Male Strippers - Advice?

[SurferShane]

So this is a little different post. My twin brother and I have been "hired" (actually doing it for free) to perform as strippers at a bachelorette party. It's just a thing for a friend, he is good friends with the maid of honor who is organizing the party and she asked him and we said what the hell, no harm in trying something new.

We're both pretty good dancers but don't have any real experience stripping (other than we like to take our clothes off haaa) so thought we'd ask to see if anybody has any tips or tricks or advice or anything like that.

Thanks!!!

 

[Alexxx_]

I can give a little, although I"m not expert. My friend and I did do some stripping at private parties for about three semesters when I was in college not that long ago so I might have a little bit of insight or tips and tricks. I always thought it was a lot of fun tbh

1. Make sure you have really good music. Thumping bass for sure. Make sure wherever you go has a good sound system. If they don't say its a house private party sitaution make sure they have a good stereo that you can access OR take a boom box or one of those portable bluetooth speakers that you can connect to. Have a good play list already on deck and ready to go. You don't want any wiating or having to fiddle with things to get it to work. Test it all in advance.

2. TAKE YOUR TIME. You are probably expected to be there for a while so don't rush into thing. Go through at least one whole song without really taking anything off, just teasing that you will. Take another whole song just to get your shirt off and work the room. Take another whole song to get your pants off. Take another two or three or even more songs once you are in your G-string or whatever you are stripping down to. If they are expecting the Full Monty you don't want to get totally naked too fast. Be teasy and do at least three songs in the G-string or briefs or jock or whatever. Besides you need a place for the girls to put tips

3. WEAR GOOD CLOTHES. You want stuff that is easy to take off obviously. Shirts that unbutton easily. Pants that you don't have to fumble with. DON'T wear shoes at all unless they are something you can slip right out of easily.

4. Shave if you are hairy. Unless the request is for a hairy guy, they are probably gonna expect a smooth buff guy. Shave your ass if it is hairy LOL.

5. STAY SOBER. There may be a bunch of drunk girls, but you should not join in that. Have a drink with them LATER maybe.

6. Don't slop on baby oil. I think people expect that but unless you are on a stage with lights like at a club there is no point in that and it just makes a mess. You don't need anything at a private party. MAYBE lotion or cocoa butter but that is enough.

7. READ THE ROOM. This is very important. You want to be able to give ALL the girls attention, but be very careful that your attention is wanted and welcome. If a girl even remotely seems that it is not, move on. Even if others are cheering her on... move on. Absolutely do NOT get your nads in the face of anyone who does not seem completely and totally 100% receptive and welcoming. Do not dare do any grinding on anyone who doesn't totally love and welcome the idea.

8. Talk to the hostess before hand make TOTALLY sure you know what is expected of you. Some might be expecting something kinda tame... just thinking they are going to see the Hot Cop or whoever take his shirt off and then dance in a speedo some. And if so that is fine of coruse. Some may be expecting you to get bareass buck naked and grinding all over everyone. FIND OUT IN ADVANCE and be blunt and upfront about it. You DEFINITELY don't want to be doing "more" than was expected of you, that could lead to a bad scene in a hurry. Conversely you don't want to give them less than they were expecting if they were all set for a much more naughty show.

9. Go with the flow. Most of us guys have been to strip clubs and such where they totally have the NO HANDS RULE!!! and it is massively enforced. That will NOT be the case with a male stripper in a group of women NOT AT ALL!!! so just be prepared for it. Expect the girls to get very handsy. Some of them may get... mouthy. Know that going in. Allow that if that's ok with you but DON'T overly encourage it especially if an audience member seems even a little bit timid about it. Lots of times other girls may egg her on and somebody might do something they had no real intention of doing and that might come back to bite you later.

Some parties might get more "adult" than others, these are my suggestins for ones that are pretty tame. If you think this one might be on the more naughty side I could have more suggestions for that. If you need that just ask.

Have fun!!!!

 

[Dirtymind13]

Magic Mike & the sequel- Have Fun!

