I'm glad I'm not 8 inches plus

[deleted21799691]

I'm about 6.5 which seems small on me 'cause I'm about 6'6 and heavy (hence the name) but in my experience it seems to be a good size for sex (formerly with women and currently as a top).

I know some guys that complain bitterly about not having a massive 9 inch cock but that seems unmanageable in everyday life. Most people aren't pornstars that can easily deepthroat some huge dick but most of us can get down pretty far on 6 inches. I've personally never sucked a dick that was more than 7 (I'm guessing) and I'm more than happy with that.

Any bottoms out there have a real preference for above average cocks?

 

[MeatStickSupreme]

Ive been topped by a fair number of guys and what matters more to me is the way they fuck rather than the size of their dick. Most of them are fast and rough which works for others but just makes me sore. I remember this one top, was a hairy manly straight passing taxi driver who was married and everything. I dont rember much about his dick but the way he fucked me still makes my heart race. he laid me down on my stomach, and lied down on top of me and fucked me slow but firmly and insistently and he ramped up slowly over time. It was like the way he was fucking me he was gentle but i couldnt get away from the dick or the orgasms it was giving me. By the end of the night i was shaking and moaning and tensing and making noises i didnt know i could make. As for his dick size. can barely remember much haha.

 

[ShivaLingam]

I love big dicks and once had a boyfriend with 10 inches who fucked me often with it. But there is certainly a lot to be said for the "its not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean" theory of sex. Confidence, knowledge, technique and interpersonal skills make for good sex no matter the size of cock, and lack of them make having a big cock useless for people interested in a good fuck.

 

[Feriousd]

Oh yeah. I want to really feel sensations, finding my prostate isn’t the easiest, but larger members make that much easier… At the same time, I can truly attest to even slightly smaller being the worst experience, if they don’t know what they’re doing…

Ex of many years, must have slowly gotten on his nerves over the years. I hear he’s roaming the city as self-declared best of the best, and he’s 7.5 length, but multiple people have come running to me, of all people, complaining it was awful, “worst ever”, can’t take nor receive, etc.

Meanwhile I’m larger, both length and girth, and anyone I’ve ever been with, they rant and rave about me over here as best ever. I try to avoid hook up sites as a result, and usually back out of any hook up because they always say top at first, then refuse and insist on bottoming once things get going. Personally it makes me want to jump off a cliff or live far away the second I hear it. I’ve had dudes beg and plead for it (not my request, but rather their desperation), and I just want to be normal and blend in, often unnoticed with minimal attention.

One person started going through his mental calendar to determine if he ever had anything that good and started numbering off scores like I put on a performance on Pose, oh that was so awkward, just had the best yet with him only moments before. Another one brought his laundry from across town, then tried saying he was in the neighborhood, ritualistically, every Friday, and couldn’t understand why I kept saying no repeatedly.

There’s “I don’t know what I’m doing and I have everyone screaming and running”, and then there’s bigger and shocking not just tolerable, but overall much much better, as long as they know what they’re doing. Maybe I need to be cruel to these obsessive ones and just no spit/lube and run them off or something lol, they’re the worst to me. Size has some role, yes, but the biggest is how one handles a great time overall to me.

 

[Jizzpainter]

I had a conversation with my wife about this a few days ago. We're introducing ourselves to the world of swinging and the last couple we had sex with was a really good match for her. She had so much fun and he was all over her. He fucked her furiously and she enjoyed it very much. So when we evaluated this later (yes we do that every time), she told me how that worked, because I was wondering why it was something we rarely do (that hard I mean).
Her idea was that it had to do with the length of his cock, while we were very similar in girth, his was quite a bit shorter than mine. Every time I go ballistic on her like that she hurts or even bleeds. With him, that just wasn't the case because he didn't hit that deep.

It's double feelings for me, because I like fucking her hard and deep, but I don't want to hurt her. So yes, size does matter, also in this perspective and a long penis is not always better depending on who your sex partner is

 

[bravesoldier]

Oddly I seem to have far less trouble or pain when a really thick dick fucks me. I am thinking the anal sphincter must surrender to the intense stretch or something. My bud with 6.5" of girth takes me so much easier than the ex BF who was longer but slender.

