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Hey everyone !

I took care to search before opening a thread. I need you !

I like to test and discover new ways to enjoy,
I like doing edge sessions a long time but I would like to succeed in draining myself without orgasm, to be able to have a completely dry orgasm, especially in edge sessions, by having multiple leaks without orgasm or multiple ruined orgasms.

Because when I try to do that, very often I have a few leaks but I end up having a ruined orgasm which ruins everything, I lose all excitement...
maybe because I'm 25

I also love rubbing my head and squirting this clear liquid all over myself, I like head games, of frenulum, but I can't find much about that too!

I like taking care of my prostate, with a pure wand or a realistic dildo kegel exercises which create hands-free orgasms, I love experiencing that too, but I have to have full balls for that, like for orgasms with nipples!

And last subject on multiple orgasms, I have a foreskin I did the ribbed band technique, which made me cumming several times but I don't really have control over what happens !

I find very few discussions or videos on all this...

If any of you live and like it and want to share your experience and your ways of doing things!
or even sites or videos, forums etc, or just discuss it, i am interested !!
 
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Hey everyone !

I took care to search before opening a thread. I need you !

I like to test and discover new ways to enjoy,
I like doing edge sessions a long time but I would like to succeed in draining myself without orgasm, to be able to have a completely dry orgasm, especially in edge sessions, by having multiple leaks without orgasm or multiple ruined orgasms.

Because when I try to do that, very often I have a few leaks but I end up having a ruined orgasm which ruins everything, I lose all excitement...
maybe because I'm 25

I also love rubbing my head and squirting this clear liquid all over myself, I like head games, of frenulum, but I can't find much about that too!

I like taking care of my prostate, with a pure wand or a realistic dildo kegel exercises which create hands-free orgasms, I love experiencing that too, but I have to have full balls for that, like for orgasms with nipples!

And last subject on multiple orgasms, I have a foreskin I did the ribbed band technique, which made me cumming several times but I don't really have control over what happens !

I find very few discussions or videos on all this...

If any of you live and like it and want to share your experience and your ways of doing things!
or even sites or videos, forums etc, or just discuss it, i am interested !!
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This is great book about multiple orgasms and how to control ejaculation.

P.S. i have foreskin as well, but what is ribbed band technique?
 

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Devreb78 said:
Hey everyone !

I took care to search before opening a thread. I need you !

I like to test and discover new ways to enjoy,
I like doing edge sessions a long time but I would like to succeed in draining myself without orgasm, to be able to have a completely dry orgasm, especially in edge sessions, by having multiple leaks without orgasm or multiple ruined orgasms.

Because when I try to do that, very often I have a few leaks but I end up having a ruined orgasm which ruins everything, I lose all excitement...
maybe because I'm 25

I also love rubbing my head and squirting this clear liquid all over myself, I like head games, of frenulum, but I can't find much about that too!

I like taking care of my prostate, with a pure wand or a realistic dildo kegel exercises which create hands-free orgasms, I love experiencing that too, but I have to have full balls for that, like for orgasms with nipples!

And last subject on multiple orgasms, I have a foreskin I did the ribbed band technique, which made me cumming several times but I don't really have control over what happens !

I find very few discussions or videos on all this...

If any of you live and like it and want to share your experience and your ways of doing things!
or even sites or videos, forums etc, or just discuss it, i am interested !!
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They are a toon of different things: squirting, milking, ruined orgasm, dry orgasm, nipples...

Beginning read this

https://www.reddit.com/r/NippleOrgas/comments/17cg5hd
 
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Does it make you cum or can you stay indefinitely playing?
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I can play for more than 1 hour!
but i have to be careful if i don't want to cum because one shot too many and I would have cum, almost without realizing it!
 
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I can play for more than 1 hour!
but i have to be careful if i don't want to cum because one shot too many and I would have cum, almost without realizing it!
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Thanks. I asked because they are some variations of this tech.
One of them make us squirt.
Other doesn't need we are careful of the eyaculation as the eyaculation is canceled automatically.

Sadly I have still no found what is the subtle difference between them: I am looking for volunters who are interested on help me with that research (of course being privacy the most important) : I am sure we can find this subtle difference as it happened with the nipple orgasm.

Here they are a related post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/multiorgasmic/comments/17lxmif

If you want to read about what I found about nipple and pleasure you can look :

/r/NippleOrgas.

