Is this guy hitting on me?

[5610nick]

So i’m 26 work for a large company on their business team and all of us are expected to be super professional.

We hired this guy from another department a couple months ago and at first he was super quiet towards me but eventually opened up and is now very energetic and has a lot of jokes and stuff.

This guy is gay and a couple years older than me and MARRIED to a way older rich man like 50 and does not mention him much. For the last few days he’s been all up near me, always being by me, asking me to come to his office to hangout and talk, etc. Yesterday he asked for my phone number and snap and immediately began snapping me all day.

Yesterday in private he asked me if I was gay and I told him yes but i’m not really out I only tell people who directly ask. We had a late day yesterday and even after being near each other all day he texted me right when he got home just about casual stuff, was asking me what I like to do and no matter what I said he said he likes it too. We both talked that we liked action movies and he said I should come to his house and have a movie night with him to which I said sure but on another day.

So i’m confused, can’t tell if this is all in my head or not. He is married like I said and is kind of an energetic person so may just be his personality but he doesn’t seem to be this outgoing with other people on my team. What do you guys think?

 

[dreambridger]

I think he's hitting on you.

 

[bravesoldier]

So i’m 26 work for a large company on their business team and all of us are expected to be super professional.

We hired this guy from another department a couple months ago and at first he was super quiet towards me but eventually opened up and is now very energetic and has a lot of jokes and stuff.

This guy is gay and a couple years older than me and MARRIED to a way older rich man like 50 and does not mention him much. For the last few days he’s been all up near me, always being by me, asking me to come to his office to hangout and talk, etc. Yesterday he asked for my phone number and snap and immediately began snapping me all day.

Yesterday in private he asked me if I was gay and I told him yes but i’m not really out I only tell people who directly ask. We had a late day yesterday and even after being near each other all day he texted me right when he got home just about casual stuff, was asking me what I like to do and no matter what I said he said he likes it too. We both talked that we liked action movies and he said I should come to his house and have a movie night with him to which I said sure but on another day.

So i’m confused, can’t tell if this is all in my head or not. He is married like I said and is kind of an energetic person so may just be his personality but he doesn’t seem to be this outgoing with other people on my team. What do you guys think?

Don't be confused, he can't wait to get your dick in his mouth.

 

[Brodie888]

It's highly possible that he is married but in an open relationship. But then again he might just be the cheating type.

It smells like infatuation but he might also just be lonely without many friends his own age.

My philosophy is that you shouldn't sh!t where you eat. Work affairs is one easy way to be out of a job. Even if he was keen, he's married and more complicated than you need in this day and age. He sounds clingy too so there's that.

 

[nixco]

Not sure if he's consciously hitting on you but he's definitely interested in you. Whether he wants to act on it is another matter - but it sounds like he would if he could.

 

[Thickguy789]

Definitely sounds like he’s infatuated with you. He seems like he wants to fuck (asking for your snap can only lead to one thing based on my interaction with people here). He sounds like he’s married but definitely wanting to play with you. I’d do the movie and see if he makes a move. Are you attracted to him at all?

 

[Zai94]

So i’m 26 work for a large company on their business team and all of us are expected to be super professional.

We hired this guy from another department a couple months ago and at first he was super quiet towards me but eventually opened up and is now very energetic and has a lot of jokes and stuff.

This guy is gay and a couple years older than me and MARRIED to a way older rich man like 50 and does not mention him much. For the last few days he’s been all up near me, always being by me, asking me to come to his office to hangout and talk, etc. Yesterday he asked for my phone number and snap and immediately began snapping me all day.

Yesterday in private he asked me if I was gay and I told him yes but i’m not really out I only tell people who directly ask. We had a late day yesterday and even after being near each other all day he texted me right when he got home just about casual stuff, was asking me what I like to do and no matter what I said he said he likes it too. We both talked that we liked action movies and he said I should come to his house and have a movie night with him to which I said sure but on another day.

So i’m confused, can’t tell if this is all in my head or not. He is married like I said and is kind of an energetic person so may just be his personality but he doesn’t seem to be this outgoing with other people on my team. What do you guys think?

