Male sex worker

[KeepSecret]

Soo at this point of my life i think is a good idea to start experimenting over my sexuality and stop waiting for the Mr. Perfect Prince to start doing it. I been tempted to just do it with a male sex worker, maybe that would make things easyer, faster and cleaner?

Tough given how picky i am with free men, i am afraid to be extremelly picky with sex working men and not getting into it and i a also afraid to being robbed and maybe end in pieces in some lonely road with my organs being sold in the black market....

This option also fills me with doubt as you can see and also i am not sure were to start with it (or if its a good idea or not) soo, anyone have a tip about how to start? Or an experience so share? Any sex workers in here to clear some points?

I really value all the wisdom in this forum soo i tough this would be the perfect place to talk about this.

 

[blazehourning]

I'd love to become a sex worker. Not many guys are willing to pay for it in my experience...unless you're hot as fuck.

 

[KeepSecret]

I'd love to become a sex worker. Not many guys are willing to pay for it in my experience...unless you're hot as fuck.

Mmmm yhea, well i guess its a matter of price? Like i said i would be really picky but i am not sure if thats the rigth path to go. Is deffinetly a pretty interesting subject.

 

[Jjsurp99]

Soo at this point of my life i think is a good idea to start experimenting over my sexuality and stop waiting for the Mr. Perfect Prince to start doing it. I been tempted to just do it with a male sex worker, maybe that would make things easyer, faster and cleaner?

Tough given how picky i am with free men, i am afraid to be extremelly picky with sex working men and not getting into it and i a also afraid to being robbed and maybe end in pieces in some lonely road with my organs being sold in the black market....

This option also fills me with doubt as you can see and also i am not sure were to start with it (or if its a good idea or not) soo, anyone have a tip about how to start? Or an experience so share? Any sex workers in here to clear some points?

I really value all the wisdom in this forum soo i tough this would be the perfect place to talk about this.

Don't be a sex worker not only that will destroy your self respect no man wants a whore as a partner. Just be happy work on yourself and the right guy will come to you

 

[BifuriousJoel]

Ngl, I find this idea pretty tempting myself. I'd have to go all in, tho: A really, really hot guy and hopefully one of those who's like "Btw, I have a hot friend who'd be willing to join us!" (yes, I've been browsing the sites), a real fancy and safe hotel, and we'd have to go over the minutiae to make sure they're doing the things I want done.

But all that would cost a lot of money and I'm a flat broke dude who just graduated college. Still, it's nice to dream.

 

[Jjsurp99]

Ngl, I find this idea pretty tempting myself. I'd have to go all in, tho: A really, really hot guy and hopefully one of those who's like "Btw, I have a hot friend who'd be willing to join us!" (yes, I've been browsing the sites), a real fancy and safe hotel, and we'd have to go over the minutiae to make sure they're doing the things I want done.

But all that would cost a lot of money and I'm a flat broke dude who just graduated college. Still, it's nice to dream.

Don't do this

 

[BifuriousJoel]

Don't do this

Bitch, I'm flat broke, I couldn't do it even if I wanted to.

 

[blazehourning]

Don't be a sex worker not only that will destroy your self respect no man wants a whore as a partner. Just be happy work on yourself and the right guy will come to you

Yeah, that's incorrect on every level.

 

[Jjsurp99]

Yeah, that's incorrect on every level.

So it's respectful to sell yourself

 

[blazehourning]

So it's respectful to sell yourself

This supposed destruction of self respect is actually offensive.

 

[lesshake]

This supposed destruction of self respect is actually offensive.

Look at his posting history. He's just a sex-negative, self-loathing prude who comes to this site to jerk off and then cry after. Just put him on ignore.

 

[elklindoxxx]

Soo at this point of my life i think is a good idea to start experimenting over my sexuality and stop waiting for the Mr. Perfect Prince to start doing it. I been tempted to just do it with a male sex worker, maybe that would make things easyer, faster and cleaner?

Tough given how picky i am with free men, i am afraid to be extremelly picky with sex working men and not getting into it and i a also afraid to being robbed and maybe end in pieces in some lonely road with my organs being sold in the black market....

This option also fills me with doubt as you can see and also i am not sure were to start with it (or if its a good idea or not) soo, anyone have a tip about how to start? Or an experience so share? Any sex workers in here to clear some points?

I really value all the wisdom in this forum soo i tough this would be the perfect place to talk about this.

Who ever said that you have to meet Mr Perfect to start experimenting with your sexuality. Consider trying dating other people to find a suitable mate. And learning how to cultivate relationships. That is, you have to get people to trust you before they will have any relations with you.

So I would stay away from sex workers if I were you....

 

[ILoveGames48]

If you pay for a male worker .. then you’re not to worry about what he will do.. he is there to do as you want..

