LJOC vs Bate-a-mate - London

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Hi all,

Thinking of going to one of these next week as they're noth on at Bunker Bar. Haven't been to anything like this before. Not interested in full sex but possibly more than just jacking off so interested in Bate-a-mate, but not sure whether it's less busy than LJOC and not interested if it's just guys fucking, more interested in just jacking off and sucking. LJOC might bee too restrictive though.

Interested to hear from people who have been to either. A few people have left accounts on here of their visit to LJOC and even reading the accounts on here gave me the raging horn!
 
Hi. Have you ever been there? I wanna go but But I'm too shy to go alone. I'm looking for someone who can go with me.
 
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Hi everyone. Who wants to go there for the first time? I want to, but I'm shy because I've never visited a place like that
 
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Hi all,

Thinking of going to one of these next week as they're noth on at Bunker Bar. Haven't been to anything like this before. Not interested in full sex but possibly more than just jacking off so interested in Bate-a-mate, but not sure whether it's less busy than LJOC and not interested if it's just guys fucking, more interested in just jacking off and sucking. LJOC might bee too restrictive though.

Interested to hear from people who have been to either. A few people have left accounts on here of their visit to LJOC and even reading the accounts on here gave me the raging horn!
Did you end up going?
 
Just thought I’d do a quick review as I finally plucked up the courage to go to LJOC this week.

The entrance is pretty obvious next to a convenience shop. You go down some stairs to the entrance desk. Yes they charge more for card. There’s a cash point a hundred yards away, just get a tenner out.

If you go before 7 - and I’d reccomend you do - you get a raffle ticket and let through. The ticket is your free drink token.

You are let through and the changing room is immediately to your left. There’s a basket with large laundry bags for your stuff. Grab one and put everything in it except your shoes and boxers/underwear if you’re wearing any. If you want to keep a debit card with you put it in your shoe.

Then you go back out to the front desk at a different window, give them your bag and you get a key for it. All very secure and friendly. The staff were happy to answer any questions.

Then you go into the main area through the only other door. You enter a bar area with stools at one side. Seemingly no one was interested in their free drink but I needed a nerve calming beer.

There are stools and places to lean but not many guys seem to stay there.

To the left is a corridor up some steps that opens to a small seated room to your right and a larger room straight ahead. On the day I went that room seemed to be where the older gents sat. That’s also where the loos are. They’re small and not great but fine.

Working back from the bar you can also go right which leads to some Glory holes you can go into or the biggest room to gather in. When I was there this is where everyone was. With some seating too.

I was nervous and new so happily sat in the corner with my beer and largely watched. To begin with.

In terms of guys eveyone was very chilled. Huge range of ages and body types. I’d say most were 30-50 but some much older some in their 20s.

I sat with my boxers on but plenty had their cocks out straight away and some had proper shorts on and didn’t show. Totally free and easy. Very nice atmos. No aggro. Touching and engagement seemed very respectful and inquisitive. I saw no hassling or issues.

I saw lots of mutual wanking, lots of nipple play, lots of kissing. Some were obviously there to serve, one ripped lad about 25 seemed to be on a mission to be covered in as much cum as possible. Some just sat back, some I saw wanking and getting off with 5/6 people. All was to play for depending on what you wanted.

Personally I had a ripped older guy who loved my nipples and then a younger, chunky guy who was amazing with my cock and nipples and made me shudder before I came.

It got busy early. I’d say peak time is about 7.30/8 and that room was so full there must have been 40 odd naked blokes just wanking, kissing, edging, watching, teasing, nipple playing and moaning all at once. It was physically and visually hot as fuck.

One thing to note, there was virtually not a word said the whole time I was there. It wasn’t cliquey, although the youngest, most ripped seemed to spend most time with each other most, they also worked the room too. The much older guys seemed happy sitting in their other room. And everyone else was in between. Everyone seemed to just find a place.

