My wife and I had a rather traditional marriage and were conservative in our sexual relations. I mean it was usually some combination of oral and missionary intercourse when having sex. After 5 years of marriage, we had a baby boy. Sex during the latter part of her pregnancy and after the birth of our son was pretty much non-existent for quite some time. I believe it was not a-typical that when she became a mother it changed her focus. She often would be “tired” or similar distractions that limited our sex life. It was probably, believe it or not, like that for a good two years. Of course we occasionally fucked and it was fine although somewhat mundane. Sex often was her enjoying oral more than the intercourse. The more I thought about it over that time period, the more it bothered me. In fact, as I thought about it even pre-kid I felt she was OK with fucking but that oral was what got her off.
At some point now 7 plus years into our marriage I wanted to spice things up. There was one of those lingerie shops and I thought I would purchase her a sexy outfit. In addition to clothes they had adult toys all displayed and a wide variety. I looked at the dildos and they had some high priced ones called “realistic.” Well maybe they were realistic but certainly large. The idea intrigued me to purchase one that said it was 8 1/2” long by 6” around. You could touch it through the package and it did feel kind of real. I thought it might be fun although uncertain of her reaction to both the outfit and dildo. Like I said we were kind of conservative. I remember standing at the counter feeling embarrassed when purchasing. The woman behind the counter (and it was a woman) said you might want to purchase this lube to go with your item. I must have turned red but meekly said OK. I think after paying for the items I ran out of the shop. I laugh about that now.
When I got home I snuck the items into our bedroom and locked the door. I unwrapped the dildo and it really looked like a real penis. I got instantly erect thinking about when I might spring it on her and try it. I took off my pants and held the dildo out comparing it with my erect penis. I am about 5 ½” long on a good day and not sure but I’d say average girth. Holding the dildo next to my penis was like seeing something I couldn’t even compare with. It was night and day. Just take a look at ruler and place a finger where approximately 5” is and then look at where 8” is far distant from that. Plus, it was much thicker than mine as well. I wondered if I purchased something a little too large that she would say “no” to try. I also imagined could there really be many guys this size although of course in porn the answer was yes.
That evening I gave her the surprise lingerie which she seemed actually not that pleased with. I asked her to put it on and got somewhat of the eye roll. Nevertheless, she did for whatever reason go into the closet and changed her clothes and came out wearing the outfit. I made out with her, and slowly stripped off the outfit and had her lie back (as normal for us) and went down on her. However, instead of bringing her to an orgasm once I could tell she was turned on and juicy I stopped. I looked up at her and said I have another surprise but you have to close your eyes. I had placed the dildo under the bed and quickly knelt down and got it. Keep the eyes shut and enjoy, I said. I lubed up the dildo and then placed it at the entrance of her vagina and slowly pushed in. I could see the lips of her vagina open around it and I tested if it was too much gently moving it about. She laughed and said, what’s that, as she opened her eyes. I told her it was a toy I bought as I removed it holding it up for her to see. “Put it back in” she laughed although with a voice of instruction. I did and was amazed to watch as I slowly slid it in that there was not much resistance and was able to see the entire thing go to the hilt. The dildo had the balls so that stopped any additional penetration but it clearly was inside her 8 to 8 ½” Oh, she gasped and I slowly moved it back and forth. In maybe 1 minute I was moving it faster and I could see a light creamy substance and she was lubing it from her own vagina juices. In fact, it was easily sliding back and forth with her moaning and thrashing the more I did it. I started pumping her faster and then when one time I slid it fully in she said hold it still right there, right there, and oh my goddddd, I am cumming. Now she never once had an orgasm from fucking with me just oral. I could tell this was no fake (nor was she the type to do that anyway). After her orgasm subsided she said, Fuck me.” I of course was hard as a rock and quickly entered her. I moved back and forth and noticed her lying fairly still. Her pussy felt wetter or creamy slick. I had a hard time holding back and shot a major load.
I will never forget that first time using that big dildo. Little did I know this start would eventually create a psychological issue for me.
