Length Vs Girth: Pros And Cons

[meatstick41]

A question for the ladies here.

What gives you more pleasure during sex? A longer than average or a thicker than average penis?
What can cause you more problem/pain during sex? A longer than average or a thicker than average penis?

 

[918177]

The one who doesn't ask dumb questions.

 

[Spartan727]

The one who doesn't ask dumb questions.

Is it the month to ask size questions or what?

 

[MickeyLee]

If I look back over my entire sex life, what has given me the most pleasure?

Women. No dick at all.

 

[TinyPrincess]

A question for the ladies here.

What gives you more pleasure during sex? A longer than average or a thicker than average penis?
What can cause you more problem/pain during sex? A longer than average or a thicker than average penis?

Usually the guy I'm with. His cock size doesn't really matter - he does. And that's spoken as a real size queen.

 

[Enid]

What gives me the most pleasure during sex is a strong mental & emotional connection. I don't treat guys as walking dildos so penis size is a nonissue, barring extremes on either end.

What causes most pain is the wrong position and not enough lubrication. Average or above average, doesn't matter.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

What works is the guy who fits. Mentally, emotionally and “mostly physically.”

I care more about the physical fit of a hug, and cuddling, there are specific points I prefer to be in when in an embrace. And points that I can’t stand hitting.
So we have to overall fit together.

It’s not a tall v. short thing, either. Too tall partners [such as my beloved ex and beloved current] have taken their toll on my knees, since I have to be on tiptoe, stretched out, in hugs. I have a standard warning that I’m dropping back to my soles. I’ve pulled both off balance enough to cause falls. That’s usually in the learning curve. But, it’s worth it to be in the Golden Hug Zone.
And the hug needs to feel like gathering in, not clinging in a storm...unless we are in a storm, real or metaphorical.

If the bodies fit well, but the genitals are a bit off, I can work around that. Because I select partners who care about mutual satisfaction.

 

[LaFemme]

Partners give pleasure, not penises.

I’ve said it before, but when I’m with someone I care about, his penis becomes the penis against which all others do not measure up. Regardless of size or shape. We make it work for us.

I don’t understand why men feel the need for this information on specific sizes. Sometimes a larger penis can hurt some women. Some women, on a one night stand, will turn a larger guy down because of this. Who wants a UTI for one night of discomfort? Sometimes it’s the opposite. A woman might seek out a larger man, just to see what it’s like. It’s a novelty item. But overall (while it shouldn’t be) size issues are a joke.

Guys seem to want to know how they measure up against other men. You measure up just fine. It’s a non-issue for us really when you get right down. Just be a good guy.

 

[693987]

To much of either isn't comfy and/or painful. I've had an amazing orgasm once from receiving oral sex (it generally isn't my gig). I've had amazing orgasms from just two fingers. With the single exception of one man I fooled around with who had a micropenis, every person I have been intimate with had a dick bigger than two fingers. I haven't ever even picked casual fucks for genital size, much less anything more serious. If I'm craving some variety, I have dildos for that (most of which never see the light of day and stay stashed away in my toy bag).

 

[Spartan727]

A question for the ladies here.

What gives you more pleasure during sex? A longer than average or a thicker than average penis?
What can cause you more problem/pain during sex? A longer than average or a thicker than average penis?

A question for the ladies here.

What gives you more pleasure during sex? A longer than average or a thicker than average penis?
What can cause you more problem/pain during sex? A longer than average or a thicker than average penis?[/QUOTE

Partners give pleasure, not penises.

I’ve said it before, but when I’m with someone I care about, his penis becomes the penis against which all others do not measure up. Regardless of size or shape. We make it work for us.

I don’t understand why men feel the need for this information on specific sizes. Sometimes a larger penis can hurt some women. Some women, on a one night stand, will turn a larger guy down because of this. Who wants a UTI for one night of discomfort? Sometimes it’s the opposite. A woman might seek out a larger man, just to see what it’s like. It’s a novelty item. But overall (while it shouldn’t be) size issues are a joke.

Guys seem to want to know how they measure up against other men. You measure up just fine. It’s a non-issue for us really when you get right down. Just be a good guy.

The pleasure of sex isn’t just about the deed for me. I’ve never been one to go out - meet someone and have sex. I’m not wired like that. I have heard stories about ugly lights, I truly can’t relate.
I will admit those stories are hilarious.
The person that the attached to the penis, the heart, compassion, kindness, personality play a bigger role. Confidence is a big attractor for me.
I’ve said this before. I have never had a lunch conversation about penis size.
Big or small thick or not we are all born w attributes some bigger than others. Like what LaFemme said just be yourself. Be honest & happy be the best you you can be. Your happiness is radiant.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Doubling back, because I had a conversation (a teasing/miss you conversation) last night.
We got on the topic of stretching feeling for me.
He asked if I liked something large stretching me. My honest reply?
The trippy, psychedelic endorphin rush feels good.

Enjoying sex is tightly intertwined with the chemicals my system produces. Good sex is good. Great sex is an altered state.

So, is there a physical pay off to size? Potentially. It’s one of many many ways to get the feelgood chemistry flowing.
Is size, in any dimension needed? Nope.
Imagination is.

 

[TinyPrincess]

Great answer

 

[rtg]

Once again, refer to what the other ladies said.