I'm straight and get sucked off by stranger guys regularly. (your opinion?)

[Marc19m]

Hey Guys. Just want to know your opinion about my "side"- sexual life and whether you have had any similar phases in life.

So it began a couple of years ago, i was in a long-term relationship with a girl und was curious about how it would be to get sucked off by a guy. So after month of thinking i loaded a dating app for gays and signed on as bi-curious. Due to my attractive body (i think a lot of gays are into this slim, smooth boys) i got a lot of requests for my wish to just get sucked off. One day i simply did it. And then i repeated it and again. So far after a couple of years (3-4) i get sucked off by minimum 25 random dudes. I even have made a good friend through this haha. Beside that all i had relationships with girls and also ONS with Girls, but from time to time i just wanna get sucked by guys.

Do you think this is "normal" or a more problematic sexual life?

 

[gloryholesfbay]

Well, you've learned the truth about homosexuality -- it's the easiest path to a wicked and sinful life of endless free blowjobs, and meeting guys who can suck the straight right out of your dick, and swallow it down without hesitation or the need to wait until the 3rd date. Joking aside....

What you're engaged in is referred to as "situational sexuality" or having sex based on a given circumstance, instead of what your norm is, or established preferences or usual activities. Or more simply... you were curious and you allowed yourself to explore that impulse. And you gained from it.

It's not problematic unless you have decided you have nothing more to learn, experience or explore about who you are, and what life has to offer if you remain curious, inquisitive, and keep stuffing cock into your friends mouth.

 

[JiaFei_Dai]

lol, I just responded to another related question.
Many dick suckers have a very clear purpose of dating. After meeting, they want to suck your dick, just like going to McDonald's for fast food. After eating, they wipe their mouth and leave.
This is really good for a guy who wants to get cock sucked, without the burden.

 

[JiaFei_Dai]

My opinion may be a little weird. I feel like it's similar to a regular jerk off, except that your hand becomes a man's mouth.
Horny cock suckers are great, they just want to suck and don't project too much emotion on you, in their eyes you are just a cock and their mouths need it

 

[Call_Me_Dave]

I think that guys blowing/getting blown my other guys is totally normal. But to call yourself/the guys doing the blowing straight is a bit of a stretch. If you find men attractive enough to seek them out for blowjobs, then I would not consider you to be straight. Same for the guys willingly sucking dicks. With the exception of experimentation for those unsure of their sexuality, those guys are not straight. And neither are you. Again, nothing wrong with it, you’re all willing, consenting adults, have at it.

 

[Oldcowboy]

There is a vast pool of willing cocksuckers——no recip expected. And—almost always—-they excel over women @ it.

 

[Marc19m]

Well, you've learned the truth about homosexuality -- it's the easiest path to a wicked and sinful life of endless free blowjobs, and meeting guys who can suck the straight right out of your dick, and swallow it down without hesitation or the need to wait until the 3rd date. Joking aside....

What you're engaged in is referred to as "situational sexuality" or having sex based on a given circumstance, instead of what your norm is, or established preferences or usual activities. Or more simply... you were curious and you allowed yourself to explore that impulse. And you gained from it.

It's not problematic unless you have decided you have nothing more to learn, experience or explore about who you are, and what life has to offer if you remain curious, inquisitive, and keep stuffing cock into your friends mouth.

What a nice answer, thank you. I take it pragmatic. From time to time its just that kind of hornyness, that i want to see my dick getting sucked. That times i open grindr and there are at least 2-3 guys instantly offering to suck me.

 

[halcyondays]

Yes it's normal.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

lol, I just responded to another related question.
Many dick suckers have a very clear purpose of dating. After meeting, they want to suck your dick, just like going to McDonald's for fast food. After eating, they wipe their mouth and leave.
This is really good for a guy who wants to get cock sucked, without the burden.

This describes me in 90% of my sexual interactions.

