I Need A Gf So I Can Stop Perving Out On All The Girls At My Work

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I need help. I hate feeling so weird. I don't have a gf and never get laid and watch porn too much, so when I'm at work I can't stop staring and admiring all the insanely hot girls that are there. We have this dress code where we have to wear black, so all the girls wear those really tight yoga pants where I can clearly just see their ass and it's always right in my eyesight. The girls that work there are really beautiful like the kind you see on this site. They all have boyfriends so I'm not gonna ask any of them out and I don't want to get in trouble at work. They talk about their boyfriends all the time and it makes me feel lonely like I'm missing out and I need to hurry up and get a gf and be in a relationship too. I try to stay away from porn and sometimes I'm able to for even over a week at times (that's a lot for me) or even if I do watch porn no matter what I'm still so sexually frustrated and going to work is just torture. Sometimes I'm the only guy there too so there's no one else for me to talk to. I feel bad for these girls that they have to work with a guy like me. I need to get a gf so I can have sex consistently so I can stop suffering so much at work.
 

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You're 22, young dumb and full of cum as the saying goes. No offense. Having a gf isn't going to keep you from perving on the girls you work with. That's something that sometimes you'll do for years to come. There's dating apps you can put to use, although many of them are hook up sites. That may not be a bad thing for you. Women want sex just as much as we do.

Don't be so hard on yourself. They're women. It's often a lot easier for chics to find a boyfriend than it is for guys to find a girlfriend. Be confident in yourself. Take pride in your appearance, if you aren't already. Dress nicely. I'm sure that the women you work with may be perving on you, you just don't know it.

Remember, there's a pandemic going on and be careful out there. It can be a difficult time for everyone. Especially since it's not always safe to venture out into big crowds. You'll find someone it just may take a little longer with the current situation going on.

In the meantime, just keep stroking. It will at least give you some relief. Even if you have to do it several times a day. Good luck man.
 

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As long as you aren't being a creep or doing anything improper there's nothing wrong with admiring the ladies.

And you know, actually befriending the ladies you work with may not be a bad thing, especially if they have friends. I have lost count of how much sex I've gotten based on a coworker hooking me up with a friend of theirs.
 

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Having a gf may stop you feeling lonely, but it wont stop you from perving. And masturbating is normal, we all do it so don't feel ashamed of that.

But as the previous poster said, try befriending the girls you work with rather than thinking of them as distant creatures only to be admired. If you're a good guy, they will happily set you up with their friends etc.
 

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I need help. I hate feeling so weird. I don't have a gf and never get laid and watch porn too much, so when I'm at work I can't stop staring and admiring all the insanely hot girls that are there. We have this dress code where we have to wear black, so all the girls wear those really tight yoga pants where I can clearly just see their ass and it's always right in my eyesight. The girls that work there are really beautiful like the kind you see on this site. They all have boyfriends so I'm not gonna ask any of them out and I don't want to get in trouble at work. They talk about their boyfriends all the time and it makes me feel lonely like I'm missing out and I need to hurry up and get a gf and be in a relationship too. I try to stay away from porn and sometimes I'm able to for even over a week at times (that's a lot for me) or even if I do watch porn no matter what I'm still so sexually frustrated and going to work is just torture. Sometimes I'm the only guy there too so there's no one else for me to talk to. I feel bad for these girls that they have to work with a guy like me. I need to get a gf so I can have sex consistently so I can stop suffering so much at work.
so, you are unable to control yourself and instead act creepy because you Jack off to porn all night?
Imagine your mom is next to you. Or grandma. Or HR.
 

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So it’s 2021. There are countless dating/hook up apps out there now. Make a profile, add some pics, and make yourself sound attainable. There are lots of single women out there, and I’m sure some are pretty thirsty. Go on the apps and see what you find. Might be just occasional hookups but you might also find someone you can be with long term. You have a better chance that way than by creeping out your coworkers.
 

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Get on all the dating sites and apps. Its easier than ever now since a lot of the bars n restaurants are closed or limited, chicks are more willing than ever to come straight to ur place. Post 2 or 3 decent pics on ur profiles and be consistent.

Dont focus on trying to hook up with super hot 9's and 10's chicks. Take what u can get for now and release that sexual energy. It will build your sexual confidence if u have 2-3 steady fuck buddies. Rushing into a relationship mainly just so u can have sex is ill-advised, it wont work out. Plus like others have stated, you're still gonna be perving chicks,. You're 22, hell I'm 42 and get laid pretty regularly and I still am constantly checking out chicks lol