Is the bi-cycle real and this intense for anyone else?

[deleted29181791]

Hi y'all, I'm new here and basically made an account mostly just to ask this question and see if anyone else can relate.

Last week, just LAST WEEK, I was so much into cock to the point where I was seriously considering that maybe I'm not actually bi, maybe I'm fully gay. I met this guy on tinder and had to drive for like over an hour to his place but I didn't mind because he fucked me so good I was left seeing stars. My attraction towards men was so complete and my attraction towards women so inexistent that I was legit thinking of coming out to my parents as gay (long ago I made the decision that I was never going to come out to them as bi for many reasons but that's a story for another time).

But this past week? It's all about the pussy for me now. Met a girl, went on a date, had sex, and it's like, who even needs dick? And it's kind of horrifying to me that this thing called "sexuality" can change so violently even from one week to the next. Like, who am I going to be tomorrow, you know?

Back when I decided that I was most likely bisexual, I imagined bisexuality like a switch you could turn on and off at will, like today I choose to be gay, tomorrow straight. Or rather, like a stable, permanent state where I'd be sexually attracted to both men and women, always at the same rate. But for me it's a rather chaotic process, presented in the form of unpredictable cycles. Apparently that's pretty common for other people, from what I hear. What do you think?

 

[jthomasmpls]

The Bi-cycle is real. Try not to let it get too deep in you heard and enjoy the ride!

 

[17398591]

Enjoy it while it lasts
Just follow your instincts & stay safe

 

[WilliamG]

It cums and goes... And it's addicting.

 

[dickthrobbing]

You'll learn overtime to tame the desire swings a little.

Enjoy being bi , having good sex with either sex it is something special

 

[deleted19462351]

Thankfully not anymore, over the years the thing has balanced enough to the point I find most people hot but I'm not attracted to anyone.

 

[steel33]

I didn't know there was an actual name for this or that others had this issue. For me it can get rather intense and uncomfortable.

 

[deleted29181791]

I didn't know there was an actual name for this or that others had this issue. For me it can get rather intense and uncomfortable.

Same, I only recently heard about it (from another bi guy I was fucking lol) and I was like wait that actually describes me to a T but I had never put it into words.

 

[bigboaster]

Not really my experience. At least irl.

It doesn't swing "back and forth" for me so to speak. I lean towards guys generally... but I will never turn down an opportunity to get some pussy if the chance presents itself. I'm ready and willing for anything at any time.

For poke viewing, I guess i have more moods so to speak where I am feeling more str8 porn for a certain time and then gay, sometimes trans stuff, sometimes bisexual content. It depends.

 

[halcyondays]

Not my experience either. I like both sexes and have been with both on the same day but I understand the desire to fancy one or the other at any particular moment in time.

 

[Graham123]

I am bisexual and at times prefer cock to pussey but wouldn’t ever turn down a wet and warm welcoming girls pussey. I think I would really enjoy a threesome with a bisexual couple so I could enjoy sucking her partner with his girl both enjoying his cock and then switch to pleasure his girl with two willing cocks.

 

[BradH]

i take it furher than male or female
if i achieve it sexually , what now?
i watch , then i gotta be watched.
if rope play is in my head , then i am ordering shibari rope.' if i cant get straight sex, i want it.
i think i get bored real easy.

cept for my heart, that is on lock and key.
emotions of attachment kill me, you can fuck me , you are not allowed to like me or love me.
we all get bored a little.
hugz

 

[hotinsofla]

Not my experience either. I like both sexes and have been with both on the same day but I understand the desire to fancy one or the other at any particular moment in time.

How does that work when you’re in a relationship? That’s the struggle for me.

 

[halcyondays]

How does that work when you’re in a relationship? That’s the struggle for me.

I don't do relationships. Not exclusive ones anyway.

 

[deleted19462351]

Meanwhile if I was in one, I'd only have eyes for that person and that person only.

 

[bigboaster]

Meanwhile if I was in one, I'd only have eyes for that person and that person only.

Exactly. This isn't a "bisexual" thing. It's a monogamy thing. If you don't want it be monogamous, that's fine. But it isn't related to sexuality.

 

[deleted19462351]

Exactly. This isn't a "bisexual" thing. It's a monogamy thing. If you don't want it be monogamous, that's fine. But it isn't related to sexuality.

So many people don't understand that, also what's stopping you from being the third with a couple, you'd be surprised on how many times I was offered a threesome.

 

[doreymike]

I have this same experience. Some weeks I'm all about sucking dick, and other weeks I'm all about pussy.

 

[Heir2012]

I too have experienced this, especially with porn. Some weeks I'm all about cock, but the next week I only want to watch pussy. It varies. You aren't always in the mood for cock, so fucking a pussy works well. Then flip that around.

 

[FJack]

Enjoying both is great, and when the opportunity presents to enjoy together in a threesome or group setting is the best.