I'm non binary and I dont know what to do

[chadsbcb]

I've been non binary since I was young (I'm 25 and I think when I was young it was something completely new the non binary label) but I always presented myself as cis gay (I'm pan) a twink basically

I've always had doubts about wanting to have boobs and a bigger ass and be more feminine but I was happy with my body

Two weeks ago I decided that I wanted to be more femboy looking and sometimes do wigs and makeup and stuff like that

I'm using the app Buzzarab to talk with straight men and I'm starting to think that I want boobs but then I don't and it's so confusing to me

Should I also take half of the estrogen dosis to look androgynous, I'm scared because a friend detransitioned and told me about the dangers of estrogen shots and how nobody talks about them, and how they're overhyped and don't change your body that much (I'm already feminine and I think I'm intersex and have a bigger level of estrogen for a "male" because I'm curvy and I have male "boobs" while being super skinny)

Anyways what Should I do, also I saw phrostetic boobs and I'm thinking about buying them, but I mean the boobs that are each independently and not in a fake skin body suit, can I glue those boobs in my body?

 

[Sexy123789]

This is one of those things where I feel completely unqualified to offer advice.

Being a cross-dresser, effeminate, androgynous, a genuine transsexual and all between…I think a professional psychologist that specializes in gender identity should be who you speak with.

It sounds like you want to change, but are not wanting to do something damaging or difficult or impossible to reverse.

Do you just desire breasts? How do you feel about your penis?

 

[Electric blue]

I am mailing a person that has the same issue , He is more female looking than male , and in a dressed mode is very pretty , We write back and forth.I don't see this person as a sex image,I think he/she wants to just talk and reassure her self of her own life choices . I am not trying to have this way or that, just talk , maybe build up their confidence.
She has said to me more than once that she wants breasts more than any thing .
We have not talked on the phone , Or have any sexual overtones been played . One photo she sent me , and I did not ask for it , She wanted to know if She was desirable . Not to me, but to some one . I know this can lead to a heavy let down if it's not done right . I just want to be her friend . I call her " HER" because she asked me to call her that .

 

[Electric blue]

This is one of those things where I feel completely unqualified to offer advice.

Being a cross-dresser, effeminate, androgynous, a genuine transsexual and all between…I think a professional psychologist that specializes in gender identity should be who you speak with.

It sounds like you want to change, but are not wanting to do something damaging or difficult or impossible to reverse.

Do you just desire breasts? How do you feel about your penis?

I'm not a professional on this ,I have lived with a transgender woman for six years , it was the most enjoyable time of my life , being with a transgender woman is more than can be described, She was intersexed too , more woman than male , she did have her own breast , not big ,but I bought her the size she always wanted . Whey were magnificent. As far as her penis , it was very tiny , very .and her balls were mostly inside , now and then they would drop when she got extremely excited, but we're the size of butter beans ,I could fit all of her in my mouth .It was magic to me . For me , only a transgender woman from now on...just my two cents

 

[Sexy123789]

I'm not a professional on this ,I have lived with a transgender woman for six years , it was the most enjoyable time of my life , being with a transgender woman is more than can be described, She was intersexed too , more woman than male , she did have her own breast , not big ,but I bought her the size she always wanted . Whey were magnificent. As far as her penis , it was very tiny , very .and her balls were mostly inside , now and then they would drop when she got extremely excited, but we're the size of butter beans ,I could fit all of her in my mouth .It was magic to me . For me , only a transgender woman from now on...just my two cents

Good point on intersex. That is a whole other ballgame on gender identity. Or lack thereof.

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

I've been non binary since I was 16 (I'm 25 and I think when I was 16 it was something completely new the non binary label) but I always presented myself as cis gay (I'm pan) a twink basically

I've always had doubts about wanting to have boobs and a bigger ass and be more feminine but I was happy with my body

Two weeks ago I decided that I wanted to be more femboy looking and sometimes do wigs and makeup and stuff like that

I'm using the app Buzzarab to talk with straight men and I'm starting to think that I want boobs but then I don't and it's so confusing to me

Should I also take half of the estrogen dosis to look androgynous, I'm scared because a friend detransitioned and told me about the dangers of estrogen shots and how nobody talks about them, and how they're overhyped and don't change your body that much (I'm already feminine and I think I'm intersex and have a bigger level of estrogen for a "male" because I'm curvy and I have male "boobs" while being super skinny)

Anyways what Should I do, also I saw phrostetic boobs and I'm thinking about buying them, but I mean the boobs that are each independently and not in a fake skin body suit, can I glue those boobs in my body?

Just know that natural is a huge turn on

 

[Electric blue]

You see so many Girls in the porn trade that think a huge ass and monster tits are a real turn on , dicks bigger than a elephant , actually it's a complete turn OFF . And Then the ones with so many tattoos they look like a road map of Texas .
Yes looking natural is the best , maybe a small breast up grade but thats it

 

[Cock-a-Hoop]

This is one of those things where I feel completely unqualified to offer advice.

Being a cross-dresser, effeminate, androgynous, a genuine transsexual and all between…I think a professional psychologist that specializes in gender identity should be who you speak with.

