I’d tell them to do one and mind their own business…. It’s comfortable, I don’t go around telling people to cover up, or pull their jeans up, tick their thong away…If your in public and your man spreading and another man or woman told you to close your legs what would you do.
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LolAlso ironically, probably due to some self awareness i practice due to my male privilege, in public places I often make an effort to pay attention if such a wide seated stance(or a purse next to them in the case of women) is an indication of uncomfortability with such close proximity to others in a public space and I make an effort to respect that even if it means my own temporary discomfort for a time by standing instead of sitting.