Yours
 
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Thanks. I asked because they are some variations of this tech.
One of them make us squirt.
Other doesn't need we are careful of the eyaculation as the eyaculation is canceled automatically.

Sadly I have still no found what is the subtle difference between them: I am looking for volunters who are interested on help me with that research (of course being privacy the most important) : I am sure we can find this subtle difference as it happened with the nipple orgasm.

Here they are a related post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/multiorgasmic/comments/17lxmif

If you want to read about what I found about nipple and pleasure you can look :

/r/NippleOrgas.

Yours
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the difference is that for squirting you should not feel pleasure when you rub your glans ! you have to feel the contractions and let it happen,
you have to be a little excited, for my part !
and psychologically, to start doing it in the shower and you will succeed in doing it anywhere and anytime
 
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the difference is that for squirting you should not feel pleasure when you rub your glans ! you have to feel the contractions and let it happen,
you have to be a little excited, for my part !
and psychologically, to start doing it in the shower and you will succeed in doing it anywhere and anytime
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Do you squirt pee or prostate liquid?
Is your cock always hard or it can be soft?
I have found than most of the guys who squirt playing the glans squirt pee. This is specially easy to see on guys who can squirt both anally and rubbing the glans.

Of course this is no an exact rule : some guys squirt prostate liquid. This makes me think what is the little difference when rubbing the glans.
 
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"
I like to test and discover new ways to enjoy,
I like doing edge sessions a long time but I would like to succeed in draining myself without orgasm, to be able to have a completely dry orgasm, especially in edge sessions, by having multiple leaks without orgasm or multiple ruined orgasms.

Because when I try to do that, very often I have a few leaks but I end up having a ruined orgasm which ruins everything, I lose all excitement...
maybe because I'm 25"

I had my first dry O with 20: although age can make things harder, it is no a big issue.


While we edgin more and more liquid is build, which makes sometimes it drops itself.
Toon of people think it is precum but our body can no build so much quantity. It is prostate liquid (sometimes it has also some seminal vesicles liquid which gives a white color).

A few people is able to squirting it (similar what happens when the glands is rubbed or the prostate is stimulated on a concrete way).
Recently I have found this vid:

Edging Male Masturbation Moaning Pee Peeing Precum Squirt Squirting Porn GIF by cockenjoymentdiary

which I found very interesting.
Sadly the full vid is a payed one.
I like this concretely because he almost no touch the glands and the liquid seems equal to the one is build on the prostate.




"I also love rubbing my head and squirting this clear liquid all over myself
I like head games"

I Love them: from having someone playing with it just after cum when it becomes extra sensitive to sensual and slowly touches.
As I wrote before they are different ways (although the tech seems almost the same but they are a little variation).

avoiding the frenulum and coronal ridge should make harder for us cum but no imposible.


I found this tech very interesting:

https://www.reddit.com/r/multiorgasmic/comments/17lxmif

although this guy use the kegels and need be careful about cum.

What he explains is very similar to the tech I have reposted called "Darkwhite Technique" (for the guy who first post it).
The difference is they are no need to control the eyaculation but it is no easy to find the way to make it if they are no someone who taught you making it.
I had several chats with DW and he was a wonderful man.




"of frenulum, but I can't find much about that too!"


I am also very interested on this but they are no many info: I only have found the one you posted.



"
I like taking care of my prostate, with a pure wand or a realistic dildo kegel exercises which create hands-free orgasms, I love experiencing that too, but I have to have full balls for that"


Have you tried a prostate massager as the aneros one? They work better than dildos for making our prostate" awakes" and give us awesome dry O/full body O.
Some people experience them the first times but others need more time.
You need to be relaxed, no looking for the same sensations than you already know. When it begins it moves itself with out inner muscles.
You can search aneros on places as xhamster and see what you can enjoy. And no: most of them are no fake: our body begins to shakes without control.
Note: I recommend to test it yourself first for avoiding build expectations and they make harder be successful on this kind of orgasm as with dry nipple O.

With the dildo is harder to have this feelings, almost until the prostate is "full awaked", which would no need the aneros anymore.

The pure wand is very used on people who wants to squirt stimulating the prostate.
You need use it slowly and avoid the in-out movement.

"like for orgasms with nipples!"