Back years ago that kind of work was good money but now a days.. be lucky to get 20 bucks for a blowjob

 

[halcyondays]

If you pay for a male worker .. then you’re not to worry about what he will do.. he is there to do as you want..

Back years ago that kind of work was good money but now a days.. be lucky to get 20 bucks for a blowjob

^This. I did sex work for a while when I was young though almost all of it with women. I was there to do what they wanted--to please them not myself.

There were limits like I would do light bondage but not S&M, pee or scat. Any sex worker worth their salt will let you know what they will and won't do in advance. That's just good communication so there are no surprises and everyone wins.

 

[KeepSecret]

Don't be a sex worker not only that will destroy your self respect no man wants a whore as a partner. Just be happy work on yourself and the right guy will come to you

I dont want to be a sex worker, i want to hire one.

Ngl, I find this idea pretty tempting myself. I'd have to go all in, tho: A really, really hot guy and hopefully one of those who's like "Btw, I have a hot friend who'd be willing to join us!" (yes, I've been browsing the sites), a real fancy and safe hotel, and we'd have to go over the minutiae to make sure they're doing the things I want done.

But all that would cost a lot of money and I'm a flat broke dude who just graduated college. Still, it's nice to dream.

Money is a totally different problem yhea but money come sooner or later, tough a good service is always expensive. Also...theres something sexy on paying a man for the pleasures of his body.

Who ever said that you have to meet Mr Perfect to start experimenting with your sexuality. Consider trying dating other people to find a suitable mate. And learning how to cultivate relationships. That is, you have to get people to trust you before they will have any relations with you.

So I would stay away from sex workers if I were you....

Thats a valid point. But sadly cultivate this kind of trusts take a lot of time and most of the time the men i know dosnt share any of my kinks or are just not interested, plus if theres friendship there things could go awkard....risk a friendship for something like that is no worth it.

^This. I did sex work for a while when I was young though almost all of it with women. I was there to do what they wanted--to please them not myself.

There were limits like I would do light bondage but not S&M, pee or scat. Any sex worker worth their salt will let you know what they will and won't do in advance. That's just good communication so there are no surprises and everyone wins.

Mmmmmm but build trusts on a sex worker is also pretty difficult since some are not very profesional. Its a dangerous take for the sex worker as well.

 

[halcyondays]

Mmmmmm but build trusts on a sex worker is also pretty difficult since some are not very profesional. Its a dangerous take for the sex worker as well.

True. My early sex work happened in the hotel where I worked as a bellhop then at reception. Women invited me to their rooms after hours and soon I was getting paid for it. Later I did MT which led to sex work. I never did sex work outside those contexts. In other words I wasn't a streetwalker/hustler which is dangerous.

I didn't have to advertise my services. It happened over 30 years ago--long before internet/social media. Clients discovered me by word of mouth. They asked me for sex not the other way round. Their initial trust for me came by recommendation from others.

A lot of sex work today is advertised on the net like RentBoy. At least it gives you a chance to find someone locally you can vet in advance so you're not meeting with a perfect stranger.

 

[JiaFei_Dai]

My experiences with losing my virginity and my first kiss were ridiculous... They were basically strangers, and it was really easy to find a man to have sex with, and you really didn't have to find a prostitute. Try a dating app or just go to a gay bar

 

[ILoveGames48]

Now remember there’s a difference in a sex worker and rentboy


The main difference is sex worker is basicly a prostitute and getting paid for sex is illegal in alot of states in the USA

But there was a time.. I did stuff for money.. can’t talk about it but learn willing to do anything to keep roof over your head and food

 

[elklindoxxx]

Porn actors and strippers are sex workers but not prostitutes.

Thorough our social circles my partner and I have been solicited to perform in adult films. And I have been solicited to perform in gay scenes. They are always looking for new talent. And for 1K per scene, that's a nice side gig to have. But that's difficult work. And for me it doesn't work out because I'm a working professional, it would ruin my career. And decimate my social networks.

 

[KeepSecret]

My experiences with losing my virginity and my first kiss were ridiculous... They were basically strangers, and it was really easy to find a man to have sex with, and you really didn't have to find a prostitute. Try a dating app or just go to a gay bar

I already did that and you are rigth, is pretty easy to find a stranger for sex but i want a certain type of man who aim is my pleasure, not his (even if that dosnt included sex at all).

Porn actors and strippers are sex workers but not prostitutes.

Thorough our social circles my partner and I have been solicited to perform in adult films. And I have been solicited to perform in gay scenes. They are always looking for new talent. And for 1K per scene, that's a nice side gig to have. But that's difficult work. And for me it doesn't work out because I'm a working professional, it would ruin my career. And decimate my social networks.

Mmmm sounds like theres a lot in the line with adult films but at the same time this add a lot of excitment to the job?