I need tips for my first time (bottom)
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1 finger, baby oil, lightky with ur finger tip, caress ur butt hole, feel it relaxing and loossening up, dont rush it. Hot dogs can be good too. Cucumbers are good, u can buy them the size and shape u like, but clean it VERY well and use a condom. Finally have someone who cares for you and wont hurt you, again dont rush it and ENNJOY, the biggest pleasure there is.
You got two options: you train or go into it raw.
Train: with dildos and buttplugs. Ideally with butt plugs first and then gradually go bigger. With a shit ton of lube and poppers. You will have to be relaxed and push through the discomfort. Doggy (opens you up faster but more discomfort), sitting on it is less painful but you will have push yourself as you open less doing so. Eventually you will not feel pain. Then once you are somewhat use to it (after multiple multiple training sessions) and can open up on your own you can try the real thing. It will be less stressful and enjoyable.
Raw: just go for it. Ideally choose a guy with a smaller length/not so thick. With a guy that will take his time and not ramp you. Not sure if you would like to tell them its your first time but could help. Will still need a shit ton of lube on your hole and his dick. Try poopers as well. Get him to finger you or you do it right before penetration. The position like with training depends on your pain tolerance, determination and trust on the guy. If you have all those then doggy and missionary could be good. Otherwise, slowly sitting on them will be fine. Its good to remember that the pain is temporary and that once you stop clutching your anus it will feel better.
Additionally, regardless you choose to train or just do it; its good to repeat the process as soon as possible multiple times so that its less painful mentally or physically until you are use to it.
Train: with dildos and buttplugs. Ideally with butt plugs first and then gradually go bigger. With a shit ton of lube and poppers. You will have to be relaxed and push through the discomfort. Doggy (opens you up faster but more discomfort), sitting on it is less painful but you will have push yourself as you open less doing so. Eventually you will not feel pain. Then once you are somewhat use to it (after multiple multiple training sessions) and can open up on your own you can try the real thing. It will be less stressful and enjoyable.
Raw: just go for it. Ideally choose a guy with a smaller length/not so thick. With a guy that will take his time and not ramp you. Not sure if you would like to tell them its your first time but could help. Will still need a shit ton of lube on your hole and his dick. Try poopers as well. Get him to finger you or you do it right before penetration. The position like with training depends on your pain tolerance, determination and trust on the guy. If you have all those then doggy and missionary could be good. Otherwise, slowly sitting on them will be fine. Its good to remember that the pain is temporary and that once you stop clutching your anus it will feel better.
Additionally, regardless you choose to train or just do it; its good to repeat the process as soon as possible multiple times so that its less painful mentally or physically until you are use to it.
Go slow. Start playing with you ass. lube up your fingers and start slowly. You could get a butt plug and use plenty of lube. Or a small vibrator. Just go slow. The first time you get fucked it will hurt--until you learn how to relax. Ask the top to go slow and let your ass adjust. Also, make sure that you douche well before any anal play. Nothing can ruin the mood faster than not being clean. You could also find a friend or partner to give you a prostate massage. Nothing will get you loving anal faster than having your prostate massaged. Most of all, enjoy.
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