 

[rockhardbttm]

I'm about 6.5 which seems small on me 'cause I'm about 6'6 and heavy (hence the name) but in my experience it seems to be a good size for sex (formerly with women and currently as a top).

I know some guys that complain bitterly about not having a massive 9 inch cock but that seems unmanageable in everyday life. Most people aren't pornstars that can easily deepthroat some huge dick but most of us can get down pretty far on 6 inches. I've personally never sucked a dick that was more than 7 (I'm guessing) and I'm more than happy with that.

Any bottoms out there have a real preference for above average cocks?

Big dicks are fun every once in a while but the 6-8in range is perfect for me.

 

[SmallDguy]

So I've been reading even on this site average is 5 to 6 and I say it's BS. Yet even on this site they say it is. I am not gay but I can't feel the pussy sometimes. This just solidifies average size is much bigger. I was actually starting to believe I was average. Thanks guys I must start pumping some more. Maybe it will grow through time.

 

[dickapick]

So I've been reading even on this site average is 5 to 6 and I say it's BS. Yet even on this site they say it is. I am not gay but I can't feel the pussy sometimes. This just solidifies average size is much bigger. I was actually starting to believe I was average. Thanks guys I must start pumping some more. Maybe it will grow through time.

So because you can’t feel the pussy sometimes, the average penis size must be much bigger? This doesn’t make any sense at all! What would make sense though is that not all women are sized equally. Just like men.

I can really enjoy a woman that loves her pussy filled up with a huge toy. Hell, I have seen videos where it looks like the woman is inserting 10+ inches around. Does that make the average penis has to be at least 8 inches around?

 

[deleted22409881]

So I've been reading even on this site average is 5 to 6 and I say it's BS. Yet even on this site they say it is. I am not gay but I can't feel the pussy sometimes. This just solidifies average size is much bigger. I was actually starting to believe I was average. Thanks guys I must start pumping some more. Maybe it will grow through time.

Looked at your profile and I think you're possibly above average. Even without PE it grows bigger with use and age. Yours looks like mine, I think you're fine because I know I am with the same or similar size tool. I can't tell ours apart.

I never did PE until recently because I started working out, got fit for the first time in my life and figured I'd work my cock, too. But I went from being 6" in my awkward early twenties to 7" at 38 without PE. I'm a white gentleman living in Asia, so it got a lot of use in the many years I've lived out here. When I noticed that it grew an inch in 20 years (because that's how rarely I'd measure it) I started to believe PE could work for me, so I bought my first pump a month ago. I pump once a week currently, on top of a very healthy sex life.

I was average back home I guess, but a king in Thailand, Philippines, Laos, etc. And I wasn't even into Asians when I arrived, I just came for the better cost of living and conservative women (with the choice of dirty thirsty girls all over the place). In Asia, even the thirsty girls are tight comparable to jelq. I've seen a girl open a beer bottle with her pussy! lol. If you go to Asia, go see a ping pong show.

Maybe some travel is in the cards for you, too. Good luck, but above all, don't compare. Just focus on your sexual performance, stamina, longevity, and above all, attitude towards sex. If you think too much you get flacid anyway, ain't nobody got time for that!

Confidence (not arrogance) is the name of the game. Even when I was 6" I never had a one night stand that didn't come back for thirds or fourths. Charisma is everything. Guys with big dicks love to show them off, often because they're so big they scare girls away! So they hop on dick forums for an audience (half kidding, no offense to anyone lol).

But what good is a 9 inch dick if you can't bury the whole thing in a tight shaved pussy? And that bend in your dick ---learn how to leverage that during sex. You can hit places many men cannot.

That's my pep talk bro. Sincere best.

Edit: a "big" vagina likely isn't because of the dicks that came before you. They can stretch, but 99% of the time, their size is genetic. Like their hips. And the least a loose girl can do is learn to fucking kegel. If you can't touch the sides, or if it's like throwing a hot dog down a hallway, that isn't on you bro. Truly.

 

[deleted22409881]

That "unravelling size" link in your post is a public service to all young men. Good on ya, bro.

Anyone feeling insecure should check it out.

