Married guys how often

[deleted817718]

Around twice a week, some times less, rarely more. My wife knows. We don’t have an active sex life anymore, so she’s fine with it as long as I keep it to myself

 

[hard8c]

5 times a week, when I get tired of it I just go out in to the living room and face fuck her

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

Though I haven't masturbated since the beginning of the year, but when I did, she pretty much surmised I was doing it even if it wasn't exactly a topic of discussion.

 

[Hardyx1]

2-3 time a week. she know.

 

[deleted17237241]

It really varies tbh. Sometimes we have more sex than usual (5 times in a week would be relatively a lot) which I find either more than fulfills my needs, or makes me that much hornier, and so I'll spare her because at that point things are a bit sore. Sometimes I'll do it with her watching, especially if we sitting together and I get a little carried away. She's a good sport and likes watching, so she'll talk dirty and chip in a bit.

If we're in a more dry spell, usually every other day or so, but can sometimes go a good few days without. Sometimes it's good to let the reservoir fill back up lol

 

[NYC8"]

2-3 times a week. And she definitely knows, when we first started dating I would jerk off to watching her walk around naked, change, shower, etc., and sometimes when we were lying in bed together as I narrated out loud a sexy fantasy about her. As time passed she was no longer into that, but she isn't blind and can certainly see the cum on my side of the bed. It's not uncommon for me to jerk off during my morning shower and she often sees me during that... sometimes she will come over and talk to me about whatever, nothing sexual, just the schedule for the day, and we'll have a normal conversation as I'm jerking off right next to her. I say "Hang on a second" while I'm cumming, then when I'm done we get back to talking.

 

[merc41]

She doesn't like it when I jo in private. She wants to join in and help.

 

[frog980]

I will at least twice a week, sometimes as much as every day if I can't get any from her. Normally she doesn't like to have sex when the kids are home, she has a fear of being caught, so sex is the occasional night she's up real late, or maybe once a week when the kids are at a grandma's.

When I do masterbate, the wife doesn't know. I think she does know I do it, she has never seen me do it. I always do it in private. Would be easier if I could do it with her in the room but I don't know what she'd think about that. I do know she does sometimes when I'm at work and the kids are gone. I asked her about it once if she ever used her toy when I'm not home. She says she does when shes reading as some of the stories really get her in the mood.

 

[pornbud36]

A few times a week when I get or can make some private time. She doesn't like it when she knows I have been jerking....which is silly.

 

[bigbucky]

once or twice a week. I'm 70 now and after I got married I didn't masterbate at all. I had sex with my wife several times a day for years. our sex life has slowed way down, almost non-existent. so now I'm back to my teen years....lol

 

[jprings0219]

Sex once a week or so then I jack it the other days. She probably knows.

 

[londonlad1990]

Twice a week, I don't think she knows. Last night I woke up horny in the middle of the night and noticed she'd gone to breastfeed so started wanking. Didn't finish before she got back so had to carry on quietly. No clean up possible without alerting her so pretty gross, but I figured no different to when I had wet dreams as a teen.

 

[deleted17481971]

Once or twice a day and that’s on top of having sex five/six Times a week (trying for a kid). My sex drive is just massively higher than the wife

Yeah mate we are designed that way!

 

[thickcockjames]

Ummmm, not married yet, but been with my fiancé for 2 years, getting married sometime soon. haha.

I masterbate a few times a week probably. My partner and I know that it's a healthy thing to do, and necessary to do from time to time. I certainly dated people who believed masterbating was like cheating, and I don't agree with that. Sometimes I just rub one out in the shower, or while she's out.

I used to get in my head about it. Like, if I masterbate will that make me not want to have sex with my partner later? Or should I masterbate to keep my sexual desires up, or whatever.

In the end, it didn't matter. Sometimes I just wanted to rub one out. haha.

 

[Wankaddict37]

3 to 4 times a week. I think she knows but doesn't say anything. I tend to do it when she's working upstairs.

 

[deleted814719]

Early in our marriage, I masturbated occasionally because we had PIV sex so often. As the years went by and we had kids, work hours were long, kids' got very involved in sports, etc., I masturbated even more always privately because PIV sex became less frequent - at least not as frequent as I would have liked. Why did I masturbate? To release sexual tension, to relax, to enjoy that few moments of euphroia that comes with an orgasm.

Now retired and in my late 60s, I masturbate to orgasm 2-3 times weekly. I edge every day and enjoy the build-up, seeing my precum ooze, and going through the cycle of hard-to-soft-to-hard, etc. I do most of my play in private while my wife is sleeping or is out of the house, but I do masturbate with her watching and participating. When penetrative sex isn't on the menu, she'll either give me head or a handjob or if there's a time crunch (weird since we're both completely retired!), I'll stroke while she plays with my balls and taint. So, she definitely knows that I masturbate.

 

[Wh0_Dee]

It really depends. I can go weeks without masturbating or sex then have two weeks go by when I am stroking my dick everyday. Some of that comes from being in a long distance relationship for about 10 years where sex wasn't a weekly (or even monthly option) so I built up a tolerance for how horny I got. My wife knows that I masturbate but probably not the frequency.

 

[Cooper72]

If I’m on dayshift it’s very rare that I masturbate. When I work nightshift it’s almost an every morning when I get home thing. During the week when she is working we pass each other in the driveway morning and afternoon so sex is almost nonexistent. Masturbation seems to help me fall asleep quicker.

 

[rbi99]

Many times when my wife is going down on me she takes my hand and moves it to my penis so that I can beat off into her mouth. I do occasionally masturbate, but I don't mention it to her. I mean, "Honey, I'm feeling really horny right now, I'll be back down after I beat off". If she ever asked - and she hasn't - I would tell her. On the other hand, I have never asked her if she does. When we are making love she uses her Hitachi vibrator that I bought for her on herself and cums repeatedly. I truly get off having my fingers inside her vagina and feeling all of those contractions.

 

[goander]

Daily + . Yes she knows. We masturbate together also. Sex 2-3 times a week.