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You are given the power to change your sexuality, if you want to of course. Would you stay as gay, the way you are now, or rather become straight?

Please explain as well :)
 
Stay the same for me Thanks

Couldn't be bothered going thru all the dramas (emotional not so much Physical) again
especially with straight, and the other sex,s possible peculiarities ..

haha cres, Bi did happen for me
shit
does that mean i unwittingly doubled my hassles? ha
 
Stay the same for me Thanks

Couldn't be bothered going thru all the dramas (emotional not so much Physical) again
especially with straight, and the other sex,s possible peculiarities ..

haha cres, Bi did happen for me
shit
does that mean i unwittingly doubled my hassles? ha

You possibly did. Though I do not personally approve of the straight "lifestyle",
I believe it is one's right to choose.:biggrin1:
 
I think I would stay the same. I enjoy it. I'm not out to my family which is probably the only thing that is making my life the way it should be, but in time...
 
I would NEVER change in a million years or for a million dollars. I have always been gay and one of the few who, if they could "choose" a sexual orientation, would go gay all the way.

My only regret at my time of life is instead of having fucked around with maybe a 1000 guys - no shit. I did it all. $25 blow jobs and fuck my ass for $50 when I was young on Santa Monica Blvd. to being a total bar/park slut - I wish instead I could have fallen in love with one guy and done him a thousand times instead.

(Somehow I managed to emerge from a life time of promiscuity completely disease free even while fucking my way through the height of the AIDS pandemic - Talk about pure luck there!)

I guess if I had a big cock I probably would have been a porn star and we know how so many of them end up. Not good...

Does this make any sense?
 
If I had the power to change mine? I'd stay the same.

But I want one of those flowers from Midsummer Night's Dream and use it like the main character in Were the World Mine did. It'd be interesting to see how narrow minded people were after that.
 
I'm glad that I didn't have that power a few years ago, I would have honestly chosen to make myself straight. I was fighting it so hard that I was miserable inside.

Now? Wouldn't change myself for nothing!! :biggrin1:


Exactly! It's just more fun! And I love being me.
 
It would be rather the same answer from anyone. If we were given the choice at the very beginning, we would have all turned straight.

Now that we lived a life with the fact that we're gay, we cannot imagine going back and ignore all the good memories we had since then.
 
Given my environment, culture and the place where I live, I'd change it in a heartbeat...

I am very sorry for you. A good friend of mine went thru the same thing in M'sia several years back. He was married for several years, trying to suppress and change the fact that he was gay. It didn't work, and he eventually came out and confessed to his wife, who was fortunately a very good-hearted lady. They kept his secret and divorced quietly without causing a scandal and now I am happy to report that he is living with his Australian bf in Queensland, and his wife is happily married to an English guy.

I personally would no longer tolerate living in a society which discriminates against my sexual preference. I am by no means a "whore" sexually, but this matter is an important part of who you are. Your religion and your government have no moral right to tell you that you are wrong for the nature you are born with. You should consider moving to another place where you are freer to be yourself.
 
I personally would no longer tolerate living in a society which discriminates against my sexual preference. I am by no means a "whore" sexually, but this matter is an important part of who you are. Your religion and your government have no moral right to tell you that you are wrong for the nature you are born with. You should consider moving to another place where you are freer to be yourself.

Agreed. This is why I'd rather have the power to change other people's sexualities (I'd only do it temporarily of course, unless they wanted to stay like that). The problem is that many of the huge anti-gay are either really repressed from being told it's evil, or they're blindly following some hateful spouting person who tells them the same thing (or writes it in their religious texts). If they had to see what it was like on the other side, then maybe they'd think twice about their sexuality.

In Were the World Mine, the main character creates the flower from A Midsummer Night's Dream and sprays it into certain people's faces that are pretty narrow-minded about homosexuality (which, in his small town that he's in, are a lot). But as the flower makes you fall in love with the first person you see, he takes special care in making sure that the first person they see are someone of the same gender. Despite the fact that it also makes the guys more flamboyant (though one could argue that they're just so madly in love that they're doing things to express it), it also brings out another, more warm and open side of everyone affected that you don't see in their normal self. But they have to deal with remarks and awkwardness from people not affected, and it hurts them. Even at the end when the spell on everyone is taken off, the warm and more open feelings are still there (for the most part). This is what I would love to do as well, as mentioned, just so people against it can see what it's like to love something only to have others tell them that it's a vile/disgusting/unnatural/sinful thing.
 
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I wouldn't change anything. I really like being who I am.

Would it be easier being straight? Yes, but easy doesn't always equal to happiness.
 
Gay from birth to death, I honestly believe that, to death. It's as much a part of me as anything else in my body.