Was browsing the web and happened upon this site. It looks like a good place to learn and discuss various topics. I'm mid-40s, married with kids, and looking for something different. I'm a good family man and don't want to mess that up but am looking for more. I've had sex with men before but not since being married. I have very little time or opportunity for meet ups and truthfully have no idea about how to meet somebody who would be a good affair partner or just a quick hook up now and then. Meanwhile I am fantasizing, looking at pics, and watching videos.