Ladies, How Long Does It Take You To Orgasm?

[Nightwood]

Hello LPSG ladies.

A few months ago I was in a friends with benefits situation.

On one specific night, I focused solely on the girl I was with and all her needs. We had a bit over four hours of fun (no penetration).

It was an hour of just kissing, an hour of me fondling her breasts and the last two hours I was servicing her with my tongue. It took her basically four hours to come twice. (but the orgasms were strong)

So this got me thinking - on average, and with a man, how long does it take you to reach an orgasm? I know that this varies a lot, and depends on the woman, but it will be interesting to know your experiences.

 

[deleted5506831]

Every girl is different and some just take forever.

With me, it depends on how turned on I am. I used to have to have clitoral stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. However, for whatever reason my body has changed and now I cum quite quickly from penetration. Any clitoral stimulation slows me down and causes me to take up to an hour to orgasm. It's to the point I don't even try to cum that way.

 

[Holly Doors]

It doesn't take me very long but my husband is an excellent lover and we know each others bodies inside out, he knows exactly which my buttons to press.

 

[TinyPrincess]

Depends on my mood and the abilities of the guy. It can take seconds or it can take forever - or never. Usually I'm rather turned on though - I rather not have sex if I'm not in the mood.

 

[ArtAppreciation]

Seconds. I practice a LOT.

 

[LaFemme]

Depends on my mood and the abilities of the guy. It can take seconds or it can take forever - or never. Usually I'm rather turned on though - I rather not have sex if I'm not in the mood.

Same here. From a few seconds to never. It all depends.

 

[TinyPrincess]

Same here. From a few seconds to never. It all depends.

Personally I think too many guys are unaware of just how little the actual physical activities matter - they don't realise how important it is to set the mood and listen to us.

 

[Mittimer]

Same here. From a few seconds to never. It all depends.

Yep. This right here.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Every girl is different and some just take forever.

With me, it depends on how turned on I am. I used to have to have clitoral stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. However, for whatever reason my body has changed and now I cum quite quickly from penetration. Any clitoral stimulation slows me down and causes me to take up to an hour to orgasm. It's to the point I don't even try to cum that way.

PLEASE...an adult female of the human species is called a woman, ffs.

 

[deleted5506831]

PLEASE...an adult female of the human species is called a woman, ffs.

Slow night, eh?

 

[Tactfulgal]

Guys sometimes have a need to understand these things mathematically, no matter how many times women respond that math rules can't answer it. As others have said, it depends.

 

[neutrno]

With me, it's something between 10 and 20 min, I'd say. I can't be precise, because it depends on so many factors and I'm not watching the clock to be sure. My man is the same.

If I'm not in the mood, I say so and we don't do me.

 

[Nightwood]

Every girl is different and some just take forever.

With me, it depends on how turned on I am. I used to have to have clitoral stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. However, for whatever reason my body has changed and now I cum quite quickly from penetration. Any clitoral stimulation slows me down and causes me to take up to an hour to orgasm. It's to the point I don't even try to cum that way.

I actually didn't know that preferences can change over time.

Thanks!

 

[deleted5678481]

It depends is the right answer! But usually pretty quick for me. It can be 20 or 30 minutes, or a matter of a minute or two if its just me LOL

 

[sweetlucky12]

As others have said, it just depends. Could take a while or it could happen within minutes.