Hypersexuality

[Elki]

Hi!

A few weeks ago I started thinking I might be hypersexual. At least a bit. Does anyone think it's normal to think about what turns you on almost all the time when you're not doing something in particular like work or studying? Or sometimes even in those moments? Do you think it's OK to every chance something similar to what turns you on happens you immediately think of it? Or be there doing nothing and think to yourself "I'm gonna jerk off to *thing* later", but constantly? Is it something to be worried about? Should I seek some kind of professional help? Psychological help? Are there psychologists for these kind of things?

I'd really like to hear all the opinions possible, if you have something to say about anything I said, please let me know. Thanks.

 

[goldscorpguy]

Hi!

A few weeks ago I started thinking I might be hypersexual. At least a bit. Does anyone think it's normal to think about what turns you on almost all the time when you're not doing something in particular like work or studying? Or sometimes even in those moments? Do you think it's OK to every chance something similar to what turns you on happens you immediately think of it? Or be there doing nothing and think to yourself "I'm gonna jerk off to *thing* later", but constantly? Is it something to be worried about? Should I seek some kind of professional help? Psychological help? Are there psychologists for these kind of things?

I'd really like to hear all the opinions possible, if you have something to say about anything I said, please let me know. Thanks.

Hi I think you are very brave to post your thoughts on here, I hope that describing your feelings and worries may have helped a little. If you feel that you may be hypersexual or have a sexual addiction that is affecting your day to day functioning then there is help out there. You describe yourself as possibly needing "professional" or "psychological" help but sometimes all we need is to talk things through. I can only speak for the UK, but there are sexual addiction counselling services out there who might be able to help in your area. You have already taken a big step in recognising that you might need help. Good luck.

 

[Elki]

Hi I think you are very brave to post your thoughts on here, I hope that describing your feelings and worries may have helped a little. If you feel that you may be hypersexual or have a sexual addiction that is affecting your day to day functioning then there is help out there. You describe yourself as possibly needing "professional" or "psychological" help but sometimes all we need is to talk things through. I can only speak for the UK, but there are sexual addiction counselling services out there who might be able to help in your area. You have already taken a big step in recognising that you might need help. Good luck.

Hey!

Thanks for your kind words. I don't know if there is sexual addiction counseling here where I live, but I'll definitely look out for it and try to solve this. Thank you

 

[DiamondJoe]

I have wondered, occasionally.

Given that I have engaged in sexual activity at the expense of food, sleep, work and health. Occasionally...

But then, sex with the right person/people is amazing

 

[Elki]

I don't think I've ever given up something for sex, maybe I watched porn instead of doing what I had to do, that's more where I'm headed with this

 

[Lance V]

I dated a woman for a while who confessed to me that she suffered from hypersexuality since puberty. I asked if that made her a nymphomaniac, and she said no. The difference is that a nymphomaniac can never be satisfied.

She said she thought about sex often, many times a day, even though she was a virgin until college. And now she considers herself normal, whatever that may be.

Personally, I think she was brought up in a very closed community with domineering parents. That would probably make me hypersexual, too.

 

[MilfBanger78]

I've considered myself hypersexual for a while. Pretty much anytime I'm idle or stuck waiting in line at a store etc, i'm eyeing up females and fucking them in my mind. I've spent whole days off just pursuing new sex partners or fucking 2 or more ppl in the same day, diff sessions. Not to mention porn.

I dont consider myself a "sex addict" per se though, because even though I would pursue and find new potential sex partners, I didnt follow through and fuck them all. Lot of times it was more just the thrill of talking to someone new online and getting them into a sexual state. Dopamine-rush probably explains a lot of it.

 

[Elki]

I've considered myself hypersexual for a while. Pretty much anytime I'm idle or stuck waiting in line at a store etc, i'm eyeing up females and fucking them in my mind. I've spent whole days off just pursuing new sex partners or fucking 2 or more ppl in the same day, diff sessions. Not to mention porn.

I dont consider myself a "sex addict" per se though, because even though I would pursue and find new potential sex partners, I didnt follow through and fuck them all. Lot of times it was more just the thrill of talking to someone new online and getting them into a sexual state. Dopamine-rush probably explains a lot of it.