The next time we had sex I hadn’t planned on using the dildo but after getting her off orally she asked where’s the toy? You want me to get it? Sure. I know it may sound silly but when I started to use it on her I felt not only some jealousy but the realization (which I really hadn’t thought about the first time) that she could take an 8 ½ by 6 inch penis fully to the hilt without difficulty. Plus, when it was deep she really responded and I started considering that as this was 3 inches longer and thicker than my erect cock I really never reached hitting this triggering spots.There was no debating she liked the big size as her reactions and noises were easily observed. I began to wonder not only this second time but from then on what I must feel like in comparison. She had vaginal depth that I never ever would come close to stimulating. I will admit it began to feel intimidating. This conservative, somewhat shy, traditional, vanilla woman could handle and enjoy a long big cock. But the thing that was most fun and yet concerning was she liked me to push the dildo all the way and stretch the back of her vagina and it would lead to her orgasm. It was always way more intense than just from oral as had been in the past.
One day I was watching a ball game and it was a blow-out so I stopped. I went into the bedroom and she was masturbating using the dildo. She got embarrassed when I caught her. I walked out feeling like she was entitled to her enjoyment. But, truthfully I felt inadequate as she really liked the dildo so much more than I ever had anticipated.
I don’t want to exaggerate of suggest that we or she was constantly having sex. But, over a year time period more often than not when we did have sex the dildo was used. I tried a few times different positions but I know my cock was nowhere near getting to that depth she liked. In fact, one time she even said in the heat of the moment as she was cumming on the dildo calling out how it was hitting her “spot.” That was the actual word she used. Where was that spot? When the dildo was stretching her fully inserted to the hilt. No way could my penis even come close to that spot. Plus, now she preferred that dildo to oral, so it really demonstrated to me the superiority of the vaginal orgasm for her. She never ever has cum just from me fucking her nor even any overt reactions like that dildo produces for her. It is undeniably more pleasurable and intense for her and my goodness she cums so hard quivering and shaking.
Since then to now, I have to share as appropriate for this site; a large penis for some women clearly does more for them. That’s certainly true for my wife. I’ve seen it in videos too but typically after the women is having sex and opens up more. My wife can take it all much quicker than that. However, before some here suggest why we don’t find some hung guy to fuck her, this is reality and she would never ever agree to that. But, it is an odd feeling sometimes to know if I possessed a much longer penis she would enjoy the fucking part way more and would cum from it. I am jealous of the sensations that dildo or big realistic penis does for her, I can’t seem to psychologically let that go because it is true. I guess it was a mistake on my part that started by me purchasing that dildo. It proved everything on the importance of size for some women well in this case my wife. Guys like you Trulybig with that big long penis I sure hope you appreciate what you got! It kills me to know that you could fuck her way better than I ever will.
At some point now 7 plus years into our marriage I wanted to spice things up. There was one of those lingerie shops and I thought I would purchase her a sexy outfit. In addition to clothes they had adult toys all displayed and a wide variety. I looked at the dildos and they had some high priced ones called “realistic.” Well maybe they were realistic but certainly large. The idea intrigued me to purchase one that said it was 8 1/2” long by 6” around. You could touch it through the package and it did feel kind of real. I thought it might be fun although uncertain of her reaction to both the outfit and dildo. Like I said we were kind of conservative. I remember standing at the counter feeling embarrassed when purchasing. The woman behind the counter (and it was a woman) said you might want to purchase this lube to go with your item. I must have turned red but meekly said OK. I think after paying for the items I ran out of the shop. I laugh about that now.
When I got home I snuck the items into our bedroom and locked the door. I unwrapped the dildo and it really looked like a real penis. I got instantly erect thinking about when I might spring it on her and try it. I took off my pants and held the dildo out comparing it with my erect penis. I am about 5 ½” long on a good day and not sure but I’d say average girth. Holding the dildo next to my penis was like seeing something I couldn’t even compare with. It was night and day. Just take a look at ruler and place a finger where approximately 5” is and then look at where 8” is far distant from that. Plus, it was much thicker than mine as well. I wondered if I purchased something a little too large that she would say “no” to try. I also imagined could there really be many guys this size although of course in porn the answer was yes.
