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does anybody last too long? it takes me a long ass time to bust when im fuckin my girl, hour and a half minimum..shes startin to get pissed, and hurt..any advice?
 
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does anybody last too long? it takes me a long ass time to bust when im fuckin my girl, hour and a half minimum..shes startin to get pissed, and hurt..any advice?

I would love to try to last that long ...what is the secret??
 

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does anybody last too long? it takes me a long ass time to bust when im fuckin my girl, hour and a half minimum..shes startin to get pissed, and hurt..any advice?

Are you on any prescription medications? Delayed ejaculation is a surprisingly common side-effect that (of course) is seldom talked about.

When you masturbate, are you maybe going too rough with your dick? Some guys use a kung-fu grip that no vagina is ever going to replicate. Maybe go easy on it for a while? If it takes you that long to cum from fucking but not so long when you beat off, that's a sign.

Maybe you need more foreplay? It's a myth that all guys are built to stick their dicks in any hole and expect to orgasm a few minutes later.

Whatever it is, good luck.
 
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I'm with the OP in that I tend to last (too) long too. Girls think it's great until after about 30 minutes without a break and then they're sore. Two things...

1.) As another poster mentioned, lay off the kung-fu whack off grip. I was, and sometimes still am, guilty of this. It really does kind of ruin the sensation of sex.

2.) Ask for more foreplay. The good kind. The kind where you're about to blow just from foreplay alone.
 

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I have this problem after coming several times previously, I usually just stop and wait a while or there are 2 positions that usually work -

1. You lying on your back, her on all fours,above you (facing), you wrap your arms around her lower back, and pressing against your feet, you do some high speed ramming. Not only will this make her come many times but her moaning well get your mind in the mood for coming too. I have a 90% success rate with this position.

2. She lies on her front with her legs closed and you enter from behind (ask her to kegel or squeeze) this makes her pussy tighter and increases the stimulation to your cock. I have an 80% success rate with this position.

P.S. I usually wear condoms and these still work
 
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I have a different perspective on things - I'm 21 and I can't ejaculate during intercourse. I can climax both when my partner is performing oral and when I masturbate, without a problem. But for me the end of intercourse is either when the partner reaches climax, or when my (thigh) muscles give up.
I suspect my issue is related to my low levels of sensitivity in my penis - no joke, you can bite it & I'll hardly feel it.
With regards to your query - I would say appreciate the fact that you actually can climax. Some of us don't have that prerogative.
However, in an attempt to aid you, I would recommend increasing the time spans between intercourse, e.g. If you're currently having sex 5 times a week, try 3-4 times.
I hope that helps.
 

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does anybody last too long? it takes me a long ass time to bust when im fuckin my girl, hour and a half minimum..shes startin to get pissed, and hurt..any advice?

I can last too long for some partners as well. Every guy thinks that's a dream, but when your partner complains or gives up before you 'nut', it's awfully disappointing. My 'problem' stems from teaching myself to hold off from orgasm when I was younger. I had heard about premature ejaculation & was worried that might happen to me as well. I find that I can go for hours at times & I try to mix things up some to initiate an orgasm. Do you have any issue achieving orgasm while receiving oral or manual stimulation or is it just during intercourse? I prefer lots of foreplay which makes it easier to orgasm during intercourse.
 
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I've got it too. A lot of time I have to finish with my hand. It can be really annoying and embarssing when you have a 10 in your bed and can't nut from a pussy. Its one of the reasons I lean towards one nights stands instead of relationships
 
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I have this problem after coming several times previously, I usually just stop and wait a while or there are 2 positions that usually work -

1. You lying on your back, her on all fours,above you (facing), you wrap your arms around her lower back, and pressing against your feet, you do some high speed ramming. Not only will this make her come many times but her moaning well get your mind in the mood for coming too. I have a 90% success rate with this position.

2. She lies on her front with her legs closed and you enter from behind (ask her to kegel or squeeze) this makes her pussy tighter and increases the stimulation to your cock. I have an 80% success rate with this position.

P.S. I usually wear condoms and these still work
these are exactly what i was going to recommend, hah. my success is 100% with the latter, and maybe 50% with the former, though. also, another position that gives me 50% success rate is as follows: kneel in front of her, and have her kind of hover crab-walk style (she's on all fours, but facing up, not facing the ground) in front of you, and you grab her hips and pound into her that way. this position gives some great friction, which helps. i have this same problem of not being able to climax sometimes, and i guess it really is as much a virtue as it is a vice. if i don't get off, oh well. she's always very happy, and i can just beat off later, or have a round 2, or get some in the morning. my main complicating issue is that when my lady comes, she also pees. and urine is, oddly enough, probably the best lube in the world. it can make a tight pussy feel like a hallway--and i'm by no means a narrow guy.

also, are you wearing condoms when you have sex? that can kill an orgasm for almost anybody. ugh, condoms...
 
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I have this "situation" as well, taking a very long time to cum. I haven't cum through fucking, blow jobs, or hand jobs for a while now. I'm sure it is due to stroking myself too hard, however in his response TopDudeFtl mentions holding off cumming, which is something I do. Stroke myself until I am close, and then backing off. Maybe that contributed.

I personally do not view this as a problem. True, the girls I hang out with become frustrated that they do not make me cum, feeling they are not holding up their end of the bargain. But on the other hand they do appreciate having a large dick to play with and fuck to their complete satisfaction.
 

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I've suffered from this most of my life and even spoke to several doctors who ALL said the same thing: It's called 'retarded ejaculation' or 'delayed ejaculation' (Google it!). As a long time swinger I'm here to tell you I've literally gone all weekend having sex with multiple partners and NEVER came!!!! It then and now has it's pro's and con's. It takes some work but you have to find YOUR "trigger" that gets you blow you nut. For me it's tightening my legs and for some reason rubbing my hands up and down my hips. I can ALMOST cum without having to go through the routine but not very often so that tells me there are ways to 'overcome' but you have to figure it out.
 

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I can't cum unless I let or make myself cum, whether orally, vaginally, anally, it's just hard to make me cum. I miss the feeling of not being able to control it.
 

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I can relate to being able to go as long as I want. I don't have the "problem" of being unable to cum, but it's great to be able to keep going as long as I want. I've been with some guys who just can't cum and it does get very tiring.
 

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It takes a while for me to cum sometimes as well usually i get bored from taking it easy or going slow etc. After 45 min i get bored and when it hits the hour mark i just give up on my nut as long as she has gotten hers i don't really care all that much. Usually if it is someone i get involved with for a while they get concerned they are doing something wrong but i just explain it is not.

But then it depends on the type of mood i am in and the girl i am with, when i start get bored i think screw this and just hammer her hard and fast to try and nut as quick as possible to get it over with usually by then she has came. Then deal with my implications the next day and help her out as much as i can.
 
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