I definitely think he’s hitting on you. People usually try and stay close to people they like or find similar interest so they can have conversation material

 

[theplayerking]

So i’m 26 work for a large company on their business team and all of us are expected to be super professional.

We hired this guy from another department a couple months ago and at first he was super quiet towards me but eventually opened up and is now very energetic and has a lot of jokes and stuff.

This guy is gay and a couple years older than me and MARRIED to a way older rich man like 50 and does not mention him much. For the last few days he’s been all up near me, always being by me, asking me to come to his office to hangout and talk, etc. Yesterday he asked for my phone number and snap and immediately began snapping me all day.

Yesterday in private he asked me if I was gay and I told him yes but i’m not really out I only tell people who directly ask. We had a late day yesterday and even after being near each other all day he texted me right when he got home just about casual stuff, was asking me what I like to do and no matter what I said he said he likes it too. We both talked that we liked action movies and he said I should come to his house and have a movie night with him to which I said sure but on another day.

So i’m confused, can’t tell if this is all in my head or not. He is married like I said and is kind of an energetic person so may just be his personality but he doesn’t seem to be this outgoing with other people on my team. What do you guys think?

Gay marriages take many forms. If he invited you over to his house to watch a movie, it is likely with his husband‘s tacit permission. He could just be super friendly. Or he likes bringing guys home to his husband for a threeway. Or his husband could have a sexual issue and enjoy watching his boy have sex.

The questions are: Do you want to fool around with a coworker? Do you want to fool around with him? Would you be open to his husband being involved? If the answer to any of these questions is no, I would not go over for movie night.

Personally, I love threeways, but my rule is to play with each participant equally.

 

[curiouscat089]

He is infatuated and has no restrictions about showing it. It doesn’t mean he wants you to reciprocate. Even if he also wants you to reciprocate, it doesn’t mean he won’t change his behavior if you cross whatever boundary he may have in his mind. Not to mention, even with two consenting adults, it’s still a romantic affair at work and an extramarital affair. There is no way it’s worth risking your work atmosphere or your relationship with him.

Let him indulge his infatuation, you indulge yourself in the validation, don’t cross any boundaries and see what happens in a couple of weeks. Whatever might happen for a night can’t be better than a long-term work friendship with someone from your team.

 

[Futhehellru]

A slutty queen hitting on everyone? No way!

 

[chrisrobin]

So i’m 26 work for a large company on their business team and all of us are expected to be super professional.

We hired this guy from another department a couple months ago and at first he was super quiet towards me but eventually opened up and is now very energetic and has a lot of jokes and stuff.

This guy is gay and a couple years older than me and MARRIED to a way older rich man like 50 and does not mention him much. For the last few days he’s been all up near me, always being by me, asking me to come to his office to hangout and talk, etc. Yesterday he asked for my phone number and snap and immediately began snapping me all day.

Yesterday in private he asked me if I was gay and I told him yes but i’m not really out I only tell people who directly ask. We had a late day yesterday and even after being near each other all day he texted me right when he got home just about casual stuff, was asking me what I like to do and no matter what I said he said he likes it too. We both talked that we liked action movies and he said I should come to his house and have a movie night with him to which I said sure but on another day.

So i’m confused, can’t tell if this is all in my head or not. He is married like I said and is kind of an energetic person so may just be his personality but he doesn’t seem to be this outgoing with other people on my team. What do you guys think?

He wants a quicky at work and you'd be perfect to give him what he needs, don't be confused, it's lust on his part, give in once and you'll be in his power, bad enough you opened up and admitted you're gay.

 

[zabakingboy]

Married and probably not happy.

 

[ILoveGames48]

Check see if he is in an open relationship.. then go from there ..

If it was me I’d went to watch the movie with him and if he makes a move like hand on my leg arm around my neck.. I’d go for it .. if he is going to cheat on his husband .. it’s either going to be you or someone else

 

[deleted24437891]

Ask him about his husband and see what he tells you. He might explain what relationship status they have or he might say something to surprise you. Unfortunately for me, people don't hit on me. If they do, they are in some far away place I can't be, thus how I feel. So enjoy the time this guy spends with you, but tell him he needs to clarify his relationship cuz you ain't down to be a side boo for his benefit.