute.
I kept coming around for "massages" and he kept giving them to me, each time he slowly and very strategically progressed with what he did to me, what I did to him and what we did together.
While he took his time to prepare me to be fucked over a few weeks, the way he progressed from "massaging" my hole first, than rimming and penetrating me with his tongue to warm oil and lubricant poured into to it, to finally inserting a finger to a few, I was cherry ripe for him to breed me when the time came around. Probably what also helped was that he wasnt big either, about medium size, so going from his fingers to his dick inside me, felt like a nice tight, warm fit. When he first rubbed his dick against my hole, my natural first reaction was to spread my legs as wide as possible to accomodate his cock, it was only then that I realized that I wanted and needed him inside me. This was my choice, regardless of how he had seduced me.
That first time that he bred me, I literally glowed and did feel an incredible sense of closeness/attraction to him as a result of him giving me a part of him, deep deep inside me. That very first time, when I got up to go for a shower, I will always remember his cum slowly dripped down my leg and I couldnt help but feel so 'horny", "slutty" and sensual, thatI could make a man cum from fucking me. Its a feeling I remember fondly.
I just cannot describe the wonderful feeling and sensation that first time to be covered in head to toe, with his cum, saliva and sweat. It was incredibly erotic, to have had him "mark" me in that maner. I felt like he owned me and I proudly belonged to him.
Fast forward a few months, I could come over for a quickie when he needed to fuck and I had the urge to be fucked. It got to the stage we were fucking almost once every couple of days or so. It was pretty easy back then to hook up, he lived on his own and I would sneak over to the back of his house, which is ironic as he was going through me from behind lol. Most times we had sex for less than half an hour. Occassionally I would take an afternoon nap where he would spoon me before heading home.
I knew he had a lot to lose if our hookups were ever found out, I think this made the sex more hot, dangerous, exciting and enjoyable each time.
With all that said looking back maybe I was subconciously exploring and curious by the invitation for a "massage."
Mine was in the good 'ole days of AOL. Before you immediately thought that everyone who talked to you was a serial killer. I got to know a guy a few cities over and eventually went to his house to meet. We ended up getting naked almost immediately and devouring each other's cocks. So, it was then I knew I was bisexual LOL. We sucked and stroked for awhile, he knew it was my first time with a guy so there was a little talking in between blowjobs. It was safe, fun and it brought me on board so to speak LOL.
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Mine was a great experience. I was lots younger than him and I learned so much. Grateful and thankful for that time.
Not at all and lots of curious guys hold back for a while until they get a bit more confident with their interest.
My first experience was similar and I was a willing recipient of several BJs before I felt confident even touching him intimately. When I did start (by putting my hand down the front of his pants) my pulse was thumping, but feeling his cock stirring and hardening against my hand was incredible. I didn't explore that evening but I thought of nothing else all day. That evening was the first time I'd seen another guys cock aroused, and he just let me explore - the soft hardness, his big hanging balls, the wrinkly ball sack and flared head before taking my hand and showing me how he liked to be touched
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