Is Kissing The Key To Passionate Sex

[kcdave]

For me, kissing starts everything. It can tell you if the person is interested or just horny. Passionate kissing really starts the emotions going. Caressing during kissing is hot too. Undressing each other can be very fun. The anticipation of a garment being removed to expose not only vulnerabilities, but sensual areas is very erotic. Once a garment is removed the passion gets more erotic. Piece by piece HOT consensual exploration and bodies co-mingling is so very erotic and intoxicating.

How important is kissing for you in meeting and playing with a FWB or somebody who is not your partner.

 

[deleted1074483]

yup I love kissing too - if the guy won't kiss I find it quite a turn off (not enough to not fuck him though lol) - but I love everything from those random gentle pecks just to show you care, to full on snogs, tongues and then moving to hands exploring and ripping off of clothes. Love it.

 

[852838]

I admit I love kissing and making out. To me it helps make the sex better but is also a great way to show affection without having sex.

I had a few dates with a guy who didn't kiss. Our second date we wound up back at his place and we decided to go at it but he refused to kiss. It was the most awkward, quietest sex I've ever had. I didn't even finish, just eventually stopped and put my clothes on and left. We actually are buds today and he has a boyfriend who I assume he doesn't kiss but I've not asked.

 

[flooble]

Kissing is absolutely necessary for me.

 

[hvdude]

I won't be with a guy who won't kiss. Kissing is such an intimate act and a show of love (whether that's in the moment or forever). You kiss you parents, relatives, some friends - all to show you love them and care for them. In a romantic relationship kissing represents mutual affection; deep kissing represents mutual attraction. For me, kissing AFTER sex is critical.

 

[flooble]

I won't be with a guy who won't kiss.

PREACH.

a show of love (whether that's in the moment or forever)

I have always been a subscriber to this: love can exist forever or for a night, and they're both valuable.

 

[englad]

I have had sex without kissing in the past, yes it still physically feels good but it feels very mechanical. It lacks so much of the intimacy and the passion. I don't enjoy it on anywhere near the same level. Kissing is a barometer, it tells you how much the other guy is into you. It adds so much to the experience, and frankly I've had some prolonged make out sessions with men that have been better than many sexual experiences. And after sex, it gets linked up with the afterglow period, which is a beautiful thing.

 

[CUBE]

Kissing is everything.

 

[Stratavos]

kissing helps elevate everything.

 

[ohiorod]

Of course, I am currently partnered, but I cannot imagine sex without kissing between us. It does not always start with kissing between us, but kissing is always a key component.

 

[bwhip1011]

I don't really participate in all of that anymore, but when I did I'd agree with most here that kissing is a very important part of passionate sex. I had found that even with casual hook ups where the guy would say, "no kissing" that most of the time that once he was in to it there ended up being lots of kissing.

 

[HungBoyRN]

Interesting topic. I'm big into kissing and think of it as an erotic activity as well as an intimate one. Even in a purely sexual relationship (i.e. fwb or fb) I love kissing as long as the other guy is into it. That said, if I have a partner (again, purely sexual in nature) who finds kissing too intimate or just doesn't like it, I'm OK with that too. To echo bwhip, I too have had guys not into it at first but who later initiated it, which heightened the whole level of arousal for me. I feel lucky that my current fwb is turned on by kissing as much as I am. Our lips are locked pretty much the whole time we're fucking.

 

[kentgwm]

I won't be with a guy who won't kiss. Kissing is such an intimate act and a show of love (whether that's in the moment or forever). You kiss you parents, relatives, some friends - all to show you love them and care for them. In a romantic relationship kissing represents mutual affection; deep kissing represents mutual attraction. For me, kissing AFTER sex is critical.

If someone wants to fuck me, he'd better want to kiss!

 

[JonSomebody]

I've been with some straight guys on a sexual basis more so than gay guys. So..there was this one guy in particular who was curious basically with me giving him a blowjob and I remember how he mentioned that he prefers that we both are totally naked and that if things begin to heat up ...that he does not kiss, moan and no way he will take things to another level. Nonetheless..once I started blowing him...he was really getting into it and started moaning very loudly and talking dirty. However, what really caught me off guard was when he pulled me up from sucking his cock and pulled me on top of him and put his tongue deep down my throat while grinding his body and wrapping his legs tightly around my waist...but hold on!!...I was so surprised by his reaction that I pulled up off of him just to stare at him for a second because his eyes were closed and he was grinding his hips and breathing heavily..he then opened his eyes and looked up at me and threw his legs up in the air to expose his hole..(well ..I call it his "pussy!!..lol) and he said "take it...its yours"...he noticed my look of disbelief and then told me again..."come on..take it..its really yours"...and just to think that all this started from some hot, passionate kissing.

 

[Justfname1]

There's this guy I hooked up with that won't kiss but would let me finger him. I thought I was to bottom but seeing him ever so slightly gradually opening up to allow a second finger in...ugh.