So this is a little different post. My twin brother and I have been "hired" (actually doing it for free) to perform as strippers at a bachelorette party. It's just a thing for a friend, he is good friends with the maid of honor who is organizing the party and she asked him and we said what the hell, no harm in trying something new.

We're both pretty good dancers but don't have any real experience stripping (other than we like to take our clothes off haaa) so thought we'd ask to see if anybody has any tips or tricks or advice or anything like that.

Thanks!!!

 

[3HandsfulofDick]

So this is a little different post. My twin brother and I have been "hired" (actually doing it for free) to perform as strippers at a bachelorette party. It's just a thing for a friend, he is good friends with the maid of honor who is organizing the party and she asked him and we said what the hell, no harm in trying something new.

We're both pretty good dancers but don't have any real experience stripping (other than we like to take our clothes off haaa) so thought we'd ask to see if anybody has any tips or tricks or advice or anything like that.

Thanks!!!

DO NOT use that movie Magic Mike as a source for stripping.. That is not stripping .. it’s terrible choreography at its best.. You say you know how to dance… I would say you better, but at the same time it depends on your audience.. I suggest looking at the strippers from Chocolate City as a guide on how to sell sex and move your body .Muscles and abs alone doesn’t sell sex… The way a man moves his body does..But yet again, it depends on your audience

 

[SurferShane]

LOL yeah I was taking no inspiration from Magic Mike. Never even seen it. I think we both can move ok but I'll check that out. I've seen videos of strippers and it's pretty obvious what is hot and what is not. Really this is not a "pro" thing but just an amateur thing we are doing for brother's friend's friend. But of course we want to do a good job and as professional as possible.

And THANKKKKKKKKS Alex that was way way above and beyond, that was a great amount of great advice. And yes I think that this is expected to be more on the "naughty" side as you say or at least fully nude for part/most of it so whatever that additional advice you alluded to is more than welcome.

 

[Alexxx_]

OK a few more tips if the event turns into or is expected to be of a more adult or naughty nature. Obviously that means getting down to your birthday suit and such. Maybe more.

1. MANSCAPE plenty. Trim pubes down to a smallish reasonable sized patch. Shave around the sides and shave your balls or use hair removal cream.

2. PRACTICE. Both of you. Being good at "the helicopter" is not as easy as it looks

3. VITAMIN V. Im sure you'll be expected/want for Little Shane to be perked up, anywhere from semi to full. I know you are young and don't think you need it but if you can score some Viagra it will be your friend. You wont have to think twice about getting/keeping an erection. Take it 20-30 min before your show, or let it dissolve under your tongue

4. DONT PUSH ANYTHING. I told you before that the girls are almost guaranteed to get handsy. If the show is a little extra wild/raunchy/drunk (lol) Some may probably get mouthy too if you get my drift. If you are not ok with that it's easy enough to avoid. If you ARE ok with that, that's fine but DO NOT be the aggressor in a situation like that. If a girl wants to do something let them, but don't make the move yourself or encourage them beforehand. It could come back to haunt you. Think of it this way, if a girl puts her mouth on your dick that's ok, but if you stick your dick in a girl's mouth that is not ok. At least not AS THE FIRST MOVE.

5. WHIP CREAM can be fun. I'm talking about aerosol squirt RediWhip in the can. TBH i only did this a couple times but my buddy did it a good bit. Go around and give audience members (who want it) a squirt in the mouth. Then go around, put a little squirt in your belly button for them to lick out. I think you see where the natural progression is going, use it downstairs next. Tip tho: a little squirt goes a LONG way, you don't want too much of that on your penis as it does get a little sticky.

