Korean man couldn't find a woman who understood him so he went for a femboi substitute

[Smallteaplant]

The man on the left personifies himself as femboy/women.

The tanned muscular one is bisexual. My friend suspects that he's closer to heterosexual than gay.

16:21 - The tanned one mostly watches heterosexual pδrn.

24:41 - Dated a girl 10 years ago. After the breakup, he became curious about men.

25:55 - The kicker is that the type of men he's interested in are effeminate, soft boys. "pretty, slim, .. and modest"

26:40 - His ideal type is a woman who can understand him

Why do femme gay men put themselves in this position? The moment the tanned one meets his ideal woman, the twink is going to hit reality screaming.

 

[WilliamG]

In 3... 2... 1. The debate will be about his use of the term bisexual. "He's repressed gay man now finally expressing his sexuality."

Seriously though in all genres of sexuality there is the desire for masculine, feminine, or a mix of both. If or when he leaves the femboy, It could very well be for another one... Or a woman. No way to know. Maybe the femboy equates a guy in a former MF relationship as more masculine and that's the attraction for him?

 

[Smallteaplant]

bumps this type of couple bugs me.

 

[halcyondays]

Why do femme gay men put themselves in this position? The moment the tanned one meets his ideal woman, the twink is going to hit reality screaming.

Isn't it just as likely the gay twink will dump the older bi/top guy when someone younger/hotter/better comes along? Or older/hotter/richer?

Is it possible to let individuals choose who they want without criticizing their choices?

People consume romance, sex, partners and relationships. Part of consumption is being discarded when things don't work out for one or both. Relationships don't last forever but it's no reason to avoid them.

If it's what they both want right now I'm happy for them.