It's 2025. I'm leaving straight/curious men behind lol

[dfw051980]

FIrst off this is mostly a fun post so don't take this topic too seriously.

But im over "straight-curious" men. I'm at a point of my life where if a dude isn't giving me the same energy I'm putting out I dont have the time for it. It used to be fun flirting back with curious dudes and playing that game of is he or isnt he, does he want to have some fun, but all that just usually results in frustration. And I've made plenty of posts on here about the frustration. Again it was never about making someone gay its more about helping and encouraging someone pursue the sexual interests they already have.
But I'm going into this new year knowing what i want and if you cant do that right now then im moving on. I'll still find all men attractive but experienced gay/bi/queer men are the only ones I'm going for.

 

[mitchellk]

More for me. Lol

 

[Swelldick]

Makes sense, life is too short to waste on people who aren't putting in any effort.

 

[Boaxy]

No. Call their asses out OP, "You're a Bisexual man and quit fucking playing yourself." So you're letting the assholes win, and further perpetuating homophobia/male code against us, by not speaking out or doing about it, and by just ignoring this issue, instead of remedying it. Oh dear. Smh.

 

[zaratoga]

Good for you. Unlike others, I do think you're doing the right thing. It's not your duty to educate or call anyone out. Keep yourself sane and find happiness.
Everyone can go and find a therapist if they need to.

 

[hardboy_fll]

It's a pity you can only see other men as sexual conquests to be thrown away if they don't meet your exacting needs. I guess this is the other side of the coin of the womanizer.

 

[dfw051980]

It's a pity you can only see other men as sexual conquests to be thrown away if they don't meet your exacting needs. I guess this is the other side of the coin of the womanizer.

Haha

 

[Southeasterner]

I totally agree with you. I don't have time to waste on confused people who don't know what they want or who like to play mind games. I applaud you for finding your worth and choosing to be with people who make the effort to be with you.

 

[Silver_Award]

It's a pity you can only see other men as sexual conquests to be thrown away if they don't meet your exacting needs.

Isn't that what straight curious men have done to us for ages?

 

[dreambridger]

for me, it depends on how cool with themselves they are about it. If they're insecure and ambivalent about it, it's a turn off.

 

[Southeasterner]

Isn't that what straight curious men have done to us for ages?

Facts.

 

[hardboy_fll]

Facts.

"When they go low we go lower!"

 

[Devious Obsidian]

Isn't that what straight curious men have done to us for ages?

Exactly idk what that weirdo thought they were doing by saying that

 

[Brodie888]

Gay men can bring the drama too to be fair.

I would just take each cock as it comes on face value and be open to taking each opportunity as far as you can.

 

[Trybogus01]

FIrst off this is mostly a fun post so don't take this topic too seriously.

But im over "straight-curious" men. I'm at a point of my life where if a dude isn't giving me the same energy I'm putting out I dont have the time for it. It used to be fun flirting back with curious dudes and playing that game of is he or isnt he, does he want to have some fun, but all that just usually results in frustration. And I've made plenty of posts on here about the frustration. Again it was never about making someone gay its more about helping and encouraging someone pursue the sexual interests they already have.
But I'm going into this new year knowing what i want and if you cant do that right now then im moving on. I'll still find all men attractive but experienced gay/bi/queer men are the only ones I'm going for.

Understood your frustration of not fulfilling your sexual needs/fantasy from an attractive straight/straight-looking man who seem to flirt with you.... BUT it's a two-way thing... If he doesn't consent to it, he doesn't consent to it. Can't really force anyone something they really don't like (i.e. gay sex!)

 

[Southeasterner]

Understood your frustration of not fulfilling your sexual needs/fantasy from an attractive straight/straight-looking man who seem to flirt with you.... BUT it's a two-way thing... If he doesn't consent to it, he doesn't consent to it. Can't really force anyone something they really don't like (i.e. gay sex!)

I understood a different thing: he is tired of straight men that play games with his mind. I´ve heard several complaints about this type of behaviour.

Some straight men lack the maturity to be honest to say that they only want sex. They flirt, feign interest, say they are in love, talk about love to justify their carnal interest. To me, this type of person is a scoundrel and emotionally irresponsible. Mature people clearly say what they want.

I applaud @dfw051980 . He is prioritizing himself and avoiding unnecessary wear and tear. It is an extremely intelligent stance.

 

[dfw051980]

Understood your frustration of not fulfilling your sexual needs/fantasy from an attractive straight/straight-looking man who seem to flirt with you.... BUT it's a two-way thing... If he doesn't consent to it, he doesn't consent to it. Can't really force anyone something they really don't like (i.e. gay sex!)

it’s not about forcing someone to do anything they don’t want to do, and it’s not about ignoring consent. I am talking about the sexual mind games that straight curious men sometimes play, and I’m over it.

 

[Southeasterner]

it’s not about forcing someone to do anything they don’t want to do, and it’s not about ignoring consent. I am talking about the sexual mind games that straight curious men sometimes play, and I’m over it.

Exactly!

 

[Trybogus01]

it’s not about forcing someone to do anything they don’t want to do, and it’s not about ignoring consent. I am talking about the sexual mind games that straight curious men sometimes play, and I’m over it.

I understood a different thing: he is tired of straight men that play games with his mind. I´ve heard several complaints about this type of behaviour.

Some straight men lack the maturity to be honest to say that they only want sex. They flirt, feign interest, say they are in love, talk about love to justify their carnal interest. To me, this type of person is a scoundrel and emotionally irresponsible. Mature people clearly say what they want.

I applaud @dfw051980 . He is prioritizing himself and avoiding unnecessary wear and tear. It is an extremely intelligent stance.

Well.. For you, that's sexual mind games because you're the one who's HOPING something happens.. For them, they could be in exploration stage, part of curiosity, flirtation and testing the waters..

I just wish straight hot men would just explore EACH other because it looks hotter and innocent and not exploitative, not with some out and about gay men..

 

[bigboaster]

Seems many on this site still don't know what the word "straight" means. Interesting...