How/Where Do You Find Good Sex?

tony_sucks

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Whats up guys, I have been having a lot of trouble finding some FWBs. Grindr is the worst and I don't seem to click with anyone on there. I see all these guys on Twitter having so much good sex with different guys, I want to be like them too. I'm good looking, outgoing and horny af and you can see that in my face, so I'm not sure how all these guys even do it. Any tips on how I can find more guys to hook up with?

Other hook ups sites are literally the same as Grindr but with a different name. Sniffies is also not that cool.
 
A few things.

- You're right. Apps are trash. It's like the McDonald's food of finding partners.

- Dont think that someone's A-reel is the every day. Social media is a big fat lie, so what you see on Twitter isnt anything to be envious of or craft your expectations from.

What about meeting people through friends? I dont know what your crew is like, but is it cool to get with people you meet at something like a party? You're probably a lot more charming IRL than you are on an app, and you can probably start hooking up with people you meet through friends as long as it's not going to cause problems.
 
I have met people through friends, but 90% of the time they are not my type lol (mostly because they don't take care of themselves) . You are right though, social media is a big lie and I'm sure a lot of these guys having awesome sex on Twitter doesn't always happen haha. Still though, I haven't had something like that in a long time.
 
On an app while @ HOME DEPOT
Lol well that too. I have had great luck at Home Depot... guys in jeans and jackets with grease on their hands..bear, twink, fit, everybody all over the place ❤️❤️❤️❤️
 
As a feeder only one time I had a guy ask me if he could help me with 'anything at all' while staring at my crotch. Problem was my gf was right beside me. I respectfully declined his offer, with her standing there. I did keep looking for him as we were walking around the store. Timing is everthing.
 
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The nudist scene. Forget the internet with its shallowness and guys chickening out at the last minute. Get yourself to a nude beach or some other male nudist group, and things will fall into place.
 
The nudist scene. Forget the internet with its shallowness and guys chickening out at the last minute. Get yourself to a nude beach or some other male nudist group, and things will fall into place.
I've thought about this a lot, I might go this Monday to a nudist beach and hopefully find something good there. I've heard it's a lot of older people though and I'm not really into that scene. I'll update you guys on that journey.
 
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Lol well that too. I have had great luck at Home Depot... guys in jeans and jackets with grease on their hands..bear, twink, fit, everybody all over the place ❤️❤️❤️❤️
But that's the place where all the straight husbands/handyman hang out???
 
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It depends how outgoing you are tbh. I’ve had good luck through apps (honestly being good looking with a good body is essential for that since apps are mostly surface level) but I mostly meet guys through friends/acquaintances at hang outs or house parties. I also meet guys at gyms, I sometimes get guest passes to go to friends’ gyms instead of going to my own. Being outgoing makes it easier to talk to people and feel out if there is anything there. What holds most people back is fear of rejection which is something everyone needs to work through in order to meet more people.
 
Whats up guys, I have been having a lot of trouble finding some FWBs. Grindr is the worst and I don't seem to click with anyone on there. I see all these guys on Twitter having so much good sex with different guys, I want to be like them too. I'm good looking, outgoing and horny af and you can see that in my face, so I'm not sure how all these guys even do it. Any tips on how I can find more guys to hook up with?

Other hook ups sites are literally the same as Grindr but with a different name. Sniffies is also not that cool.
Did u ever try on checking dark rooms at the gay clubs . The vast majority guys who pop in there looking for hookups and stuff. You might attend some crowdy nights and find there guys u are drawn to and exchange numbers if you are not willing to be making out right there.