i'm a gay woman and have no desire to sleep with a man. I satiate my 'kink' with porn but should i ever wish to create a real-life situation where i can just watch a man safely where do I start? I have thought about going to dogging sites but not sure I would feel safe.
I am turned on by men masturbating but...
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I'm a gay man and I love to watch women eat each other's pussies. I love to watch a man eat a woman's pussy too. It seems lately I enjoy a lot of things I haven't before. I was married to a woman and had a great sex life. I've been divorced many years and only have sex with men now, but sometimes think I'd like a buddy and I to do a ftm. Amazing the appetites we can develop. I used to love to strip naked in the car when the ex and I dated years ago and make her watch he masturbate and jack off.
Wgat turns us on mentally isn't always what does it for us physically. Kinda makes sense that our fantasies are the place to explore our own personal boundaries and maybe challenge them a bit.
My porn watching has dwindled over the years, but when I get my smut on I enjoy the boy on boy genre. Heck, in my early LPSG days I was often hooting about Tony Buff and Logan McCree *while hot in his porn days McCree's current political inclinations and goals have devastated my previous horn for the man*
I wouldn't ever advise a lone woman to venture into a sexually charged mostly male space. No. It's not a "don't feel safe" situation. It's a "definitely not safe space" situation. There are more evenly mixed spaces, tho going alone is still not ideal, were women would be welcomed to be voyeuristic.
The chat room on this site is an untapped dick viewing market. Men of all types would be happy to entertain you. In the flesh? BDSM clubs and your local sex positivity group are good/safe places to make contact or find resources.
My porn watching has dwindled over the years, but when I get my smut on I enjoy the boy on boy genre. Heck, in my early LPSG days I was often hooting about Tony Buff and Logan McCree *while hot in his porn days McCree's current political inclinations and goals have devastated my previous horn for the man*
I wouldn't ever advise a lone woman to venture into a sexually charged mostly male space. No. It's not a "don't feel safe" situation. It's a "definitely not safe space" situation. There are more evenly mixed spaces, tho going alone is still not ideal, were women would be welcomed to be voyeuristic.
The chat room on this site is an untapped dick viewing market. Men of all types would be happy to entertain you. In the flesh? BDSM clubs and your local sex positivity group are good/safe places to make contact or find resources.
thanks for replying, yes sexuality is an interesting thing. i used to have great 'straight' sex too...but the thought of penetration by a man doesn't do it for me any longer. i think i'd be quite into giving a man a handjob, so long as i was fully in control and didn't feel vulnerable.
thank you for your advice, yes i would definitely avoid a sex-charged male dominant space! i discovered my 'kink' when i caught a man discreetly masturbating on Hampstead Heath, he as staring at women sunbathing and positioned his legs so he thought his cock-stroking couldn't spotted...or maybe not...anyway, it really turne me on, and would love to experience this again.
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@Shelooking I see you're from London, there's plenty of lifestyle clubs in London and other cities like Blackpool, Manchester etc.
Surely a club would be a better option/safe space to view what you are talking about x
Surely a club would be a better option/safe space to view what you are talking about x
i like the idea of mutually bating with a female friend, and i'm mostly gay but i think a woman playing with herself can be fun to watch. Seems more like a fun social activity than it seems like sexual contact anyway, so i don't think it should put your sexuality in question.
As for meeting someone for it, i mean even a lot of straight dudes seem to like to have a male JO buddy. It feels wrong to say "act like a man about it" but I guess what i'm trying to say is approach it casually and in a cavalier way like a "bro", men needs more "lesbros" in their life anyway, I certainly do. Either way, even if you don't like my terminology, I think you're better off looking for an understanding buddy you get along with for this activity, "dogging" is a bad idea because the rando is likely to expect sex.
As for meeting someone for it, i mean even a lot of straight dudes seem to like to have a male JO buddy. It feels wrong to say "act like a man about it" but I guess what i'm trying to say is approach it casually and in a cavalier way like a "bro", men needs more "lesbros" in their life anyway, I certainly do. Either way, even if you don't like my terminology, I think you're better off looking for an understanding buddy you get along with for this activity, "dogging" is a bad idea because the rando is likely to expect sex.
That's really interesting.
My wife is very turned on by watching 2 guys matsturbate each other. She had a previous partner who was bi and he had a friend visit.
I've not been brave enough to do that. I have watched two women / two men be intimate and I find both as hot as anything.
What are your thoughts?
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Consider attending a swinger's event. There are single women who attend out of curiosity. I'll politely introduce myself, engage in small talk and ask them what they are interested in. Certain women will engage in intercourse, and others will happily watch and masturbate.
I'll never pressure anybody into doing something they don't want to do. We respect people's boundaries.
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Yes, I've seen many interesting things happen at swinger parties over the years.
There's always something new that people come up with. The creativity is limitless. To the point that nothing surprises me anymore.
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On the nude beach their are women like yourself who are ā together ā or alone who watch guys either in parking lot or a quiet space on the beach . They Ask to watch and just that. You are not alone
I think most of the time we get turned on by our own masturbation techniques...the stimulation is just the starter....then it's welcome, you have now entered...
the Masturbater Zone.
the Masturbater Zone.
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A lot of men would love to do that for you and get a kick out of it themselves
exhibitionism does not discriminate You must have friends in the LGBT community ??? I feel sure a gay man would understand your feelings and help you with your dilemma ?? and you would also feel safe Good luck with your quest xxAttachments
thanks everyone for the input, and Holly great suggestion, will try and find a friend to come along
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