6. JUST SAY NO. To sex that is. If the group gets a bit rowdy and ESPECIALLY if it gets drunk you might find one or two or more girls who are DTF and think they are gonna get it. Maybe even insist. That's a big no, that's not going to end well and best not to go there. Mostly because the girls who insist on hitting the boneyard are usually pretty drunk and I would never want to be accused that they weren't capable of making good decisions and such. Just say "Thanks, maybe another time." I did this for about a year and a half (I don't know how many parties, but bunches of them) and only twice did I break my no-sex rule and those were pretty specific circumstances. One was a Birthday Gal and one was a Bachelorette they were both stone cold sober and both knew exactly what they were doing and what they wanted. That is NOT usually the case so best to make it a hard rule. I did not regret fucking either of them but in hindsight I can see how it was probably not the best decision. If you do it right stripping/dancing is kinda hard work and you probably won't want to fuck anyway. And if you are it will be VERY easy to find one of the girls to hook up with after the event, which is a much better way to go about it.

Hey let us know how it goes!

 

[SurferShane]

Thanks for the incredible advice. Responses...

1. No problem
2. No problem, we can actually both helicopter really well LOL and even stay in sync, well at least for a min
3. Yep our dad has Viagra I can probably steal two from him.
4. No problem, I totally get that
5. Good idea, someone also suggested letting girls suck tequila shots out of our bellybuttons also
6. Hmm that one might not fly, I know for a fact that the bachelorette girl is DTF for some twin luvin

 

[deleted6548771]

So this is a little different post. My twin brother and I have been "hired" (actually doing it for free) to perform as strippers at a bachelorette party. It's just a thing for a friend, he is good friends with the maid of honor who is organizing the party and she asked him and we said what the hell, no harm in trying something new.

We're both pretty good dancers but don't have any real experience stripping (other than we like to take our clothes off haaa) so thought we'd ask to see if anybody has any tips or tricks or advice or anything like that.

Thanks!!!

I'd love to hear how this went, if you have any updates...

 

[SurferShane]

Actually it was a LOT of fun. And profitable! We were doing it for free but the girls went crazy with tips and we both walked out with a good bit of cash.

I tried to take all the suggestions to heart and I think we put on a good show and everyone had fun. There were about a dozen or slightly more girls there and FORTUNATELY all of them (except maybe one) was pretty good looking (some quite hot) so we didn't mind getting a little overly flirty one bit. Fortunately the bride was REALLY good looking (I mean quite quite hot actually) which was good since she was expecting the FTE (full twin experience...haa).

I had a lifeguard outfit (tank, red boardie shorts, speedo under than, thong under that, rescue can, ring life preserver), and my bro SOMEhow managed to score a real cop uniform from a buddy of his and I think I got the smarter deal there because the uniform was thick and clunky and not easy to take off. They didn't stay on long but was a fun start.

Weridely enough we found a whole bunch of videos on YouTube that are from the Male Stripper Academy or something like that, basically how-to videos on how to be a male stripper. You can pay more to get more of them, but there were plenty of free ones and they had a lot of good tips and tricks and moves and such. I really recommend those if anyone wants to try it.

Only complaints were that it was kinda hot in the place we were in, I don't think the air was working good or turned down enough, but I guess getting kinda sweaty is part of it. Also I thought it was too bright some darker mood lighting would have been good but hey at least get to see the show. We stripped/danced for about 25-30 min, tried to give the group and all the girls attention, then abut another half hour just for the bride. Then the official "show" was over but we still hung around for I guess another hour because every body was having a lot of fun. Only problem was that we had both taken Viagra (actually generic) so still had these rock boners that didnt make getting dressed at the end conducive or comfortable haaaa but i guess that's an ok problem to have.

Together we made almost $500 bucks which was pretty awesome for just having silly fun. OH and one of the girls who happens to be quite hot wants to hook up with us again but we haven't gotten up with her yet but definitely will.

Well that's the report. All good. No drama.

 

[deleted6548771]

Actually it was a LOT of fun. And profitable! We were doing it for free but the girls went crazy with tips and we both walked out with a good bit of cash.

I tried to take all the suggestions to heart and I think we put on a good show and everyone had fun. There were about a dozen or slightly more girls there and FORTUNATELY all of them (except maybe one) was pretty good looking (some quite hot) so we didn't mind getting a little overly flirty one bit. Fortunately the bride was REALLY good looking (I mean quite quite hot actually) which was good since she was expecting the FTE (full twin experience...haa).

