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I'm in my early 60's, married for 30+ years, three adult kids, semi-retired. At the beginning of our marriage we had a pretty good sex life, although I was looking for 2-3 times a week and she was interested in once a week at best. She isn't into kissing, making out, etc.
As time has gone on, her interest in sex has decreased more. I told myself that I wouldn't leave until the kids are grown and out of the house. That's now done. All kids finished their education and have good jobs.
I've recently been planning an exit strategy and out of the blue, my wife told me she has lost all desire for sex and she knows that bothers me. Wow. First time she ever admitted that. She asked me to help her find a solution.
I suggested she see her doctor for help. She doesn't want to, and asked me to explore what options there are online. I found a number of libido enhancement pills on amazon that have good ratings (if you believe those).
Got a couple and she has been taking them. Bottle says it takes 45 days or more to work.
If I can get our sex life to rebound, I would consider staying.
I'm looking for some female advice on this. Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions? Any particular types of non-prescription medication that might help? Or herbal supplements, etc?
If the doctor is the way to go, I'm going to push her in that direction, but I think she doesn't want to talk to her doctor about the issue.
Thanks very much!
As time has gone on, her interest in sex has decreased more. I told myself that I wouldn't leave until the kids are grown and out of the house. That's now done. All kids finished their education and have good jobs.
I've recently been planning an exit strategy and out of the blue, my wife told me she has lost all desire for sex and she knows that bothers me. Wow. First time she ever admitted that. She asked me to help her find a solution.
I suggested she see her doctor for help. She doesn't want to, and asked me to explore what options there are online. I found a number of libido enhancement pills on amazon that have good ratings (if you believe those).
Got a couple and she has been taking them. Bottle says it takes 45 days or more to work.
If I can get our sex life to rebound, I would consider staying.
I'm looking for some female advice on this. Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions? Any particular types of non-prescription medication that might help? Or herbal supplements, etc?
If the doctor is the way to go, I'm going to push her in that direction, but I think she doesn't want to talk to her doctor about the issue.
Thanks very much!