Ideal Size For Vaginal Vs Anal Sex

[A_dub]

Simple question and it seems it wasn't listed on the FAQ thread so I'll shoot (no pun intended):

Is the ideal penis size different for vaginal vs anal sex? I would guess for a majority or at least a plurality of women that there is a difference...

 

[4388301]

For self? Not so enthused about THICK for things going up my butt. Tolerant to a point for thick going elsewhere. Length. Eh. Relatively flexible 'bout that.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Too big is uncomfortable in both holes. Length and girth.

There's no such thing as too small for either in my personal experience.

Having said that, I've never met a dick I couldn't fuck. In any of my exquisite holes. *Too* long or *too* thick though? I can cum if we have good physical communication. But it's not as pleasurable or easy for me to get there.

 

[A_dub]

Too big is uncomfortable in both holes. Length and girth.

There's no such thing as too small for either in my personal experience.

Having said that, I've never met a dick I couldn't fuck. In any of my exquisite holes. *Too* long or *too* thick though? I can cum if we have good physical communication. But it's not as pleasurable or easy for me to get there.

So you are saying its difficult to orgasm from very long or very thick penises?

 

[286798]

I'm gonna stick with my standard answer that my ideal dick is attached to my ideal man... and unless it's at the far ends of the bell curve, I'll figure out how to make it work.

 

[Holly Doors]

This is a tough question for me, my husband is at the far end of large penis wise length and very thick. I enjoy anal sex but given the ultimatum I'd choose vaginal sex for quality and satisfaction, we've been married coming on 15 years but up until last year I'd never really done anal with my husband, it was always just too painful cause of his thickness. I'd always said I'd give my bottom up to him one day and last year the time seemed appropriate, it was extremely hard work, painful beyond comprehension but we stuck with it and now I quite enjoy it but no more than once or twice a week. Is there a perfect size? I dunno! You can make anything work I guess apart from maybe too small X

 

[TinyPrincess]

Ideal size would be the size of the guy I'm with at any given time.

Too big or too small doesn't exist for me - and I've pretty much tried it all

 

[MickeyLee]

Just gonna remove the word "size" and replace with a combo of "skill level and being attentive" as a desired trait for either type of intercourse.

Vaginal sex is for more forgiving than anal sex. A passionate grappling interaction is hot. A vagina does a lot of self- preparation. Arousal lengthens the vaginal barrel. Blood engorgement helps dilate and relax smooth muscle tissue. The vagina is also by design far more elastic. Natural lubrication is +50 bonus points at least.

Anal sex in spite of what meme culture will have you believe there is no surprise buttsex. The anus is the twist tie of the human body. It's meant to stay shut until ummm ya need to get a slice of bread out.

Skill and attention are very important to mutually pleasurable bum-love. The fuckee needs to have a base line knowledge of the anatomy. Be attentive to how their partner is responding. Also be willing to stop at any sign of discomfort.

A skillful attentive sex partner is always a preference for any sex act. I've had great cooter-focused sex with partners working at a C level of skill. But they were at least a B+ for being attentive.

Gonna say skillful and attentive is required for good anal. At least a B on both counts. If a partner scores higher on attentive and can handle feed back, respond to guidance without taking an ego the skill level can be a bit lower.

 

[4388301]

Too big is uncomfortable in both holes. Length and girth.

There's no such thing as too small for either in my personal experience.

Having said that, I've never met a dick I couldn't fuck. In any of my exquisite holes. *Too* long or *too* thick though? I can cum if we have good physical communication. But it's not as pleasurable or easy for me to get there.

Also what Tight_N_Juicy says.

More imporant tho is trust n consideration. Only have chosen entirely on own to do anal play w self and partner. Before that was bad relationship n giving in to request. Did no go well.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

The ideal dick is the one he’s attached to. He has only one, therefore there is no reason to overthink.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

So you are saying its difficult to orgasm from very long or very thick penises?

Only if he's not paying attention to how my body is reacting.

Sex isn't as mechanical as some people describe. Not for me anyway. There's no formula. No manual of instructions.

 

[A_dub]

Only if he's not paying attention to how my body is reacting.

Sex isn't as mechanical as some people describe. Not for me anyway. There's no formula. No manual of instructions.

Does that mean that you need something different each time to orgasm? Like something a guy does once to make you cum, may not work even if the same guy does the same thing again? Not sure if you understood what I was trying to say, lol.