All in all I’d say if you’re only not going because you’re nervous. Don’t let that stop you. It’s v chill and easy. You literally don’t have to touch or be touched if you don’t want. You can be all in or on the edges. The place isn’t big and imagine it will thin out by 9 ish, but there’s a big crowd there around 8 ish. It’s not shiny and glamorous but it’s very well run and makes for a very horny night.
 
Just thought I’d do a quick review as I finally plucked up the courage to go to LJOC this week.

The entrance is pretty obvious next to a convenience shop. You go down some stairs to the entrance desk. Yes they charge more for card. There’s a cash point a hundred yards away, just get a tenner out.

If you go before 7 - and I’d reccomend you do - you get a raffle ticket and let through. The ticket is your free drink token.

You are let through and the changing room is immediately to your left. There’s a basket with large laundry bags for your stuff. Grab one and put everything in it except your shoes and boxers/underwear if you’re wearing any. If you want to keep a debit card with you put it in your shoe.

Then you go back out to the front desk at a different window, give them your bag and you get a key for it. All very secure and friendly. The staff were happy to answer any questions.

Then you go into the main area through the only other door. You enter a bar area with stools at one side. Seemingly no one was interested in their free drink but I needed a nerve calming beer.

There are stools and places to lean but not many guys seem to stay there.

To the left is a corridor up some steps that opens to a small seated room to your right and a larger room straight ahead. On the day I went that room seemed to be where the older gents sat. That’s also where the loos are. They’re small and not great but fine.

Working back from the bar you can also go right which leads to some Glory holes you can go into or the biggest room to gather in. When I was there this is where everyone was. With some seating too.

I was nervous and new so happily sat in the corner with my beer and largely watched. To begin with.

In terms of guys eveyone was very chilled. Huge range of ages and body types. I’d say most were 30-50 but some much older some in their 20s.

I sat with my boxers on but plenty had their cocks out straight away and some had proper shorts on and didn’t show. Totally free and easy. Very nice atmos. No aggro. Touching and engagement seemed very respectful and inquisitive. I saw no hassling or issues.

I saw lots of mutual wanking, lots of nipple play, lots of kissing. Some were obviously there to serve, one ripped lad about 25 seemed to be on a mission to be covered in as much cum as possible. Some just sat back, some I saw wanking and getting off with 5/6 people. All was to play for depending on what you wanted.

Personally I had a ripped older guy who loved my nipples and then a younger, chunky guy who was amazing with my cock and nipples and made me shudder before I came.

It got busy early. I’d say peak time is about 7.30/8 and that room was so full there must have been 40 odd naked blokes just wanking, kissing, edging, watching, teasing, nipple playing and moaning all at once. It was physically and visually hot as fuck.

One thing to note, there was virtually not a word said the whole time I was there. It wasn’t cliquey, although the youngest, most ripped seemed to spend most time with each other most, they also worked the room too. The much older guys seemed happy sitting in their other room. And everyone else was in between. Everyone seemed to just find a place.

All in all I’d say if you’re only not going because you’re nervous. Don’t let that stop you. It’s v chill and easy. You literally don’t have to touch or be touched if you don’t want. You can be all in or on the edges. The place isn’t big and imagine it will thin out by 9 ish, but there’s a big crowd there around 8 ish. It’s not shiny and glamorous but it’s very well run and makes for a very horny night.
Thanks for shining light on it. Sounds hot. Where does everyone cum?
 
on the floor or on other people who want it
Yeah on people or the floor or yourself. That’s one thing lacking is any kind of shower facility so if you do need up cumming on yourself like I did, you have to clean yourself
Up in the tiny toilets.

The more seasoned guys all seemed to cum on the floor or on someone on their knees.
 
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Yeah on people or the floor or yourself. That’s one thing lacking is any kind of shower facility so if you do need up cumming on yourself like I did, you have to clean yourself
Up in the tiny toilets.

The more seasoned guys all seemed to cum on the floor or on someone on their knees.
Hot, I thought there was no sucking here or what but there are guys on the floor on their knees taking everyone's loads?
 
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