That evening I gave her the surprise lingerie which she seemed actually not that pleased with. I asked her to put it on and got somewhat of the eye roll. Nevertheless, she did for whatever reason go into the closet and changed her clothes and came out wearing the outfit. I made out with her, and slowly stripped off the outfit and had her lie back (as normal for us) and went down on her. However, instead of bringing her to an orgasm once I could tell she was turned on and juicy I stopped. I looked up at her and said I have another surprise but you have to close your eyes. I had placed the dildo under the bed and quickly knelt down and got it. Keep the eyes shut and enjoy, I said. I lubed up the dildo and then placed it at the entrance of her vagina and slowly pushed in. I could see the lips of her vagina open around it and I tested if it was too much gently moving it about. She laughed and said, what’s that, as she opened her eyes. I told her it was a toy I bought as I removed it holding it up for her to see. “Put it back in” she laughed although with a voice of instruction. I did and was amazed to watch as I slowly slid it in that there was not much resistance and was able to see the entire thing go to the hilt. The dildo had the balls so that stopped any additional penetration but it clearly was inside her 8 to 8 ½” Oh, she gasped and I slowly moved it back and forth. In maybe 1 minute I was moving it faster and I could see a light creamy substance and she was lubing it from her own vagina juices. In fact, it was easily sliding back and forth with her moaning and thrashing the more I did it. I started pumping her faster and then when one time I slid it fully in she said hold it still right there, right there, and oh my goddddd, I am cumming. Now she never once had an orgasm from fucking with me just oral. I could tell this was no fake (nor was she the type to do that anyway). After her orgasm subsided she said, Fuck me.” I of course was hard as a rock and quickly entered her. I moved back and forth and noticed her lying fairly still. Her pussy felt wetter or creamy slick. I had a hard time holding back and shot a major load.
I will never forget that first time using that big dildo. Little did I know this start would eventually create a psychological issue for me.
The next time we had sex I hadn’t planned on using the dildo but after getting her off orally she asked where’s the toy? You want me to get it? Sure. I know it may sound silly but when I started to use it on her I felt not only some jealousy but the realization (which I really hadn’t thought about the first time) that she could take an 8 ½ by 6 inch penis fully to the hilt without difficulty. Plus, when it was deep she really responded and I started considering that as this was 3 inches longer and thicker than my erect cock I really never reached hitting this triggering spots.There was no debating she liked the big size as her reactions and noises were easily observed. I began to wonder not only this second time but from then on what I must feel like in comparison. She had vaginal depth that I never ever would come close to stimulating. I will admit it began to feel intimidating. This conservative, somewhat shy, traditional, vanilla woman could handle and enjoy a long big cock. But the thing that was most fun and yet concerning was she liked me to push the dildo all the way and stretch the back of her vagina and it would lead to her orgasm. It was always way more intense than just from oral as had been in the past.
One day I was watching a ball game and it was a blow-out so I stopped. I went into the bedroom and she was masturbating using the dildo. She got embarrassed when I caught her. I walked out feeling like she was entitled to her enjoyment. But, truthfully I felt inadequate as she really liked the dildo so much more than I ever had anticipated.
I don’t want to exaggerate of suggest that we or she was constantly having sex. But, over a year time period more often than not when we did have sex the dildo was used. I tried a few times different positions but I know my cock was nowhere near getting to that depth she liked. In fact, one time she even said in the heat of the moment as she was cumming on the dildo calling out how it was hitting her “spot.” That was the actual word she used. Where was that spot? When the dildo was stretching her fully inserted to the hilt. No way could my penis even come close to that spot. Plus, now she preferred that dildo to oral, so it really demonstrated to me the superiority of the vaginal orgasm for her. She never ever has cum just from me fucking her nor even any overt reactions like that dildo produces for her. It is undeniably more pleasurable and intense for her and my goodness she cums so hard quivering and shaking.
Since then to now, I have to share as appropriate for this site; a large penis for some women clearly does more for them. That’s certainly true for my wife. I’ve seen it in videos too but typically after the women is having sex and opens up more. My wife can take it all much quicker than that. However, before some here suggest why we don’t find some hung guy to fuck her, this is reality and she would never ever agree to that. But, it is an odd feeling sometimes to know if I possessed a much longer penis she would enjoy the fucking part way more and would cum from it. I am jealous of the sensations that dildo or big realistic penis does for her, I can’t seem to psychologically let that go because it is true. I guess it was a mistake on my part that started by me purchasing that dildo. It proved everything on the importance of size for some women well in this case my wife. Guys like you Trulybig with that big long penis I sure hope you appreciate what you got! It kills me to know that you could fuck her way better than I ever will.