So because you can’t feel the pussy sometimes, the average penis size must be much bigger? This doesn’t make any sense at all! What would make sense though is that not all women are sized equally. Just like men.

I can really enjoy a woman that loves her pussy filled up with a huge toy. Hell, I have seen videos where it looks like the woman is inserting 10+ inches around. Does that make the average penis has to be at least 8 inches around?

 

[techpump]

I had a conversation with my wife about this a few days ago. We're introducing ourselves to the world of swinging and the last couple we had sex with was a really good match for her. She had so much fun and he was all over her. He fucked her furiously and she enjoyed it very much. So when we evaluated this later (yes we do that every time), she told me how that worked, because I was wondering why it was something we rarely do (that hard I mean).
Her idea was that it had to do with the length of his cock, while we were very similar in girth, his was quite a bit shorter than mine. Every time I go ballistic on her like that she hurts or even bleeds. With him, that just wasn't the case because he didn't hit that deep.

It's double feelings for me, because I like fucking her hard and deep, but I don't want to hurt her. So yes, size does matter, also in this perspective and a long penis is not always better depending on who your sex partner is

I can fuck very very hard and fast and never slip out, and while my wife loves it, its a bit too much for her. I'm a bit on the longer side and somehow her tiny body can take me fully, she just gets aroused enough and tents enough to take me fully so we're pubic bone to pubic bone. When we've banged hard in the past I can go for like 10-30 seconds before she taps out. In actuality when alone and fucking a fleshlight mounted in a dock, I can fuck even harder for much longer to the point of being too physically exhausted to continue. While I do love what sex we can do and it is usually vigorous enough to say we are "fucking" or having some "rougher sex" its nowhere near as hard as I want to fuck sometimes. Currently, my wife can barely have sex due to menopause and the few times we have had sex the last year she has to start on top and slowly and gently get me into her and get me deep inside. Then its very slow and gentle love making, which is AWESOME and totally soul-satisfying. When I get to be on top I have to really focus on being slow enough to not hurt her, and go just deep enough to not beat up her intestines (when we have sex you can see my cock moving in and out of her when you look at her lower abdomen, from any position or angle), so that I can get my orgasm going. I take any and all sex I can get nowadays, but I long for the fast hard fucking of yesteryear!!!

 

[deleted22409881]

So I've been reading even on this site average is 5 to 6 and I say it's BS. Yet even on this site they say it is. I am not gay but I can't feel the pussy sometimes. This just solidifies average size is much bigger. I was actually starting to believe I was average. Thanks guys I must start pumping some more. Maybe it will grow through time.

One more quick thing to add; I'd wager 90% of the photos of 9"+ dicks on this website are fresh out of a pump and/or they popped a Cialis as well.

Girl brains also work differently; how they feel about you, if they feel like you're superior in some or many ways (physique, intellect, paycheck, social status) your dick feels electric tingly compared to some dude they met on Bumble with no chemistry or charisma.

Size matters but not really? Size is only one part of the metric, it's a multiplier, or an exponent. It isn't one or the other, nothing or everything. It's just one line of code in the equation of female satisfaction.

Okokok, that's it from me.

 

[SmallDguy]

One more quick thing to add; I'd wager 90% of the photos of 9"+ dicks on this website are fresh out of a pump and/or they popped a Cialis as well.

Girl brains also work differently; how they feel about you, if they feel like you're superior in some or many ways (physique, intellect, paycheck, social status) your dick feels electric tingly compared to some dude they met on Bumble with no chemistry or charisma.

Size matters but not really? Size is only one part of the metric, it's a multiplier, or an exponent. It isn't one or the other, nothing or everything. It's just one line of code in the equation of female satisfaction.

Okokok, that's it from me.

I'm not talking about relationships dude I'm talking ons. I've done both I understand the "feelings" involved. I'm not a monogamous person. Maybe that's the problem but I can't change that about me. I'm not gonna be a lying cheater.i should probably mention this more often.

 

[SmallDguy]

Looked at your profile and I think you're possibly above average. Even without PE it grows bigger with use and age. Yours looks like mine, I think you're fine because I know I am with the same or similar size tool. I can't tell ours apart.

