Is it gay or bi?

[FanOfMrMagoo]

I’m a 28 years old guy.
I like women, but I rarely feel sexually attracted to them. Most of the times when I have a crush, I’ll have a hallmark fantasy about us, I’ll be really kind with her and do almost everything for her. I’ll want to kiss her, cuddle her and do almost everything except penetration. I’ll develop quickly strong feelings and think about her like every day.
However sexually no. The only moment I’ll get horny thinking of her it’s because I’m thinking of doing a threesome with a guy.
For guys I’m attracted to almost every guy with a beard and a manly voice, the more they look like a bodybuilder the more attracted. Even with that attraction, I don’t have feelings for guys. I never think about one as a life long partner or develop feelings. I just like men only sexually.
In that case, what am I supposed to be ? I’m confused.
The only moment where I can feel and have sex is during a threesome, but that’s not what I want to have for the rest of my life.

Any advice ?

 

[vincegre]

Well you should at least try to get sex 2/3 times with each to find out more precisely what you like

 

[curtdude]

Dude you are 28 and pretty young you need to put yourself out there and experiment with different sexes. you do not say if you have actually had sex with anyone . try a guy if you don't like it try a girl. you may be in bed with a dude and feel this is not for me. being bisexual for me there is something I like from both sexes. the softness of a woman's body the warm feel of my dick inside her . then there is the beard of a guy his balls gtind in against mine our dick rubbing together me pushing my dick inside him watching his face as he feels pleasure or a little discomfort as I slide in dude you may like it you may not it is ultimately up to you.

sometimes you feel like nuts sometimes you don't

 

[FanOfMrMagoo]

Dude you are 28 and pretty young you need to put yourself out there and experiment with different sexes. you do not say if you have actually had sex with anyone . try a guy if you don't like it try a girl. you may be in bed with a dude and feel this is not for me. being bisexual for me there is something I like from both sexes. the softness of a woman's body the warm feel of my dick inside her . then there is the beard of a guy his balls gtind in against mine our dick rubbing together me pushing my dick inside him watching his face as he feels pleasure or a little discomfort as I slide in dude you may like it you may not it is ultimately up to you.

sometimes you feel like nuts sometimes you don't

I forgot to add it. I had sex before, with women and men. With women I couldn’t get hard enough, with guys I’m hard, but no orgasm when I finish.

You perfectly described what I like with men and women

 

[ronin001]

Have you ever seen a dog, chase after a car? The car can be doing 24 - 40 MPH; but the dog will run after it as if his life depends on it. The question is, what will the dog do if he catches the car ? He does not want to eat the car, he does not want to drive the car. He just enjoys chasing after the cars.

Not saying that the OP is a dog ha ha. Just saying that some men also just enjoy the challenge of the chase, when it comes to women. Then when they catch the women, some loose all desire to continue / close the deal.

Just an observation

 

[FanOfMrMagoo]

Have you ever seen a dog, chase after a car? The car can be doing 24 - 40 MPH; but the dog will run after it as if his life depends on it. The question is, what will the dog do if he catches the car ? He does not want to eat the car, he does not want to drive the car. He just enjoys chasing after the cars.

Not saying that the OP is a dog ha ha. Just saying that some men also just enjoy the challenge of the chase, when it comes to women. Then when they catch the women, some loose all desire to continue / close the deal.

Just an observation

That’s funny. I wasn’t expecting that answer.
I think I understand that and when I take time to check I have to admit I enjoy the challenge. I easily get bored when I have to close the deal with women or with some men too. Feelings or desires must be deeper to keep the interest.

 

[ronin001]

That’s funny. I wasn’t expecting that answer.
I think I understand that and when I take time to check I have to admit I enjoy the challenge. I easily get bored when I have to close the deal with women or with some men too. Feelings or desires must be deeper to keep the interest.

A very human response, good luck

 

[chrisrobin]

Why not be both, my half bro fucked anything on legs, girls and guys - and yes he's a good fuck and fucker and cock sucker as I can vouch for, and I'm sure his wife is happy in the bedroom with his great cock, before he got married he was very active with lunchtime shags with any girl who wanted cock, then on the way home stopping at a local cottage to please any guy who might be there.

 

[mushroomcap]

See a therapist! I'm not saying there's something wrong with you but maybe you could use some help figuring out what's going on. You're 28, and while that's still young, you should have an idea of what you really like by now.