Make-Up Sex

[gaydude45]

Now I know it can't just be me, but is make-up sex the best kind of sex or what? Every time we have had it, things just feel so crazy and raw. During it, I am feeling every emotion: hate, jealousy, despair, love, lust, anger, tenderness, hope, etc. etc. This combination of feelings causes me to reach such a height of horniness that we fuck with extreme wild abandon. Top, bottom, whatever. It's a moment where we need each other, and nothing can stop us, whether apologies and conciliations have happened or not. To be honest, it's actually better without those. It carries the sexual tension of going to bed with your worst enemy; forbidden and wrong. Can others chime in on this and shed some further light on the topic?

 

[HungBtmVegas]

From personal experience, I'd argue break-up sex is just as good, but I generally agree that any sex that stems from an extremely emotional event is the best.

 

[gaydude45]

From personal experience, I'd argue break-up sex is just as good, but I generally agree that any sex that stems from an extremely emotional event is the best.

Break up sex, huh? Do tell.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Break up sex, huh? Do tell.

The single best sex of my life was while getting my stuff from an abusive ex's house after we broke up the day before.

 

[gaydude45]

The single best sex of my life was while getting my stuff from an abusive ex's house after we broke up the day before.

Damn dude, that's hot. So how did it go down? Did he say "No, don't go" or was it more like "One last hurrah"?

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Damn dude, that's hot. So how did it go down? Did he say "No, don't go" or was it more like "One last hurrah"?

Closer to the former than the latter because I wasn't into it at first.

 

[gaydude45]

Closer to the former than the latter because I wasn't into it at first.

Did it happen more than once, or was that the very last time?

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Did it happen more than once, or was that the very last time?

We had sex maybe 4 times over the course of that night and the following morning. I had to send the friend who gave me a ride off because she was waiting outside.

 

[gaydude45]

We had sex maybe 4 times over the course of that night and the following morning. I had to send the friend who gave me a ride off because she was waiting outside.

Well at least you got to have some closure; it probably felt awesome, huh? I'm sure in these instances there is a great exchange of pent-up rage, regret, sorrow, and even love. Maybe it helped the both of you to memorialize what was good in what had passed between you in one final joining. Perhaps it wasn't all bad, your relationship, but it was definitely bad enough to call it quits for good. I hope you have been able to move on to better horizons, and that he has tried to be a better person and not hurt others.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Well at least you got to have some closure; it probably felt awesome, huh? I'm sure in these instances there is a great exchange of pent-up rage, regret, sorrow, and even love. Maybe it helped the both of you to memorialize what was good in what had passed between you in one final joining. Perhaps it wasn't all bad, your relationship, but it was definitely bad enough to call it quits for good. I hope you have been able to move on to better horizons, and that he has tried to be a better person and not hurt others.

If it weren't for the abuse, we'd probably be married by now, we were each other's dream partners.

 

[gaydude45]

If it weren't for the abuse, we'd probably be married by now, we were each other's dream partners.

I am so sorry about that. There is no condition where abuse is acceptable, mental, emotional, physical, or spiritual. My Partner and I have had to get through some rough times where abuse (mental-emotional, on his part) was present. I've gotten very close to breaking things off. Yes, there was make-up sex; sometimes it was pretty damn awesome, and sometimes it was marred by the fact I was so disappointed in him and shocked by his unseemly un-partner-like behavior. Lately, I've noticed some improvements; in some cases, significant improvement. He's even been in therapy to address his behavioral issues; unfortunately, he's dealing with physical-emotional abuse from his childhood; evil begets evil, but this is where it stops. I understand his past behavior, but I neither accept nor condone it. Thank God he has never laid a hand on me, nor I him. I think at times we both wanted to, but at the end of the day we ended up sitting on our own hands, metaphorically speaking.

 

[gaydude45]

The single best sex of my life was while getting my stuff from an abusive ex's house after we broke up the day before.

Calling back to this, why was this sex especially good? You did it four times that night. Any particular details you are willing to impart that relate the especial nature and quality of this last series of encounters?

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Calling back to this, why was this sex especially good? You did it four times that night. Any particular details you are willing to impart that relate the especial nature and quality of this last series of encounters?

I have an interesting sexual history and I like being hate fucked.

 

[Infernal]

I have an interesting sexual history and I like being hate fucked.

I was going to say it sounded like hate sex.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

I was going to say it sounded like hate sex.

Yeah, it was.

 

[gaydude45]

I have an interesting sexual history and I like being hate fucked.

Hmm, me too. For me, the rougher the better. Just made a new thread, for that:

Hate-Fucking/ Rough Sex

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Hmm, me too. For me, the rougher the better. Just made a new thread, for that:

Hate-Fucking/ Rough Sex

Same here

 

[gaydude45]

Same here

Cool, see you over there.