 

[coolestguy]

I am the same. I like getting BJs from men, no reciprocate. That's why I am 80% straight.

 

[Domswitchside]

Hey Guys. Just want to know your opinion about my "side"- sexual life and whether you have had any similar phases in life.

So it began a couple of years ago, i was in a long-term relationship with a girl und was curious about how it would be to get sucked off by a guy. So after month of thinking i loaded a dating app for gays and signed on as bi-curious. Due to my attractive body (i think a lot of gays are into this slim, smooth boys) i got a lot of requests for my wish to just get sucked off. One day i simply did it. And then i repeated it and again. So far after a couple of years (3-4) i get sucked off by minimum 25 random dudes. I even have made a good friend through this haha. Beside that all i had relationships with girls and also ONS with Girls, but from time to time i just wanna get sucked by guys.

Do you think this is "normal" or a more problematic sexual life?

I don’t think it’s not normal tbh. IMO sexuality is complex and gay, straight, bi etc. doesn’t really cover it. I also think there’s a difference between being sexually attracted to men and being comfortable having casual sexual interactions with men. I also think there’s a difference with sexual attraction and romantic attraction that I think is super important when describing someone’s sexuality. Like just because you’re into to getting sucked off by guys doesn’t mean you’d be into being in a relationship with a guy.

You always hear people talking about “experimenting” in college and honestly think it’s really common for people to both experiment sexually, and also bend the boundaries of their sexuality. Most people just don’t talk about it b/c of the social stigma of it or just super strict and rigid understanding of sexual orientation which isn’t always an accurate representation of how sexuality works. I like the terms bi-curious, heteroflexible, etc. because they’re kinda starting to expand people’s concept of sexuality and what’s ok/ normal.

Long post short, yeah I think a lot of guys do that. I’m mostly gay and have hooked up with many straight dudes who aren’t picky about who gets them off or bi dudes who like to suck/ get sucked but only date girls.

As long as you’re not sneaking around behind your gf’s back doing it I see no issue. I think being open with your partner about your sex life is important, I know it’s often really hard though for dudes to open up to their gf’s about that stuff sometimes though and helpung them understand. Though I’ve also known guys who’ve had great experiences after talking to their gf about it and able to have some hot threesomes and kink scenes with their gf and another dude.

Glad to hear you’ve made a friend through the interest, I know being non-conformist sexually can be real isolating, glad u got support, and hope my perspective helps.

 

[Brodie888]

It's impossible to label something going on in someone else's head.

I've blown a lot of guys. Sure, some are closeted gays, some are bi but there's definitely those that just see it as a quick and easy way to get off while having zero interest in men.

 

[hale989]

Sounds normal to me. I wish a lot more straight or bi-curious guys did the same.

 

[29183701]

Hey Guys. Just want to know your opinion about my "side"- sexual life and whether you have had any similar phases in life.

So it began a couple of years ago, i was in a long-term relationship with a girl und was curious about how it would be to get sucked off by a guy. So after month of thinking i loaded a dating app for gays and signed on as bi-curious. Due to my attractive body (i think a lot of gays are into this slim, smooth boys) i got a lot of requests for my wish to just get sucked off. One day i simply did it. And then i repeated it and again. So far after a couple of years (3-4) i get sucked off by minimum 25 random dudes. I even have made a good friend through this haha. Beside that all i had relationships with girls and also ONS with Girls, but from time to time i just wanna get sucked by guys.

Do you think this is "normal" or a more problematic sexual life?

An open mouth is a terrible thing to waste and I thought I was straight until I started getting my dick sucked after football practice. You can fuck a guy call him a bitch and he’ll swallow but women don’t do that and they just can’t make you feel as good as guys can.

 

[hotguy88]

Best blowjob I've ever had was from a man. I almost died that night

And I love destroying pussy for hours

 

[WatchStr8Sex]

Whatever makes your tyres squeal. If it hurts no one and people have fun and don’t feel guilt then it’s normal.