I've never had a threesome, but I'm curious
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Have done quite a few threesomes/groups, and each experience is different. I'm mostly bottom, so usually looked for tops to play with.
The most common threesome "category" I personally had was older couples looking to play with a younger guy as a "treat". These threesomes were where I was treated like a prized possession, and the guys paid me a tonne of attention. They would then take turns to fuck me, or spitroast me (and once DP me). Sometimes it also felt like they were competing to see who could fuck me harder. Probably had about 6 or 7 of these over the years.
Other threesomes/groups I had were random guys getting together online. Some of them were fun, others were not. The fun ones were where everyone got along, nobody was ignored and there was good chemistry and sexual compatibility. The not so fun ones were when 2 guys hit it off and the rest feel left out. Or if one of the guys is selfish and wants all the attention to himself, ignoring the needs of the others. You usually need to make sure everyone is getting a similar amount of attention.
I've also had 2 or 3 threesomes where the 3rd guy only wants to sit and watch, or only be sucked. Also loved these as I love being watched as I get fucked. The most recent one of these was where an older guy fucked me hard for about an hour and the 3rd guy sat on the sofa fully clothed just watching. I maintained eye contact with the 3rd guy for most of it, and the older guy came on my face at the end. The 3rd guy then just got up and left.
I've also had a few threesomes with escorts, and those have been very very hot, as the attention is 100% on me, and I don't have to feel guilty or worry about me not paying the other guys attention - we do what I want to do as I've hired the guys. I've also been DP'ed twice like this.
The most common threesome "category" I personally had was older couples looking to play with a younger guy as a "treat". These threesomes were where I was treated like a prized possession, and the guys paid me a tonne of attention. They would then take turns to fuck me, or spitroast me (and once DP me). Sometimes it also felt like they were competing to see who could fuck me harder. Probably had about 6 or 7 of these over the years.
Other threesomes/groups I had were random guys getting together online. Some of them were fun, others were not. The fun ones were where everyone got along, nobody was ignored and there was good chemistry and sexual compatibility. The not so fun ones were when 2 guys hit it off and the rest feel left out. Or if one of the guys is selfish and wants all the attention to himself, ignoring the needs of the others. You usually need to make sure everyone is getting a similar amount of attention.
I've also had 2 or 3 threesomes where the 3rd guy only wants to sit and watch, or only be sucked. Also loved these as I love being watched as I get fucked. The most recent one of these was where an older guy fucked me hard for about an hour and the 3rd guy sat on the sofa fully clothed just watching. I maintained eye contact with the 3rd guy for most of it, and the older guy came on my face at the end. The 3rd guy then just got up and left.
I've also had a few threesomes with escorts, and those have been very very hot, as the attention is 100% on me, and I don't have to feel guilty or worry about me not paying the other guys attention - we do what I want to do as I've hired the guys. I've also been DP'ed twice like this.
Your point of view is interesting. I keep thinking about this issue of always being involved so as not to leave anyone out, which seems to me to be the main element for group or threesome sex to be excellent. I loved hearing about your experiences. I want to do DP too, I imagine how good a well-done DP must be. I want to do it three ways too so that while one fucks my ass, I'm fucking the other's ass. Anyway, exciting imagination, especially after reading your reports, I can do everything you did, I confess that I even got a hard-on reading your experience.
Go for it! When they're good, they're really good. When they're not good, it's all down to chemistry just like any other type of sex, don't be disappointed. Go with the flow, and if the flow ain't flowin', you'll have your next one to look forward to.