I Love nipple orgasm (look my nick ).
Toon of people can cum only playing them. It is called "hand free Orgasm". I prefer to "enhanced cum" as it is similar to cum.
Cum=orgasm+eyaculation.

They are other way of having orgasm playing our nipples where the eyaculation doesn't appear.
On some way it is related to the dry prostate O I talked already as they need we forgot what we already know about sex and simply relax, avoid expectations and enjoying whatever our body gives.
I build the sub /r/nippleorgas to share everything what I learned about nipple and pleasure, and I described the difference between them and toon of tips and tricks to be successful.
Something which works great is massaging all the chest/breast slowly, enjoying all sensation (including the subtle ones) avoiding touching the nipples : the more they are being teased, the best.
Randomly you can pinch the tip of one nipple and back to the massage.
As I said you need be relaxed and it is ok if the cock is soft: all our attention and pleasure are on the chest.

I hope people find this interesting and it would be a pleasure if more people share their techniques (if it has a how to Vid, it would be awesome).

Sadly nowadays I am taking some pills which makes me harder have orgasm, if no it would be a pleasure to record a nipple one ALTHOUGH I always recommend people to do themselves, only to enjoy and see how the body reacts. As seing it can easily build expectations which will make harder be successful.

(Excuse me for using other kind of color but I am using the phone and I failed to do it correctly)
 
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mmmniple said:
Do you squirt pee or prostate liquid?
Is your cock always hard or it can be soft?
I have found than most of the guys who squirt playing the glans squirt pee. This is specially easy to see on guys who can squirt both anally and rubbing the glans.

Of course this is no an exact rule : some guys squirt prostate liquid. This makes me think what is the little difference when rubbing the glans.
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Everything depends,
if I emptied my bladder before and play for a while, it will be prostate fluid.
but if I don't play for a long time, I won't have anything
and sometimes I have fun emptying my bladder by squirting in the shower
 
mmmniple said:
"
I like to test and discover new ways to enjoy,
I like doing edge sessions a long time but I would like to succeed in draining myself without orgasm, to be able to have a completely dry orgasm, especially in edge sessions, by having multiple leaks without orgasm or multiple ruined orgasms.

Because when I try to do that, very often I have a few leaks but I end up having a ruined orgasm which ruins everything, I lose all excitement...
maybe because I'm 25"

I had my first dry O with 20: although age can make things harder, it is no a big issue.


While we edgin more and more liquid is build, which makes sometimes it drops itself.
Toon of people think it is precum but our body can no build so much quantity. It is prostate liquid (sometimes it has also some seminal vesicles liquid which gives a white color).

A few people is able to squirting it (similar what happens when the glands is rubbed or the prostate is stimulated on a concrete way).
Recently I have found this vid:

Edging Male Masturbation Moaning Pee Peeing Precum Squirt Squirting Porn GIF by cockenjoymentdiary

which I found very interesting.
Sadly the full vid is a payed one.
I like this concretely because he almost no touch the glands and the liquid seems equal to the one is build on the prostate.




"I also love rubbing my head and squirting this clear liquid all over myself
I like head games"

I Love them: from having someone playing with it just after cum when it becomes extra sensitive to sensual and slowly touches.
As I wrote before they are different ways (although the tech seems almost the same but they are a little variation).

avoiding the frenulum and coronal ridge should make harder for us cum but no imposible.


I found this tech very interesting:

https://www.reddit.com/r/multiorgasmic/comments/17lxmif

although this guy use the kegels and need be careful about cum.

What he explains is very similar to the tech I have reposted called "Darkwhite Technique" (for the guy who first post it).
The difference is they are no need to control the eyaculation but it is no easy to find the way to make it if they are no someone who taught you making it.
I had several chats with DW and he was a wonderful man.




"of frenulum, but I can't find much about that too!"


I am also very interested on this but they are no many info: I only have found the one you posted.



"
I like taking care of my prostate, with a pure wand or a realistic dildo kegel exercises which create hands-free orgasms, I love experiencing that too, but I have to have full balls for that"


Have you tried a prostate massager as the aneros one? They work better than dildos for making our prostate" awakes" and give us awesome dry O/full body O.
Some people experience them the first times but others need more time.
You need to be relaxed, no looking for the same sensations than you already know. When it begins it moves itself with out inner muscles.
You can search aneros on places as xhamster and see what you can enjoy. And no: most of them are no fake: our body begins to shakes without control.
Note: I recommend to test it yourself first for avoiding build expectations and they make harder be successful on this kind of orgasm as with dry nipple O.