I never did PE until recently because I started working out, got fit for the first time in my life and figured I'd work my cock, too. But I went from being 6" in my awkward early twenties to 7" at 38 without PE. I'm a white gentleman living in Asia, so it got a lot of use in the many years I've lived out here. When I noticed that it grew an inch in 20 years (because that's how rarely I'd measure it) I started to believe PE could work for me, so I bought my first pump a month ago. I pump once a week currently, on top of a very healthy sex life.

I was average back home I guess, but a king in Thailand, Philippines, Laos, etc. And I wasn't even into Asians when I arrived, I just came for the better cost of living and conservative women (with the choice of dirty thirsty girls all over the place). In Asia, even the thirsty girls are tight comparable to jelq. I've seen a girl open a beer bottle with her pussy! lol. If you go to Asia, go see a ping pong show.

Maybe some travel is in the cards for you, too. Good luck, but above all, don't compare. Just focus on your sexual performance, stamina, longevity, and above all, attitude towards sex. If you think too much you get flacid anyway, ain't nobody got time for that!

Confidence (not arrogance) is the name of the game. Even when I was 6" I never had a one night stand that didn't come back for thirds or fourths. Charisma is everything. Guys with big dicks love to show them off, often because they're so big they scare girls away! So they hop on dick forums for an audience (half kidding, no offense to anyone lol).

But what good is a 9 inch dick if you can't bury the whole thing in a tight shaved pussy? And that bend in your dick ---learn how to leverage that during sex. You can hit places many men cannot.

That's my pep talk bro. Sincere best.

Edit: a "big" vagina likely isn't because of the dicks that came before you. They can stretch, but 99% of the time, their size is genetic. Like their hips. And the least a loose girl can do is learn to fucking kegel. If you can't touch the sides, or if it's like throwing a hot dog down a hallway, that isn't on you bro. Truly.

I'm talking about MY pleasure dude. I can't feel the pussy in more than half I've been with. I'm poor lmao I don't have the luxury to move to Asia because I want tight pussy. Are you FR? not to mention I'd have to start all over in a random place. I realize I was born the way I was born. Like you, I pump. It does get bigger. You are silly man. At least I see things for what they are.

Fyi I'm a bachelor with no intentions of settling ever. Yes I've been in relationships before, not for me. I don't care for it. I realized this with age. Not afraid to die alone. Some call it sad I call it bliss. I just wish I was big enough to please the woman who only want ONS as well. The fact that you moved to Asia for small coochie tells me a lot. Not even going to go into it lol no disrespect.

 

[deleted22409881]

I'm talking about MY pleasure dude. I can't feel the pussy in more than half I've been with. I'm poor lmao I don't have the luxury to move to Asia because I want tight pussy. Are you FR? not to mention I'd have to start all over in a random place. I realize I was born the way I was born. Like you, I pump. It does get bigger. You are silly man. At least I see things for what they are.

Fyi I'm a bachelor with no intentions of settling ever. Yes I've been in relationships before, not for me. I don't care for it. I realized this with age. Not afraid to die alone. Some call it sad I call it bliss. I just wish I was big enough to please the woman who only want ONS as well. The fact that you moved to Asia for small coochie tells me a lot. Not even going to go into it lol no disrespect.

Zero sympathy after that reply.

How is feeling sorry for yourself in public working out for you, chud?

 

[SmallDguy]

Zero sympathy after that reply.

How is feeling sorry for yourself in public working out for you, chud?

How's china working out for you? I said what I said I don't lie to myself bud. Move one back down to USA. Feel great again. Living in Asia just to feel better about yourself? Wtf? I'm the one in the wrong dude? If so count yourself lucky you have money. Living like a giant amongst midgets huh

 

[Peachcrocodile]

Cope

 

[visorkols]

Im about the same penis size and almost a foot shorter than you & it still feels small to me! I wish I was 8"x6". It would look even more massive on me.

 

[SmallDguy]

Im about the same penis size and almost a foot shorter than you & it still feels small to me! I wish I was 8"x6". It would look even more massive on me.

8 x 6 is the universal ideal size no matter what size. If you are short it will look massive. If you are tall you will look perfect. If you are medium build it will look, well meh it could go either way. I'm 5 ft 7 with shoes at my height it's right around average... statistically.