Ladies Recommendations On Dildo For Wife

[vgdfcx]

Hey gals,

So I bought a realistic dildo a while back for the wife (blush x5 hard-on) to spice things up...and the size was a bit deceiving at (6.75 insertable x 1.8" wide) it's actually 2" wide and a full 6" around.

She asked me to bring it out after she was super horny and I gave her oral til she came; so she was good and warmed up..but just couldn't take any of it. I had it lubed up good too. I like the idea of spicing it up this way, but don't know what size to get instead.

Me - 6" x 5.25" (1.75" wide)
x5 - 6.75" x 6" (2" wide)
new option 1 - 6.5" x 5.5" (1.5" wide)
new option 2 - 6" x 5.5" (1.75" wide)

Do I get one that's 1.5" wide and 5.5" around? or do i get one my width at 1.75" wide? I didn't think going from 1.75 to 2" wide would be a big deal, but it was. I want it just a bit bigger than me..so I don't know if i should pay more attention to matching my width, or getting a slightly bigger circumference.

Thoughts? I want to surprise her with a new one. I'm open to any suggestions you ladies might have.

Thanks

 

[Mzseduction]

Well honestly I don’t even know the measurements of my dildos.. I have a couple that are smaller and a couple that are a lot bigger.. and depending on how turned on I am the bigger ones feel really good..
What I really wanted to comment on was the effort that you are making to please her...I find it so inspiring and so sweet .. and the fact that you are wanting to surprise her with a new one... ! She’s a lucky woman...
I personally think either of the options should work..

 

[1277255]

I am a huge supporter of Tantus products and this one I think could work well for you.

VIP SUPER SOFT

It's 6 x 1.79 so just a bit more than you. Well worth the cost.

 

[vgdfcx]

thanks for the feedback.

 

[286798]

Well honestly I don’t even know the measurements of my dildos.. I have a couple that are smaller and a couple that are a lot bigger.. and depending on how turned on I am the bigger ones feel really good..
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I personally think either of the options should work..

If this post & reply doesn't sum up the difference between men and women, I don't know what does.

Dudes: would a 6.47267743297655" weiner feel good?
Chicks: does it work and is it clean?
Dudes: yes
Chicks: yes

But in all seriousness, don't overthink it. In the big scheme of things, its not a huge expense if you get it wrong.

Besides- Women and our bodies are unique and just because something feels good (or doesn't) one time one time doesn't mean its always that way. Maybe that x5 will work at another time in her cycle or on a day where she's not affected by stress or whatever or is less impacted by slight discomfort.

 

[286798]

Also... what is your motivation? For it to look like you? If so, get what looks like you or do the clone-a-willy thing. If it’s to see her getting pounded by a big dick? Get the bigger one that’s smaller than what you bought. If it’s for her pleasure, ask her what she wants.

 

[vgdfcx]

thanks. she wouldn't know...speaking from the last time i bought the big one. I'd say my goal is a bit bigger. I'm just not sure if i focus on width or girth. again...i'm 5.25 around and 1.75" wide. so do I go for width or go for girth?

 

[MickeyLee]

She wouldn't know?

Dude, it's her cooch... She knows. You might not like what she tells you. She might say "don't know/don't care" to placate you.

How about focusing on her pleasure/goals when buying/playing with toys.

 

[vgdfcx]

that's what i'm trying to do. when i browsed with her before, she said she didn't know what she wanted or needed. I'm just recalibrating based on her reaction to the previous.

 

[286798]

She wouldn't know?

Not for nothing... but I wouldn’t know what .25” difference would feel like. At least not based on stats/numbers. I mean, I’m a woman and not obsessed with maximum measurements. Maybe if I saw it in person/got my hands on it, I would probably have an opinion... but otherwise, meh.

that's what i'm trying to do. when i browsed with her before, she said she didn't know what she wanted or needed. I'm just recalibrating based on her reaction to the previous.

I’m not being a butt about this, but it doesn’t sound like SHE is all that into it. It sounds like this is about what YOU want and she’s willing to play along. So get what ya want.

IF your stats are accurate and IF she can easily handle you on the regular, I’m not getting why .25” is a big deal. That’s just me. But if $ is a concern, I’d go with the smaller one to be safe. Or remeasure yourself to make an accurate comparison.

 

[vgdfcx]

Agreed. I've triple checked myself, lol.. It has been her idea the last time or two to "bring my friend in to play". I just wanted to make sure if this is something she wanted to explore, that I did it right. Money really isn't a concern, I just didn't want to mess it up again. I'll probably play it safe tho, since I have me and the big one already .

 

[MickeyLee]

@lurker23 she would know if she wants a larger/smaller toy. She'd know what she's enjoying and what's uncomfortable.

I spent close to 5 years in a adult emporium, in all that time no woman ever walked in with a .25 increment wish list.

A deleted post by a very helpful but male member mentioned the rigidity of the toy. Materials matter, how much give to compression or ability to bend/give probably top of the list. A very rigid toy of the same size will be more challenging than a "soft/flesh like" toy.

If she likes a certain size but is having problems with a specific toy, go for the same size in a smishier material.

ETA: Also. Hoohas and ladies = snowflakes. No two are gonna be a like. Me as an example, I don't like dildos. Sometimes I might break out a dildo to use as a static toy. I'm looking for steady pressure in the fornix area. Any thrusting makes my jenny unhappy.

Has she said she wants bigger?

 

[286798]

she would know if she wants a larger/smaller toy. She'd know what she's enjoying and what's uncomfortable

Totally agree there! But in looking at numbers, I would have a hard time... because, ya know, every dude SAYS he's 8".

 

[vgdfcx]

She hasn't come out and said it, but we were talking a bit about size queens and then she asked for that big ole dildo to come out, so i figured she was at least curious about going bigger. You have given me a lot of info. I appreciate it.