It sounds like you want to change, but are not wanting to do something damaging or difficult or impossible to reverse.

Do you just desire breasts? How do you feel about your penis?

It sounds to me that you are not only well placed and sufficiently experienced to offer that accurate advice . The guy seems a little confused about his actual sexuality that could lead to heartache down the line if he does not get a VERY clear picture of WHO he is x

 

[chadsbcb]

This is one of those things where I feel completely unqualified to offer advice.

Being a cross-dresser, effeminate, androgynous, a genuine transsexual and all between…I think a professional psychologist that specializes in gender identity should be who you speak with.

It sounds like you want to change, but are not wanting to do something damaging or difficult or impossible to reverse.

Do you just desire breasts? How do you feel about your penis?

I'm fine having a penis, and you're right I want a change but also not a permanent one since I like being a boy sometimes, I want to be super androgynous

 

[chadsbcb]

You see so many Girls in the porn trade that think a huge ass and monster tits are a real turn on , dicks bigger than a elephant , actually it's a complete turn OFF . And Then the ones with so many tattoos they look like a road map of Texas .
Yes looking natural is the best , maybe a small breast up grade but thats it

I don't have "boobs" I have "male boobs" something normal for fat people, the thing is that I'm skinny so doesn't make sense that I would have breasts, that's why I think I'm intersex also due to my feminine voice and overall body is more curvy than even one trans friend I have (I don't think I'm special, I have many twink friends who look like me too)

 

[Sexy123789]

I'm fine having a penis, and you're right I want a change but also not a permanent one since I like being a boy sometimes, I want to be super androgynous

And there is nothing wrong with that

I think the idea of sex and gender has become so fluid today that the answer is “be who you want to be and that is okay.”

If you are fine with your penis, keep it. If you want to present as a women or sexless. Go for it. If you want breast implants or hormones, go for it. If all you want is some padded bras, gosh what a cheap solution! If you don’t feel like wearing them some days, then don’t.

As long as nobody is pressuring you to conform to something you are not comfortable with, I say explore and see what you makes you the happiest and most comfortable in your own skin, embrace it with joy!

I think you are closer to knowing what you want than you think. I am not even sure you need a therapist.

 

[accidenttourist]

Should I also take half of the estrogen dosis to look androgynous, I'm scared because a friend detransitioned and told me about the dangers of estrogen shots and how nobody talks about them, and how they're overhyped and don't change your body that much (I'm already feminine and I think I'm intersex and have a bigger level of estrogen for a "male" because I'm curvy and I have male "boobs" while being super skinny)

Anyways what Should I do, also I saw phrostetic boobs and I'm thinking about buying them, but I mean the boobs that are each independently and not in a fake skin body suit, can I glue those boobs in my body?

My two cents - don't go on meds/hormones. Start with fake boobs and start living for 3 months as a woman. It is important to determine first whether you prefer a woman's life, or actually you prefer intersex, before the bigger steps.

Meds and hormones make drastic (and irreversible) changes in your body that must be supervised by an endocrinologist.

 

[Lil dog]

I've been non binary since I was young (I'm 25 and I think when I was young it was something completely new the non binary label) but I always presented myself as cis gay (I'm pan) a twink basically

I've always had doubts about wanting to have boobs and a bigger ass and be more feminine but I was happy with my body

Two weeks ago I decided that I wanted to be more femboy looking and sometimes do wigs and makeup and stuff like that

I'm using the app Buzzarab to talk with straight men and I'm starting to think that I want boobs but then I don't and it's so confusing to me

Should I also take half of the estrogen dosis to look androgynous, I'm scared because a friend detransitioned and told me about the dangers of estrogen shots and how nobody talks about them, and how they're overhyped and don't change your body that much (I'm already feminine and I think I'm intersex and have a bigger level of estrogen for a "male" because I'm curvy and I have male "boobs" while being super skinny)

Anyways what Should I do, also I saw phrostetic boobs and I'm thinking about buying them, but I mean the boobs that are each
Honestly- hearing the confusion and the back forth I'd say. i am horny alot, but sometimes I just go outside and do other things and dont think about sex.. maybe let it ride a bit, you have your entire life ahead of you. don't do anything that causes permanent change if you think your mind could change later. Maybe if you are so unsure, the issue is not your gender, but you are the type of person that does not like to be stuck on thing or another- unsure in general. in that case, let it ride and get some years of experience under your belt? Just like most things in life.

 

[chadsbcb]

My two cents - don't go on meds/hormones. Start with fake boobs and start living for 3 months as a woman. It is important to determine first whether you prefer a woman's life, or actually you prefer intersex, before the bigger steps.

Meds and hormones make drastic (and irreversible) changes in your body that must be supervised by an endocrinologist.

Oh I'm totally sure I don't want to be a woman.

I wanna be androgynous, I want to present myself like a feminine person who can pass as male and female depending in the clothes.

Right now I'm I'm twink, I'm starting to lose my twinkness but still look young and skinny, that's why I said hormones because many people get younger looking (actually feminine, but femininity makes people look younger with the softer skin) but I know hormones are dangerous and omething to take seriously