With the dildo is harder to have this feelings, almost until the prostate is "full awaked", which would no need the aneros anymore.

The pure wand is very used on people who wants to squirt stimulating the prostate.
You need use it slowly and avoid the in-out movement.

"like for orgasms with nipples!"

I Love nipple orgasm (look my nick ).
Toon of people can cum only playing them. It is called "hand free Orgasm". I prefer to "enhanced cum" as it is similar to cum.
Cum=orgasm+eyaculation.

They are other way of having orgasm playing our nipples where the eyaculation doesn't appear.
On some way it is related to the dry prostate O I talked already as they need we forgot what we already know about sex and simply relax, avoid expectations and enjoying whatever our body gives.
I build the sub /r/nippleorgas to share everything what I learned about nipple and pleasure, and I described the difference between them and toon of tips and tricks to be successful.
Something which works great is massaging all the chest/breast slowly, enjoying all sensation (including the subtle ones) avoiding touching the nipples : the more they are being teased, the best.
Randomly you can pinch the tip of one nipple and back to the massage.
As I said you need be relaxed and it is ok if the cock is soft: all our attention and pleasure are on the chest.

I hope people find this interesting and it would be a pleasure if more people share their techniques (if it has a how to Vid, it would be awesome).

Sadly nowadays I am taking some pills which makes me harder have orgasm, if no it would be a pleasure to record a nipple one ALTHOUGH I always recommend people to do themselves, only to enjoy and see how the body reacts. As seing it can easily build expectations which will make harder be successful.

(Excuse me for using other kind of color but I am using the phone and I failed to do it correctly)
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Thank you for your complete response!
he doesn't touch his glans,and I notice that for me it's the same.
to succeed easily I have to do light friction, If I start to get angry I'll switch to a cumshot.

regarding kegels,
if I contract to hold back the ejac, It has the opposite effect!
I trained, but this will confirm my orgasm instead of canceling it !
if i want i have an orgasm only by doing kegels.

I've had an aneros since I was 18! I started with that.
but it's a little too small and the shape at the base hurts after a while of wearing it

I know these videos, I understand that the mind also plays a role, and the absolute peace of mind that I don't necessarily have all the time, many requirements and good self-knowledge but also letting go

thanks for the links, I will look at your reddit, I use suction cups to help, I'm recable my nipples to my prostate little by little but I have the feeling that it's a long process like for the prostate.
 
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Thank you for your complete response!
he doesn't touch his glans,and I notice that for me it's the same.
to succeed easily I have to do light friction, If I start to get angry I'll switch to a cumshot.

regarding kegels,
if I contract to hold back the ejac, It has the opposite effect!
I trained, but this will confirm my orgasm instead of canceling it !
if i want i have an orgasm only by doing kegels.

I've had an aneros since I was 18! I started with that.
but it's a little too small and the shape at the base hurts after a while of wearing it

I know these videos, I understand that the mind also plays a role, and the absolute peace of mind that I don't necessarily have all the time, many requirements and good self-knowledge but also letting go

thanks for the links, I will look at your reddit, I use suction cups to help, I'm recable my nipples to my prostate little by little but I have the feeling that it's a long process like for the prostate.
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Later I will answer everything slowly but I want do two important things:
1)it seems than this model of aneros doesn't work for you. You should try to cut a little the base to avoid it hurts you (I had already read about it on the aneros forum). About the size often it doesn't care but they are different models.
Anyway the most important is than it should no hurt you.
I know it is no fun to have to buy another but you could keep this one and maybe it works for your patner and founding the one which works is a game changer.
You can ask on the forums (the one of aneros or /r/aneros how to choose the good for you.


Note: I have just remind than they are a subreddit where people sell used toys : you can sell it and no lost all money.