I think this is the most close definition (if not the exact one) of how I feel. I just embodies perfectly what goes through my mind almost all the time and I find myself in every situation you mention.

 

[Italian1986]

I've considered myself hypersexual for a while. Pretty much anytime I'm idle or stuck waiting in line at a store etc, i'm eyeing up females and fucking them in my mind. I've spent whole days off just pursuing new sex partners or fucking 2 or more ppl in the same day, diff sessions. Not to mention porn.

I dont consider myself a "sex addict" per se though, because even though I would pursue and find new potential sex partners, I didnt follow through and fuck them all. Lot of times it was more just the thrill of talking to someone new online and getting them into a sexual state. Dopamine-rush probably explains a lot of it.

Same for me.

If sex is something that alters/compromises your life, your social activity, your job ect… I suggest you to see someone. If this is not the case, don’t worry, we’re just guys with a high libido.

 

[MNpervert]

I am an actual diagnosed sex addict. It took years to really bring it under control. If you ever want to talk about it send me a message.

 

[BulgeGuySD]

I never being diagnosed with a sex addiction, but I guess I’m an addict I think about every 3 minutes 7/24, 360, I watch lorn almost every day now since the pandemic it git worse. I go to vacations to look for dick, and tail, I watch for guys’s bulges and butts every place I go without being to obvious or getting in trouble for it. wen I go to the bank. grocery stores. car wash, at work, and check in on this side every day for at list 2 hours or more. nothing to impart my work (yet) I wear very form fitted clothes to be notice but guys, specially my pants even suit pats to show my bulge so I can get attention, and I do I could get laid anytime if I have free time, I rather go to a bootie call then with friend to diner..
For the first time I admit all of this in a pu. square.

 

[deleted16077001]

I defo have a high libido and want to fuck often and watch porn but I wouldn't say I'm hypersexual. As much I love sex, that won't can take my focus on gym, work etc.

 

[Sagittarius84]

I don't think hypersexuality as most people describe or experience it exists in a vacuum. I think how it is commonly experienced is a consequence of one's sexual and intimate haptic needs not being fulfilled. I think if there were more willing and enthusiastic partners, or opportunities outside of monogamy available for those who need them, then what would be left over are the true hypersexuals, who may require therapy or help to function normally.....
But I think your average run of the mill guy, that thinks of himself as hypersexual, or has been assigned that moniker by those around him would think, behave, and be considered differently if their sexual life was more to their liking.

 

[ArabicBottom]

I consider myself hypersexual as well. I learned to manage my urges by just focusing on day to day tasks and scheduling my day so that I don’t get distracted or obsessive over sex.

It has become a problem for me years ago when I couldn’t jerk off anymore. Even at times going into depressive episodes because I can’t have sex or cum. To the point where having an orgasm would make me uncontrollably euphoric at times. I would say try out things like scheduling “me” time to manage your thoughts, it’s ok to jerk off. Finding someone to have sex with regularly also helps.

 

[bravesoldier]

Actually, I have heard your behavior is quite normal, especially the younger you are. Some statistics I read years ago said most guys view every man or woman, or both, as a potential sexual partner and do so without giving much conscious thought to what and how often they do it. I still do this and I'm 58 years old. Like many, when I was a younger man I masturbated sometimes 3-4 times a day and would usually wear myself out ejaculating. All it took for me back then was to see a single sexual sight and I'd be making a dash for the closest bathroom to rub one out. Sometimes I wish I could remember all of the out of the way places I ducked to relieve my incredible urges. Two I remember well. In junior high I was at phys. ed. class on the playing field. I was so horny I went back to the boy's dressing room, jacked off in the urinal then went back to the field. Then once at work in my early 20's. I stood there on the job incredibly horny for what seemed like forever, battling on and off erections. I finally went to the restroom nearby and stroked until I came in the toilet. I think I may have left my jizz in the water so the next guy who came in could see it.

Most men are a fucking horny existence to put it lightly.

 

[chrisrobin]

I wouldn't say that I am hyper at all though I do think about sex quite a bit. I do know that given the opportunity I jump at the chance of sex - even down to just giving head on the spur of the moment.