I Was Born Man But I'd Prefer To Have A Vagina.

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Since you never had a vagina, how can you say you "prefer to have a vagina".

Everyone, have curiosity toward the other sex, how would it feel, the sensation. I myself would love to feel internal pleasure.

But, I still like my own genital.

I can understand your feeling, your certainly not alone and there more to it then just a preference. My only input would be, be yourself, your body is a wonderful tool, use it fully in every way possible.

Otherwise you will be prisoner in your own body. in the end, it's a question of acceptation of what you got.

Be in peace, I wish to you.
 

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Since you never had a vagina, how can you say you "prefer to have a vagina".

Everyone, have curiosity toward the other sex, how would it feel, the sensation. I myself would love to feel internal pleasure.

But, I still like my own genital.

I can understand your feeling, your certainly not alone and there more to it then just a preference. My only input would be, be yourself, your body is a wonderful tool, use it fully in every way possible.

Otherwise you will be prisoner in your own body. in the end, it's a question of acceptation of what you got.

Be in peace, I wish to you.

Thank you for your words, I understand what you're saying. But It doesn't feel like it's curiosity It's a deeper feeling. I'm gay and when I have sex I feel even more the dysphoria with my actual genitals; I don't like other people suck my D and I absolutely dislike being a top.

It's more than curiosity, I think I'm a trans woman but I doesn't feel I need to have boobs, long hair... like the society thinks a woman should be. I identify myself more like the body a FTM has.

Thank you for your time and opinion.
 
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I won't pretend to understand your feelings. We all have our own paths to transitioning. I'd strongly suggest you research what transitioning actually involves. It's quite impossible to choose a single attribute to change. And the change is far more than hair and boobs. Our body odor changes (for the better imo), our hair becomes finer and less of it in most places, our bodies store fat differently than our purely masculine bodies did, and we change emotionally. Also, your testicles and penis would atrophy and lose some function. Perhaps a smaller penis that doesn't work so well would help your dysphoria without taking the extreme step of removing it completely/

I suppose it is feasible to simply have bottom surgery and trade that penis in on a shiny new vagina but I have no knowledge of it. I'm sure it has happened. But keep in mind our bodies need both estrogens and testosterone with one or the other dominant. Should you remove your testicles almost all of your testosterone production goes away with them. That needs to be replaced with another source of testosterone or estrogen. You cannot get by without one or the other dominant sex hormone without serious health issues. So if you replace it with testosterone therapy you have you will have the desired outcome, in theory. I'd make absolutely certain of that step as it's obviously permanent. Buyers remorse would be pretty terrible.

Also, in my case at least, transitioning goals are dynamic and change often. Today you feel no need for breast development, but in time that can change.

If you are interested in the research feel free to send me a private message and I will be happy to share some resources I use for information.

I am not a physician. I simply have some knowledge, albeit anecdotal, about male to female transitioning. You should take no steps without consulting your doctor.

Best of luck,
Aly
 
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Did you know someone else with this feeling? Let's say I have dysphoria with my genitals but I wouldn't change anything else of my body (boobs, hormones...) like a mtf normally do.

Yes, I have had the same feeling at times. I do envy transmen who have front holes for this reason, yet I wouldn't medically change though.

Vaginas/front holes are more powerful than large penises IMO.
 
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Yes, I have had the same feeling at times. I do envy transmen who have front holes for this reason, yet I wouldn't medically change though.

Vaginas/front holes are more powerful than large penises IMO.

So who do you control that feeling? You just try to accept what you have I guess.
 
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So who do you control that feeling? You just try to accept what you have I guess.

I'm non-binary and what genitals I do or don't have doesn't concern me on a daily basis. But if it does concern you, I'd see a psychologist who specialises in this area.
 

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Did you know someone else with this feeling? Let's say I have dysphoria with my genitals but I wouldn't change anything else of my body (boobs, hormones...) like a mtf normally do.
I am in the exact same situation. I still struggle with finding a label, but I do have cristal clear that I am comfortable in my masculine body whilst I feel the inner need to have a vagina as a sex organ and do not feel I should have a penis. It took me years to understand myself. It took years for acceptance, and here I am today, conscious of what is my inner being and what I feel I am as a person.

Non-binary, I guess, is the umbrella that covers the wide spectrum of individualities and our is under it. I feel we are one more piece of the puzzle in the sexual wide spectrum.

I have met two guys who got surgery, so, NO, we are not alone Humll, I believe we are much more than many people think.

And yes, that is possible. It is possible to get bottom surgery, afterwards you'll have to get HRT with T. Obviously you will need the help of an endocrinologist, a pshychitrist, etc.. PM me if you wish to exchange more information.
 

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Did you know someone else with this feeling? Let's say I have dysphoria with my genitals but I wouldn't change anything else of my body (boobs, hormones...) like a mtf normally do.
If you do not like having male genitalia but prefer having female one, that means you are transsexual by definition.
 
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You want to be fully male and masculine but have a vagina instead of a penis? Ok. Makes sense to me.

I am super attracted to real men with pussies. I don't like to interact with dick - just compare visually.

I wish you the best. Please take care.
 

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If you do not like having male genitalia but prefer having female one, that means you are transsexual by definition.
No, transexuals are people whose gender identity doesn't match their assignments at birth. Since the OP was born male and identifies as male, he is not trans. Although I've only had sex with two trans men in my life (both with vaginas), and hundreds of men with penises, if I had to choose I would prefer to have sex with a man who has a vagina rather than one who has a penis. As a gay man, what attracts me most from other men is their musculature, especially a hard, firm musculature. Breasts, of course, are a complete turn-off. I realize this is probably not typical for most gay men, but I have little interest in a man's penis. I'm even less fond of large penises, which are difficult to suck, and frankly just get in the way in my opinion. As it turns out, my permanent partner is a regular cis man, and our sex is great. I have looked for trans men when I was single, but gay trans men aren't easy to find. And I also tend to like men a couple of decades younger than myself, which makes things even tougher.
Quite frankly, I'd love it if cis gay men getting vaginas were a trend. I would think that the ability to ejaculate would be greatly missed, but if not, there's no reason a cis gay man couldn't get a vagina, if that's what he feels most comfortable with.
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