-About the kegels. If I have no understood bad when you are near to cum, if you press the muscles the cum goes out?
Do you feel pleasure or only the release?
I ask because if it is done before the PONR, it will make the cum go out but the eyaculation reflex is no triggered and you would no feel anything : simply than they are less pressure inside you and the cock become more sensitive. In fact you can repeat it.
It is fun as it can be a way of edgin but as I said the cock becomes much more sensitive and it is hard stop. I am only able to do twice on the same session.
This is also used for some people who edge as the liquid goes out, the internal pressure release enough to take the control.
If you make this after the PONR, you will have probably a ruined orgasm : the eyaculation reflex is triggered but as you are trying to use the force the orgasm lost or become weaker.
Some people say it works for them but In my case I had only retrograde eyaculation or ruined orgasm.
Often it works better the reverse kegel.
Later I will finish the answer.
 
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Later I will answer everything slowly but I want do two important things:
1)it seems than this model of aneros doesn't work for you. You should try to cut a little the base to avoid it hurts you (I had already read about it on the aneros forum). About the size often it doesn't care but they are different models.
Anyway the most important is than it should no hurt you.
I know it is no fun to have to buy another but you could keep this one and maybe it works for your patner and founding the one which works is a game changer.
You can ask on the forums (the one of aneros or /r/aneros how to choose the good for you.


Note: I have just remind than they are a subreddit where people sell used toys : you can sell it and no lost all money.


-About the kegels. If I have no understood bad when you are near to cum, if you press the muscles the cum goes out?
Do you feel pleasure or only the release?
I ask because if it is done before the PONR, it will make the cum go out but the eyaculation reflex is no triggered and you would no feel anything : simply than they are less pressure inside you and the cock become more sensitive. In fact you can repeat it.
It is fun as it can be a way of edgin but as I said the cock becomes much more sensitive and it is hard stop. I am only able to do twice on the same session.
This is also used for some people who edge as the liquid goes out, the internal pressure release enough to take the control.
If you make this after the PONR, you will have probably a ruined orgasm : the eyaculation reflex is triggered but as you are trying to use the force the orgasm lost or become weaker.
Some people say it works for them but In my case I had only retrograde eyaculation or ruined orgasm.
Often it works better the reverse kegel.
Later I will finish the answer.
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I also read that I was not alone in having pain but one of the arms of the toy would have to be cut off

because it's not the arms that hurt me, but the fact that the thin base is not long enough, which means that it is not correctly inserted and always comes out a little.
it's not a problem for me to buy another one, if it allows access to pleasure, instead of suffering after 1 hour of wear, for nothing and the toy doesn't even reach my prostate.
I have the classic helix, maybe that’s also why.
thank you I will go see to get good advice and get a suitable one !


for kegels,
I contract just before the PONR but I feel the orgasm building, the contractions arrive and I ejaculate.
Of course it's softer and longer but it doesn't stop, so I do everything not to contract, and I stay away from PONR .

once I succeeded but when the sperm went in the opposite direction, I felt pain so I released my muscles and it came out, but I managed to hold back the sperm which came out while emptying my bladder, but the pain was like a big cramp,since then I haven't started again
 
Devreb78 said:
I also read that I was not alone in having pain but one of the arms of the toy would have to be cut off

because it's not the arms that hurt me, but the fact that the thin base is not long enough, which means that it is not correctly inserted and always comes out a little.
it's not a problem for me to buy another one, if it allows access to pleasure, instead of suffering after 1 hour of wear, for nothing and the toy doesn't even reach my prostate.
I have the classic helix, maybe that’s also why.
thank you I will go see to get good advice and get a suitable one !


for kegels,
I contract just before the PONR but I feel the orgasm building, the contractions arrive and I ejaculate.
Of course it's softer and longer but it doesn't stop, so I do everything not to contract, and I stay away from PONR .

once I succeeded but when the sperm went in the opposite direction, I felt pain so I released my muscles and it came out, but I managed to hold back the sperm which came out while emptying my bladder, but the pain was like a big cramp,since then I haven't started again
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Fortunately they are different kind of aneros. If I don't remember bad the one you have is the smallest.
The most important is avoid
suffering after 1 hour of wear
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Although you have no these awesome orgasm, you should enjoy or maybe no feel anything (at the beginning it can happen until your body reacts), but never pain.


What happened is you had a retrograde eyaculation : it can be from pleasant to feel it uncomfortable.
This is one of the reasons I always say people they must be careful with the tech they use.
And example is what is suggested on Mantak Chia's books : press on the 1m point until you can make nothing pass on the tubes.
It has no sense as it can hurt us.
I don't know why they tend to mix physical techniques with "energy" one.
 
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