44 married and grown bi-curious over the years. I’ve never done anything with another guy but have been thinking about what it would be like to try. I feel somewhat sexually unfulfilled but don’t know how to fix that. I’m happily married otherwise.
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Not sure tbh….curious to see a bud get off, help him get there. Him do the same for me.
Not going to encourage you to step out - that's on you. I do recommend that if you do so you take the time to find somebody who is willing to work with you and show you the ropes...no pun intended. I don't have a ton of experience but most of the men I have bottomed for have all been married. My experience is that many married men over 40+ are sex-starved as they aren't getting enough, if any, at home and just need an outlet of some sort.
Sex is a human need.
Sex is a human need.
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It's better to experiment and get clarity than to let the curiosity turn into resentment.
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My bi curiosity stated in my late 30s. Eventually I had an opportunity to try it with a gay couple. There was no turning it off after getting a taste of real cock. I'm 63 now and crave it more than ever!
Be careful if you take that step, but there seems to be many married middle age men with bi desires!
Be careful if you take that step, but there seems to be many married middle age men with bi desires!
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Maybe tentatively test the ground with your wife, “accidentally” put on some bi mmf porn say and see how she reacts. You never know, she’ll have fantasies of her own, one might be seeing you with another guy.
I don’t know what ur wife is like - does she go thru ur phone? In the past I had another twitter/x account that I used purely to use to watch gay porn, meet men, talk dirty and jerkoff on spaces with other guys. I’ve also had private chats, voice calls with straight, bi, gay guys. Mainly did this while partner is at work or running errands. But expect that u may make friends and grow attached and ur marriage suffer (possibly). I’d rather u focus on what u want from ur wife. Are u not sexually fulfilled? Maybe a kink or toys u want to try?
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