I hear a lot from straight mates about their partner not giving them much sex once they're in a long term relationship. I was wondering if men who are married/long term gf have had periods of time when they haven't properly fucked in weeks? What's the longest you've gone with that happening?The longest you've gone un-cummed. Does it drive you crazy? Or do you always have to release by unloading yourself?
With my first wife..she was very stingy with the sex. It was like when she wanted it which wasn't often it was good. But when I did I heard nothing but excuses. I'd say the longest dry streak with her was 10 weeks. How do I know. I kept a small notebook to mark off the days just to see. Sure enough it came out to 71 days. Later I found out she was getting it elsewhere from time to time so I was not her priority. Current wife...the longest has been maybe a couple of weeks. That was because of a surgery she had. I have no problem with that of course.
Been married 10 years and there have been times I've gone a month or so without sex for various reasons. Of course it is frustrating but I just masturbate for a release. Just because we aren't having sex I'm not going to deprive myself.
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Longest was 103 days and counting, but 58 and counting including the last 44 and counting were aided by chastity cage.
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About a week. Longest I’ve gone without sex while being married was about 13 months
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I think all married guys go through some kind of dry spell for various reason’s, mine was after child birth but that’s understandable after watching the birth!! Lol. I have a buddy that’s going on 5 years with now sex at all, I don’t know how he does it! It’s more of a friendship then a marriage in my opinion.
Going on day 65 since the last time my wife and I have had sex. Have jerked off a lot during that time, but it's been about 5 days since my last load.
And the dry spell has been broken!!
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I found the most pleasant sex on a long therm relationship, also more Against no relationship. It’s one of the perks.
There are separate things I could have sex without cumming, cum on sex or jerk off, I’m responsible of my of my own orgasms.
The longest would be around childbirth, but you don’t have time to count the time.
Crazy? Hardly if it was we could have a pornstar as president
Well, I'm on about day 10 without sex right now and its killing me.
Yes, I've probably jacked off 3 times in that period but no blowjobs, not handjobs, and no PIV sex with the wife. She's been fighting a cold or some virus and a balky back as well.
Yes, I've probably jacked off 3 times in that period but no blowjobs, not handjobs, and no PIV sex with the wife. She's been fighting a cold or some virus and a balky back as well.
Without question after my wife gave birth. She had c section with both kids so it was roughly 4-6 weeks until doc gave her the go ahead
10 days? I’m married and 3 years now without sex
Oh, man. How can you possibly go that long? I feel sorry for you.
I'm in a particularly bad stretch at this time. No fucking since Dec 5. Have gotten 5 handjobs, usually with oral sex, since then but I do miss PIV sex.
Wife has been ill on-and-off (flu, GI problems) and says that "things hurt". Hell, I'm not asking her for anal - just pussy.
Anyway, I hope she gets back to normal soon.
Wife has been ill on-and-off (flu, GI problems) and says that "things hurt". Hell, I'm not asking her for anal - just pussy.
Anyway, I hope she gets back to normal soon.
Hmmmmmm it was only due to chemotherapy and she had a feeding tube in her for about 6 months. But we both wanted it so bad we figured out how to fuck with her feeding tube in between us!! So it seems that about 9-10 weeks was the longest we ever went without having sex of any kind and that was to keep me safe from the chemo in her body (for the 6.5 weeks of treatments) and then it took a few weeks for the sores in her vagina to heal (chemo effects EVERYTHING regardless of where the cancer is). When I could just get my head in her and that didn't hurt her we both cried uncontrollably and I pumped in and out a little bit and came as fast as I could to prevent any further pain. We both smiled and said "thank god we can still do it!" when we were done. We never want to go down that road again.
I think now that I'm on this topic that we didn't have sex for maybe close to 8 months in 2020 due to her being in menopause, I'd have to look at notes, but we tried several times and it hurt her, but she gave me BJs in the interim before she got on medication and since early last year we've been fiiiiiiiiiiiine
I think now that I'm on this topic that we didn't have sex for maybe close to 8 months in 2020 due to her being in menopause, I'd have to look at notes, but we tried several times and it hurt her, but she gave me BJs in the interim before she got on medication and since early last year we've been fiiiiiiiiiiiine
The most has been two weeks which I always thought was a long time until reading these posts. My biggest issue is she doesn’t touch me in between and I can’t cum during sex unless it’s been a few days since I shot a load. So I won’t jerk off when I hope to have sex and that ends up being too long at times.