I had a lifeguard outfit (tank, red boardie shorts, speedo under than, thong under that, rescue can, ring life preserver), and my bro SOMEhow managed to score a real cop uniform from a buddy of his and I think I got the smarter deal there because the uniform was thick and clunky and not easy to take off. They didn't stay on long but was a fun start.

Weridely enough we found a whole bunch of videos on YouTube that are from the Male Stripper Academy or something like that, basically how-to videos on how to be a male stripper. You can pay more to get more of them, but there were plenty of free ones and they had a lot of good tips and tricks and moves and such. I really recommend those if anyone wants to try it.

Only complaints were that it was kinda hot in the place we were in, I don't think the air was working good or turned down enough, but I guess getting kinda sweaty is part of it. Also I thought it was too bright some darker mood lighting would have been good but hey at least get to see the show. We stripped/danced for about 25-30 min, tried to give the group and all the girls attention, then abut another half hour just for the bride. Then the official "show" was over but we still hung around for I guess another hour because every body was having a lot of fun. Only problem was that we had both taken Viagra (actually generic) so still had these rock boners that didnt make getting dressed at the end conducive or comfortable haaaa but i guess that's an ok problem to have.

Together we made almost $500 bucks which was pretty awesome for just having silly fun. OH and one of the girls who happens to be quite hot wants to hook up with us again but we haven't gotten up with her yet but definitely will.

Well that's the report. All good. No drama.

Thanks for the update! Got a few questions about specifics, haha

1. Did you get fully nude for the performance
2. Did any of the girls stroke or suck you
3. What did the "Full Twin Experience" include?
4. What were the girls reactions to you both sporting hardons?
5. Had your brother ever hooked up with this friend before? and if not, how did she react to seeing her previously platonic friend naked/near naked and hard?
6. Were there any dudes at the party, and how did they react to the "entertainment"?

Thanks again!

 

[Alexxx_]

Hey Shane let me add to the questions from bc_vb_cb...

7. What was your go-to song, fav for dancing?
8. What was the venue?
9. Was the bachelorette's Full Twin Experience in the middle of the show, or did you go off somewhere else? In my two experiences with that, have done one of each.
10. Have you hooked up with that one girl yet? Or anyone else?
11. Would you do it again (stripping I mean)?

Good job!
Alex

 

[SurferShane]

Hey guys wow a lot of questions, I will try to answer them.

1. Yes. Worked up to that through about 4 songs before getting down to our birthday suits.

2. Yes and yes. Probably about half.

3. Hahaha professional secret, but probably what you guess is exactly it. She was a hell cat. Super good looking too, former model. That's how we knew of her, her friend who is my bro's friend they all had the same modeling agency as him in the past.

4. Lot's of giggling, squealing, hands over face, pretending not to look but still looking. Everybody seemed to have fun.

5. No I don't THINK so. She seemed to be having a good time along with the others. I think she had probably at least seen him naked before, hot tubbing or skinny dipping or parties or whatever. Not sure.

6. No dudes. I wouldn't care, but it was just the girls

7. There were a bunch of good ones but Uptown Funk seems to work well

8. It was the club house they rented at an apartment complex.

9. Separate room that we went off to. I think the bride wanted to stay in the main room with the party but we went into another private room. I didn't care either way but my bro was shy

10. No not her we haven't yet but plan to. The bride did invite us back to her place after the party though She lives in the same complex.

11. I would absolutely. I think my bro would too. No one has asked yet though haa. Maybe we should advertise or get some biz cards. I don't know if the situation would ever come up again, but very glad we did it. One of those crazy kinda bucket list things that you are glad you did at least once.

 

[Alexxx_]

Sounds great. Anything you would do differently next time? Or regret?

 

[deleted6548771]

Hey guys wow a lot of questions, I will try to answer them.

1. Yes. Worked up to that through about 4 songs before getting down to our birthday suits.

2. Yes and yes. Probably about half.

3. Hahaha professional secret, but probably what you guess is exactly it. She was a hell cat. Super good looking too, former model. That's how we knew of her, her friend who is my bro's friend they all had the same modeling agency as him in the past.

4. Lot's of giggling, squealing, hands over face, pretending not to look but still looking. Everybody seemed to have fun.

5. No I don't THINK so. She seemed to be having a good time along with the others. I think she had probably at least seen him naked before, hot tubbing or skinny dipping or parties or whatever. Not sure.

6. No dudes. I wouldn't care, but it was just the girls

7. There were a bunch of good ones but Uptown Funk seems to work well

8. It was the club house they rented at an apartment complex.

9. Separate room that we went off to. I think the bride wanted to stay in the main room with the party but we went into another private room. I didn't care either way but my bro was shy

10. No not her we haven't yet but plan to. The bride did invite us back to her place after the party though She lives in the same complex.

11. I would absolutely. I think my bro would too. No one has asked yet though haa. Maybe we should advertise or get some biz cards. I don't know if the situation would ever come up again, but very glad we did it. One of those crazy kinda bucket list things that you are glad you did at least once.

Thank you for answering our questions!
I have a couple more to follow up (in addition to Alex's questions)

1. Did the sucking and jerking occur in full view of everyone, or only when you went off to the private room?
2. Did any cumming occur?
3. How did you prep for the show? Shaving, tanning, taking anything (beside the V)?

 

[deleted6548771]

In my two experiences with that, have done one of each.

Anything you could share from your experiences, Alex?

 

[Alexxx_]

Good additional questions. Also, how did y'all know for sure the bachelorette was DTF? That's a slippery slope!

 

[SurferShane]

Hi Guys I will try to answer..

Different? Yeah a few things maybe. We would probably try to come up with more real routines and maybe better actual choreography. This was mostly kinda freestyle LOL. Which was fine for a freebie show but if someone wanted a "real" show it would probably need more rehearsal time. We rehearsed some but probably not enough. Second we would probably take longer to strip, more teasy. Third I would get a better g-string. I just had thong underwear and they were too tight and just kinda squashed everything. Fortunately only had it on for one song. Bro Joey had a better one, not sure where he got it. It had more of an actual pouch which was more "bouncy" but was still tight enough to show some junk details.

Regrets? Not really, maybe except for the Redi-Wip. We tried the suggestion of Redi-Wip in the belly button for girls to lick out which was an excellent suggestion but had a couple of problems. We should have had a cooler or something to keep it cold, because it had warmed up and was a little bit runny. Also, need to see if they make a non-fat or sugar free version of it because it got a little sticky. It was fun though.

As for bc-vb-cb's questions...

1. Yes, main room.
2. No we did not cum in the "main show" only in the private room
3. Did not tan, this is summer in SoCal so we were both pretty tan. We are pretty smooth boyz so didn't really have to shave anything, pretty much just have armpits, pubes and bit of happy trail under the belly button. We did manscape some just the pubes to get them down to a smaller tight patch. Joey trimmed his some a little more the next day, just kinda experimenting. He came up with a tight patch that looked good tho I think it needs shaving the happy trail too. But the patch looked good and his dick looked good with it so I would probably do a little more next time.

Alex's last question...

DTF? well when the bride was getting her lap dance in the center chair she pulled her dress up and pulled her panties down so that was clue #1 hahahahaaaa. Plus Joey had got a text from his/her friend before hand confirming that she had a IUD and had also put some spermicide stuff up in her cooter so it was definitely what she wanted. Oh also she had gotten waxed the day before and man that pussy was smooth as glass except for a a little tuft of a landing strip. nice. her bf/fiance/hub is a lucky man.

 

[Rustyridge]

Thanks for answering the questions. Sounds like you and your brother had a great time. I did a little stripping in my late 20's. It was a lot of fun.

 

[deleted6548771]

Thanks for answering the questions. Sounds like you and your brother had a great time. I did a little stripping in my late 20's. It was a lot of fun.

Any stories you could share, Rusty?

 

[SurferShane]

Whoo hooo! We've got two more gigs!!! Might need to get some biz cards